Molweni bafundi! Ndiyathemba ukuba ucinga ngombuzo kwisihloko sesithuba. Mhlawumbi uyazibuza ukuba ungantoni lo mbuzo. Ewe, ikhona impendulo. Ndinabahlobo abaliqela abanabantwana abaneminyaka emithathu ubudala abangakhange baye nakwesiphi na isikolo sabantwana abancinci kwaye andizimiselanga kwenjenjalo. Eso sigqibo senziwa kunye namaqabane abo, kwaye ke kufuneka sihlonitshwe. Nangona kunjalo, abayifumananga inkxaso yeentsapho zabo. Ootatomkhulu babantwana bathi ngabazukulwana babo "Babeza kuba ngaphantsi krelekrele kwaye savvy."
Ngokucacileyo, bendihlala ndicinga ngala mazwi. "Abantwana abangayiyo kwisikolo sabantwana abancinci banobuqili kwaye banolwazi." Kodwa khange babe nokugxekwa kuphela kwiintsapho zabo kodwa nakwizihlobo zabo ezininzi ukusukela oko baveza: "umntwana wam unentlalontle ngakumbi kuba uya kwisikolo sabantwana abancinci". «Ewe, ndamthatha unyana wam xa wayeneminyaka emibini ubudala kwaye ujikeleza kaliwaka kwabo bahlala ekhaya». Thatha ngoku! Inyani yile yokuba andazi ukuba la magqabantshintshi asekwe phi kodwa ndicinga ukuba ayilunganga.
Nokuba abantwana baya kwisikolo sabantwana abancinci okanye hayi kuxhomekeke kusapho
Okokuqala oko. Ukuba abazali babantwana bagqiba ekubeni bangabathabathi abantwana babo baye nakwesiphi na isikolo sabantwana, kuxhomekeke kubo. Kwaye ukuba bathatha isigqibo ngenye indlela, kunjalo. Kubonakala ngathi kukho abantu abangena ebomini babanye njengo "Pedro wendlu yakhe" kwaye akunjalo. Kulungile ukunika ingcebiso okanye uluvo kodwa akulunganga ukuxelela nabani na ukuba enze ntoni kwaye asebenzise iziseko ezingeyonyani kwaphela. Ke ngoko, amagqabantshintshi afana nala endikhe ndawakhankanya ayabekwa ndawo. Okanye ubuncinci zezam.
Abantwana bafunda izakhono zentlalo naphi na hayi kuphela kwisikolo sabantwana abancinci
Yothusa! Ukusukela nini ukuba sisikolo sabantwana abancinci kuphela kwendawo apho abantwana banokuhlala khona? Ukuchaza ukuba "abantwana abafunda kwisikolo sabantwana abancinci baneentloni kwaye bavulelekile" yinto engekho ngqiqweni. Abantwana babahlobo bam bavulekile kakhulu kwaye banentlalontle kwaye njengoko ndikuxelela, abakalubeki unyawo kwigumbi lokufundela okwangoku. Nangona kunjalo, ndiyabazi abantwana abaya kwizikolo zabantwana abaneminyaka emibini kwaye baneentloni kakhulu ukuthetha nabanye. Ke ngoko, Asinakuthi umntwana uneentloni ngakumbi nangaphantsi xa esiya kwisikolo sabantwana abancinci.
Ukuya kwisikolo sabantwana abancinci akuthethi ukuba abantwana baya kuba krelekrele
Unyana wommelwane uqale esikolweni kulo nyaka. Kwaye yayilixesha lokuqala ukuba ndiye kwiziko lemfundo. Ucele ukunciphisa iiyure zokusebenza kwaye akwazi ukusebenza ekhaya kwaye inkampani yamkela. Yena neqabane lakhe bagqiba ekubeni bangamthathi unyana wabo baye nakwesiphi na isikolo sabantwana. Iintsapho zakhe azivumelani kwaye bathi inkwenkwe izakuba neengxaki ezininzi ukuqala kwakhe isikolo. Njengokuba, Akazange abe neengxaki kuphela, kodwa ootitshala kunye nomntwana omncinci bavuyisiwe ngexesha lekhosi.
Khange abenangxaki yokufunda, yentlalontle, okanye yokuhlangana. Ngokuchasene noko! Ukulungelelaniswa kuye kwamnandi kwaye umntwana uqalile (kwaye waligqiba) ibanga lokuqala ndonwabe kakhulu, ndonwabile kwaye ndinamabanga amahle. Kwimeko yam, andizange ndiye kwisikolo sabantwana abancinci de ndaneminyaka emihlanu ubudala. Kwaye andinangxaki esikolweni. Nangona kunjalo, kukho abantwana abaye kwizikolo zabantwana abancinci kwaye utshintsho esikolweni lubafumene (uxinzelelo, uxinzelelo, ukukhubazeka ...).
Isikolo sabantwana abancinci: ukufumanisa, ukulingwa kunye nokufunda okusebenzayo
Ndingumfundisi-ntsapho kwaye ndiyabuthanda ubungcali. Ukuba kukho abazali abafuna ukuthatha abantwana babo baye kubo Izikolo zabantwana abancinci ukuzenza zikrelekrele kwaye zikrelekrele, ndicinga ukuba ziyaphazama. Awuyi kwisikolo sabantwana abancinci ukuze ube nobukrelekrele ngakumbi okanye kancinci. Abancinci kufuneka baye khona ukuze bafumane izinto ezintsha, ukuzama, ukuphanda kunye nokufunda ngokusebenzayo. Nangona kunjalo, zikho iintsapho ezilindele lukhulu. "Hayi, unyana wam uneminyaka emithathu kwaye khange afunde ukubhala," "awuzukufundisa abantwana ukongeza nokukhupha?"
Njengokuba kufuneka bafunde ukubhala nokwenza imisebenzi esisiseko xa babeneminyaka emine ubudala! Emva koko into engenakuthinteleka yenzeke: Ukuba abantwana banyanzelwa ukuba bafunde ngaphambi kwexesha labo okanye ngokungachanekanga, ukukhutshwa kwisimo sedemokhrasi kunye nokuphoxeka esikolweni kuyaqinisekiswa. Kukho abo bangayiqondiyo into yokuba umntwana ngamnye unesantya sakhe sokufunda. Kwaye ngelishwa, ayihlonitshwa kuzo zonke iimeko. Yenye into ukukhuthaza nokukhuthaza umdla ekufundeni ukususela ebuntwaneni kwaye enye kukuthetha "Kufuneka ufunde ukufunda xa uneminyaka emine ubudala, ewe okanye ewe." Sele ndikuxelele ukuba ngaloo ndlela abancinci abayi kuba nomdla kuyo nantoni na.