Yintoni unobangela wokutshintsha kweemvakalelo kulutsha?

Ixesha lokufikisa ayiloxesha elilula. Nawuphi na umzali oye wadlula kuyo uyazi ukuba lixesha lotshintsho olukhulu apho ibhondi ebibanjelwe kude kube lelo xesha ibonakala ngathi itshintsha ngezinga elikhawulezayo. Inkqubo ye- Ukutshintsha kweemvakalelo kulutsha babe yimali eqhelekileyo, nabani na ophumayo nothethayo angaba neentloni, abo babedla ngokusixelela zonke iimfihlo zabo bavala umnyango wegumbi ngokukrokra kwaye ngokungathi, ngequbuliso, besiphantse singabaziyo kwaba bantu batsha kude kube kutshanje amantshontsho ebesiwamanga kaninzi-ninzi.

Ewe kunjalo, le nyani ayisoloko isenzeka, kukho abantu abancinci kunye nabantu abancinci, nangona kunjalo Ukutshintsha kweemvakalelo kwinqanaba lokufikisa Ziqhelekile kwaye zinxibelelene ngokusondeleyo nenkqubo yokukhula kwabantwana bethu.

IHormones, inoxanduva lokuphambana okungaka

Izizathu? Ewe, kulula: ukufikisa linqanaba apho inkqubo yokuvuthwa iya nzulu kuzo zonke iindawo, ukusuka kwifayile ye- utshintsho lomzimba ngokwasengqondweni nangokwesondo. Kukho i Uhlaziyo lwehomoni ethi inike iimpawu zayo zokuqala xa ufikisa kodwa ikhule ngesantya esikhawulezayo kweli nqanaba, kunye notshintsho lwangaphakathi olufikisayo kulutsha.

Nangona kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuva abazali bekhalaza ngokungazi ukuba mabenze ntoni kwaye indlela yokuphatha ulutsha lwakhoNgabo nabo basokolayo enyameni yabo - abanye besazi ngakumbi, abanye bengaqondi - oku kukhula kuphawula ukutshintsha kwemithetho kunye nokujonga imeko yezentlalo kunye neyosapho. Abafikisayo bafuna indawo yabo emhlabeni kwaye bakuphumeze oku, ngandlela thile kufuneka bahlukane nabazali babo, okanye ubuncinci bamisele umgama onobuqili ukuze ezabo "iziqu" ezizezona zinokuzalwa. Olu tshintsho qhayisa iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo kunye nokuphendula, Ukusuka kumgama okhankanywe apha ngasentla ukuya kumsindo, ixhala, ukothuka okanye uxinzelelo.

Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, ukufikisa kuthetha umceli mngeni omkhulu kubazali, ekufuneka bafundise ukwenzakalisa umntwana kude kube lelo xesha yayingumntwana wabo ukuba amkele kwaye ahambe nomntu ofikisayo namhlanje kwaye, nangona kukho iimpendulo, usafuna ukwenjenjalo.

Ukusuka emzimbeni ukuya kutshintsho lweemvakalelo

Into yokuqala esiyiqaphelayo njengabazali phambi kwabantwana bethu abakwishumi elivisayo ziinguqu zabo zomzimba, inkqubo ebisenzeka ukusukela kwinqanaba lokufikisa kodwa ikhawuleze ngeli xesha kwaye ayisoloko yamkelwa kakuhle ngabantu abancinci. Imizimba iyatshintsha kwaye kuya kufuneka uvumelane nayo, uyi ukukhula kweenwele kunye nokubonakala kweempawu zesondo zesibini eyona idume kakubi. Inkqubo ye- Amazwi amakhwenkwe ayatshintsha kwaye amasende abo ayakhula njengoko beqala ukuphuma ejaculate. Kwimeko yabafazi, ixesha lokuqala kunye nokukhula kwebele zezona mpawu zibonakalayo.

Kodwa kule nyaniso ebonakalayo kufuneka sidibanise ukwamkelwa ngokutsha komzimba wakho kunye nokuvuselelwa ngokwesondo kude kube lelo xesha wayengekho. Umzimba womzimba ubaluleke kakhulu kwaye oku kuchaphazela iinkalo ezininzi, nakumaqela abakowabo.

Kwimpembelelo yomzimba kuyongezwa utshintsho lweemvakalelo kulutsha, ukuba ngoku baya lazi ngakumbi ilizwe elibangqongileyo kwaye inkxalabo yokuqala ibonakala, isidingo semfihlo kunye nehlabathi elitsha langaphakathi ekufuneka balinganise nelangaphandle. Yiyo loo nto Ukutshintsha kweemvakalelo ngesiquphe kulutsha, Ukusukela umsindo kunye nosizi kulonwabo kwangoko, ukuhleka kakhulu, okanye ukucaphuka. Zonke iimpawu zesigaba esiqhelekileyo.

Utshintsho kwindlela yokuziphatha

Ekugqibeleni, Ngexesha lokufikisa kukho utshintsho olwenzekayo, kancinci kancinci abantu abatsha baqala phuhlisa ukucinga okungabonakaliyo, ngoku ebavumela ukuba bajonge iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokujonga kwaye balumkise ngeziphumo ezinokubakho zezenzo. Inqanaba apho, ngandlela thile, inkohliso yobuntwana obugqibeleleyo ilahlekile ukuqonda ilizwe lokwenene kunye nokusingqongileyo, okubangela utshintsho kwindlela yokuziphatha, Ukusukela khangela inkululeko ukugqiba ukuzazisa, ukunyuka ngokweemvakalelo kunye nokuhla, ukungqubana ngesiquphe, okanye iiyure ezingaphezulu zokulala.


Kufuneka wenze ntoni phambi konyana okwishumi elivisayo?

ubungozi beminxeba kulutsha
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Ifowuni ephathekayo kulutsha, siyilawula njani?

Ewe, impendulo ilula ngokuthelekiswa nayo Ukutshintsha kwemeko yolutsha: bonisa olo thando ukho ngonaphakade, sibaxhase abantwana bethu, sihambelane nabo kwaye sibahloniphe njengabantu kodwa kwangaxeshanye, phawula imida kakuhle, ngaphandle kobundlobongela kunye nengxoxo eninzi. Akukho manyano ungcono kunokwazi ukubabuyisela kwakhona ngebhalansi yokuhamba nabo kolu hambo lutsha.


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