Ubomi abukho lula, kuba akukho mntu, nangona kunjalo, kukho iimeko ezithi ngamanye amaxesha zisoyise, ezisaphule. Oku kuyingozi ngakumbi xa singabazali, kuba Oonyana bethu baya kuzihlawulela ngokwethu ukubandezeleka.
Abantwana bethu bafuna olona hlobo lubalaseleyo lokuba basebenze njengomzekelo. Asinakho ukuthabathwa lixhoba lethu. Kungumsebenzi ophambili ukubamba uloyiko lwethu, iziporho zethu zangaphakathi, ukuphilisa amanxeba ethu ukuze baxhamle kunye nathi.
Iziphumo ezikhawulezileyo zokuba nabazali abophukileyo
Abazali abaphukileyo banokubonisa ukuba badala kwabo baphuke ngeendlela ezininzi. Banokuba kuxinzelelo kwaye bangabinamandla okuhoya abantwana babo. Banokubangela imvakalelo yokuziva bengento kwaye belahliwe eya kuthi ibenze baphulukane nokubathemba abanye abantu.
Uxinzelelo lutshaba olungabonakaliyo, olwenza umonakalo ongaphezulu kunokuba kubonakala ngathi.
Banokudinwa ngumsindo kunye nokudana kwaye banokuba nokuziphatha okunogonyamelo. Oku kuyakuchaphazela uzinzo lweemvakalelo ekhaya xa lilonke. Imeko engazinzanga inokonakalisa kakhulu uzinzo ngokweemvakalelo Banokuba nengxaki yokulutha, ekhokelela kwiingxaki zemali, ngaphandle kokungalingani ngokweemvakalelo nangokwasentlalweni okufuneka kwiimeko zolu hlobo.
Onke la mathuba anokunxibelelana okuqhelekileyo kuthintela ukukhula komntwana, njengesiphumo sokungoneliseki kweemfuno zomzimba kunye neemvakalelo yalo
Ubundlobongela bengqondo
Ngamanye amaxesha abazali abaphukileyo benza ngokungazi benza ubundlobongela bengqondo. Oku kuneziphumo zako.
Singatsho umzekelo ukuba Abanye abantwana abakhulele kwimeko yobundlobongela bengqondo, bayakuphela bekholelwa nakuphi na ukuthukwa abanikwe ngabazali babo. Baya kuzaliswa ziingcinga ezimbi kunye nokungathembani kwabanye. Kunzima kakhulu ukuthembela kwabanye xa abantu ekufuneka bekukhusele kwaye bakhathalele iimfuno zakho kwelona nqanaba lobuthathaka ebomini bakho, bengenzanga njalo. Oku kubangela ukuba umntwana aphulukane neemvakalelo ekunzima ukubuyela kuye. Luhlobo lwenzondo ngakumzali wakho okanye abazali bakho, ekunzima ukoyisa. Olu luvo lokungabikho kokhuseleko lubanika ubu-ethe-ethe obenza ukuba babhenceke kwezinye iintlobo zeengxaki ezinzima ngakumbi, ezinje ngokukhula okungaqhelekanga kwezakhono zabo zentlalo. Kungenzeka ukuba olu phuhliso lungaqhelekanga lubonakaliswe Iindlela ezintathu zokuziphatha eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo:
- Ukuziphatha kakubi: ukwenza abanye babe ngamaxhoba okukhathazeka, Yenziwe yimeko.
- Ukuziphatha okurhoxisiweyo: umntwana uyarhoxa kwaye ifuna ukuzikhusela ngokuzihlukanisa.
- Indlela yokuziphatha ekhuselayo: zama ukukhusela amanye amaxhoba, Njengomntakwenu / udadewenu, umama / utata, njl.
Abantwana ababuthathaka benza abantu abadala abaphukileyo
Bonke abantwana banothotho lweemfuno zomzimba kunye neemvakalelo zokuzikhusela, ekufuneka zonelisiwe. Kungelo xesha kuphela apho kuya kubakho ukuphuhliswa okuyimfuneko ukuze kuguqulwe abantu abadala abomeleleyo nabanakho ukusebenza. Ukuqwalaselwa yenye yezona mfuno zibalulekileyo emntwaneni. Ukuba akafumani ngqalelo yakho, usenokukhula enesiphene esithile ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo. Ukuba sityeshela naziphi na kwezi mfuno, umntwana uya kukhula. Kuya kufuneka uyigcwalise kwaye oku kuya kuthintela ukukhula kwayo ngokufanelekileyo.
Ukuziva uthando lwabazali kubalulekile kwaye kubalulekile kwimpilo yomntwana.
Umntwana okhula enolu hlobo lokusilela ngumntwana oethe-ethe, oya kuthi mhlawumbi adlule ebusheni obunzima kwaye ekugqibeleni abe ngumntu omkhulu owaphukileyo. Ngaphandle kokuba ukusilela kwabo kugutyungelwe kwaye umonakalo uyalungiswa. Khumbula ukuba abantwana banamhlanje ngabazali bangomso.