Akukho nto ishiyekileyo ukuba umntwana wakho aye kule nkampu yasehlotyeni ekudala ephupha ngayo. Sele bakunikile incwadana apho babeka khona yonke imisebenzi kunye namava abaya kuphila kuwo kwaye abanakulinda ixesha elide. Iya kuba ngamava amnandi ehlotyeni kude nekhaya!
Nangona kunjalo, khumbula ukuba eyona nto ilungileyo kukuba iinkampu zenzelwe iintsuku ezimbalwa kuba kufanelekile ukuba abantwana nabo bonwabele amava osapho kwiiholide zasehlotyeni.
Umntwana wakho uyoyika malunga nokuqala kwaye unokuba novalo malunga nokuba uza kuba njani engekho ekhaya. Ngaba umntwana wakho ukulungele ngokwenene ukuphila ezi ntlobo zamava? Ngaba uya kukukhumbula? Ungathini ukuba uyakudinga kwaye awukho secaleni kwakhe? Kukho amathandabuzo amaninzi oza kuba nawo ngoku engqondweni yakho kwaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Ngokwenyani, bobabini abazali nabantwana kufuneka bonwabele umzuzu kunye namava.
Ezinye zezitshixo zokuba abantwana bakho bonwabele amava zezi zilandelayo:
- Umntwana kufuneka athathe inxaxheba kukhetho lwenkampu, yezinto oza kuzithatha, zokulungiselela ubhaka wakho kunye nokugcina izinto zakho, njl.
- Njengabazali, kuya kufuneka uqiniseke nge-100% ukuba lukhetho olufanelekileyo. Ukuba kukho into ehamba ngengqondo yakho engeyona ndlela ilungileyo, kuyakufuneka ukuba "ulahle imishini".
- Nika umntwana wakho ukuzithemba kunye nokukhuseleka ngaphambi kwamava. Thetha nabaphathi, thetha ngazo zonke izinto abaza kuzenza kunye nezicwangcisiweyo. Mhlawumbi umntwana wakho unokungazithembi kuba uza kujongana neemeko ezingaziwayo, kwezi meko uzakufuna ukuba umnike ukhuseleko kwaye umxelele ukuba uyamthemba kunye neenqobo zakhe.
- Fowunela utyelele umntwana wakho xa kukho imfuneko, ngakumbi ukuba ziinkampu ezinde. Kodwa gcina ulungelelwano ukuze uzive ukhululekile kodwa kwangaxeshanye ukonwabele utyelelo olwenzileyo.