Abantwana abanemvukelo xa bebancinci

abantwana abancinci

Xa abantwana baphakathi kweminyaka eli-18 nengama-23 ubudala, kulindeleke ukuba baziphathe kakuhle, bazi indlela yokuziphatha kwaye baqonde ukuba kukho imigaqo ekufuneka beyilandele ekusebenzeni kakuhle kobomi. Kodwa akusoloko kunje. Abantwana abangalawulekiyo banokuvela nangaliphi na ixesha.

Imvukelo iqala kwinqanaba lokufikisa xa umntu omncinci echasa igunya labazali ngokuthi: "Awunakundinyanzela!"  Iphela kwinqanaba lokugqibela lokufikisa, inkululeko yokuzama, umntu omncinci omelana negunya lomntu esithi, "Andinakuzenza!"

Emva kokushenxisa igunya labazali ngokukhokela ubomi bakhe kwaye ubuthabathe ngegunya lakhe, uzibona evukela ngokuchasene naye. Ingathi lo mfana uthi: "Akukho mntu uza kuyalela mna, nditsho nam!"

Umzekelo, lo mfana uyazi ukuba kufuneka afike ngexesha lokusebenza, kodwa akakwazi kuvuka kusasa. Eli bhinqa liselula liyazi ukuba kufuneka lifunde, liye eklasini kwaye lenze umsebenzi wesikolo, kodwa alikwazi ukuzinyanzela ukuba lenze umsebenzi waseyunivesithi. Bobabini kunye naye bayazi ukuba akufuneki basele kakhulu kumatheko ngenxa yendlela abenza ngayo. Into abayivumayo ukuba yenzeke, kodwa phakathi kwabahlobo abanakuyeka.

Yintoni enokwenziwa ngabazali ngeli xesha? Kuya kufuneka bavumele iziphumo zokhetho lomelele lolutsha ukuba zidlale kwaye zingaphazamisi. Ukuphelisa le mvukelo ngokuchasene nokuzenzela kunye nokwamkela igunya lakho lobunkokeli ebomini ngowona mceli mngeni wokufikisa. Kufuneka izalisekiswe ngaphambi kokuba ube mdala ...

Abantwana abanemvukelo kufuneka bafunde ukuba isenzo ngasinye sinesiphumo kwaye ekugqibeleni ... abazali bakho bahlala bechanekile, kwanokuba abafuni kwazi kwasekuqaleni! Abantu abancinci baya kuqonda kancinci kancinci ukuba abazali babo abafuni ukubanyanzela, kodwa babakhokele!


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