Kuyaqondakala ukuba abazali banoloyiko xa unyana okanye intombi yabo ingafikeleli kwimiba ephambili yophuhliso ngaxeshanye noontanga babo. Kukho isiganeko esibalulekileyo ngokukodwa abazali abaxhalabele kakhulu ngaso: ukufunda ukuthetha. Uninzi lwabantu lucinga ukuba ukulibaziseka kolwimi okanye ukuphazamiseka kwentetho kuya kuba nefuthe elide kwikhono lomntwana lokuphumelela esikolweni nangaphezulu. Kodwa imeko ebizwa ngokuba yi-Einstein syndrome ibonisa ukuba oku akusoloko kunjalo. Kule meko ikhethekileyo, kunokuthiwa abantwana abacothayo ukuthetha bakrelekrele ngakumbi.
I-Einstein syndrome ibizwa ngegama lika-Albert Einstein, ingcali eqinisekisiweyo kwaye, ngokutsho kwabanye ababhali bayo, isithethi sasemva kwexesha esingazange sithethe izivakalisi ezipheleleyo ngaphambi kweminyaka emi-5. Xa siqwalasela umzekelo kaEinstein, kwakucingwa ukuba abantwana abaqalisa ukuthetha kamva bakrelekrele ngakumbi., elandela emanyathelweni ale nzululwazi idumileyo. Nakuba kunjalo, isengumbandela oxhalabisa abazali.
Ngaba abantwana abaqalisa ukuthetha kamva bakrelekrele ngakumbi?
I-Einstein syndrome yimeko apho a Umntwana uqalisa kade kolwimi kodwa ubonakalisa ukuzithoba kwezinye iinkalo zokucazulula ukucinga. Umntwana one-Einstein syndrome uyakwazi ukuthetha ngaphandle kweengxaki, kodwa uhlala ehamba phambili kwezinye iindawo. Ngelixa ukuthetha emva kwexesha kunokuba luphawu lwe-autism okanye ezinye iimeko zophuhliso, kukho ipesenti enkulu yamakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana athetha emva kwexesha kodwa enze ngcono kakhulu, ebonisa ukuba ngabantu abahlalutyayo kunye neengcinga ezinemveliso.
Inyaniso kukuba akukho uphando olwaneleyo malunga nale syndrome. Ligama elichazayo ngaphandle kwengcaciso evunyiweyo okanye imigaqo yonyango, okwenza kube nzima ukuphanda. Ngokwenene asazi ukuba ixhaphake kangakanani le meko, ukuba ingokwemfuza okanye indalo esingqongileyo, okanye ukuba ibonakala nezinye iimeko njengaye Autism, ezibangela ukulibaziseka kulwimi nentetho. Kukholelwa ukuba ipesenti yabantwana abafunyaniswa ukuba bathetha kade bayakudlula oku kulibaziseka kwaye babonakalise ukuba banesiphiwo kwaye baqaqambe kakhulu. Aba bantwana baya kuba ngabaviwa ukuba bababandakanye kwi-Einstein syndrome, kwaye kwimeko yabo kuya kuba yinyaniso ukuba abantwana abaqala ukuthetha emva kwexesha bakrelekrele ngakumbi.
Uphononongo lwabemi lubonise ukuba yipesenti encinci kuphela yabantwana abaqala ukuthetha emva kwexesha abane-autism spectrum disorder (ASD). Kodwa oogqirha abaninzi bazama ukukhangela iimpawu ngakumbi Autism kubantwana abathetha kade, kunokuba uzame ukulawula imeko. Ngoko ke kumntwana othetha emva kwexesha kungekho zimeko zikhoyo, ukuxilongwa koluphazamiseko aluchanekanga kwaye unyango olucetyiswayo aluyi kuba namveliso.
Yintoni enokuyenza ukuba umntwana uyacotha ukuthetha?
Ukuba unenkxalabo yokuba unyana okanye intombi yakho ingaba nayo ukulibaziseka kwentetho, inyathelo lokuqala omawulithathe kukuya kugqirha wabantwana. Ugqirha wakho uya kwenza uvavanyo olunzulu lwezonyango kwaye adibanise ne-pathologist yolwimi lwentetho kunye nezinye iingcali ukuba kuyimfuneko. Uninzi lweengcali ziyavuma ukuba ukungenelela kwangethuba kubalulekile. Ngoko ke, kamsinya nje xa uqalisa ukukrokrela ukuba unyana okanye intombi yakho ayifikeleli kwinqanaba lokuthetha ngokwaneleyo, yiya kugqirha wayo wabantwana ukuze afumanise ukuba yintoni ephosakeleyo. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba iiseshoni ezininzi zinokudlula ngaphambi kokuba uxilongo lwenziwe.
Musa ukoyika ukungavumelani nokuxilongwa ukuba ucinga ukuba ayichanekanga. Ukuba uyazi ukuba umntwana wakho uyaphendula xa uthetha naye kwaye ethatha inxaxheba kwihlabathi elimngqongileyo, ukuxilongwa koluphazamiseko kusenokungachanekanga. Ngaphambi kokufika kuloo ndawo, ukuva kungajongwa ukuqinisekisa ukuba akukho zithintelo ngokwasemzimbeni loo nto yenza ukuba umntwana angakwazi ukuthetha.
Luluphi unyango olunokwenziwa ngumntwana othetha kade?
Nokuba unyana wakho okanye intombi yakho ine-Einstein syndrome, i-ASD, okanye uhlobo nje lokulibaziseka kwentetho, kufuneka iqalise unyango ukuphucula imeko. Kodwa ukongeza kunyango kunye nengcali, kukho imisebenzi enokuthi yenziwe ekhaya khuthaza umntwana ukuba aqalise ukuthetha amagama amaninzi. Unyango luya kulungelelaniswa nohlobo lokulibaziseka onalo njengoko kubonisiwe kuvavanyo lwakho.
Ngokomzekelo, unyana okanye intombi yakho isenokufunyaniswa ilibaziseka ngolwimi, apho inengxaki yokuthetha kodwa ikuqonda oko kuthethwayo ize iphendule. Kule meko, unokufumana uluhlu lwemisebenzi ecetyiswayo ekhaya kunye nonyango lokuthetha olusesikweni. Ukulibaziseka kolwimi olucacileyo nolwamkelekileyo kunokufuna uphononongo olongezelelweyo kunye nonyango olunzulu, kuba umntwana ebengayi kuba nobunzima bokuthetha nje kuphela kodwa nokuqonda.