Ukudlala ngokubanzi nabazali kunokuba luncedo kubo bobabini isini, rhoqo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Kubantwana, yindlela yokufunda ukunxibelelana ngokomzimba kungengobundlobongela okanye isondo. Kumantombazana, kukufumana indlela yokuqinisekisa ukuba ilizwi lakho liyaviwa.
Ukuba abantwana bakho badlala ngokurhabaxa notata wabo kwaye uyoyika, kuya kufuneka kuqala ugcine engqondweni ukuba kulungile kubo okoko nje kusenziwa ngononophelo nentlonipho kubantwana. Ke xa udlala ngale ndlela, ungalibali ukuhlala uzolile.
Hlala uzolile xa abantwana bedlala ngokurhabaxa noyise
- Thatha imeko yendalo esingqongileyo. Gcina abantwana bakho kude neendawo abanokwenzakala kuzo. Kwakhona, yazi ukuba amalungu omntwana athambekele ekonzakaleni ngexesha lokudlala ngokurhabaxa. Kufuneka ulumke.
- Vumela umdlalo opheleleyo ungahambeli kude ukunqanda iziphumo ezibi njengokuzenzakalisa.
- Sukudlala ngokungalunganga ngaphambi kokulala. Abantwana bafuna ixesha lokuphumla ngaphambi kokuba balale ukuze bazole.
- Imidlalo yeGross yeyamantombazana nayo. Nangona amakhwenkwe ngokwendalo athambekele ekudlaleni imidlalo erhabaxa, kuya kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba awushiye amantombazana ngaphandle kolonwabo. Uphononongo lubonisa ukuba amantombazana adlala nabazali bawo azithembe ngakumbi kunamantombazana angadlaliyo. Kwaye ezinye izifundo zide zibonise ukuba ukudlala ngokuqatha kunokuthintela ingelosi yakho encinci ukuba ibeyintombazana embi eyoyikisa amanye amantombazana ngokwengqondo.
Ekugqibeleni, ukudlala ngokurhabaxa kunokoyikisa, kodwa kunyanzelekile ukuba kwenzeke kakuhle- yonke intshukumo kunye nendlela yokunceda inceda ukwakha amandla, ubhetyebhetye, kunye nokufunda okunzima kwemoto, kunye noxinzelelo, ukufaneleka komzimba kunye nokulungelelanisa.
Ukongeza, ukuphosa abantwana emoyeni nokubasonta kubabonelela ngovuselelo lwangaphambi kwexesha (igalelo lomzimba wabo xa lifumana intshukumo okanye ubunzima), ebalulekileyo ekulinganiseni kwaye inokuba yinto ebalulekileyo kwimbaleki yexesha elizayo.
Ngokusebenzisa imidlalo egwenxa ukuphucula unxibelelwano kunye nokufundisa amaxabiso aphembelela isimo sengqondo sabantwana ekhaya, noontanga babo, nasesikolweni, singafunda indlela abasabela ngayo empumelelweni, ekusileleni, nakwimiqobo, kwaye sinokwakha iqhina elikhethekileyo ukubakhokela kwiingxaki. Sibeka iziseko zokuphucula ubudlelwane esinabo ngoku kunye nobudlelwane bezizukulwana ezilandelayo.