Abantwana bakho kufuneka bazive benolawulo ukuze bakwazi ukuvela ngokuchanekileyo kwaye banandiphe ubomi obugcwele izigqibo ezifanelekileyo. Kodwa Yinto ekufuneka bayifundile kwaye kufuneka ubanike indawo abayifunayo ukuze bayiphumeze.
Ukuba ufuna ukukhuthaza abantwana bakho, kufuneka bazive ukuba babalawula ubomi babo. Ukukhuthazeka kuza ngokwazi ukuba unokulolonga ikamva lakho ngezenzo ozenzayo namhlanje. Kodwa ukuba abantwana baziva ngathi abazali babo bakulawulo olupheleleyo (okanye phantse olupheleleyo), Abayi kuba nenkuthazo encinci.
Abanye abazali bajonge ngaphaya kwabantwana babo. Balawula ngokuncinci zonke iinkcukacha zokugqibela zobomi babantwana babo. Isiphumo kukuba abantwana abaze bahlakulele iimvakalelo zokuba banoxanduva lwemfundo yabo kunye nobomi babo. Ngokuxhobisa abantwana bakho, baya kuphuhlisa umoya wokuzimela kunye noxanduva. Thetha nabantwana bakho rhoqo malunga nokulindelweyo kunye neziphumo.
Njengomzali, uqinisekile ukuba unolindelo kubantwana bakho. Umzekelo, unokulindela ukuba bagcine igumbi lakho licocekile, kwaye kunokubakho iziphumo ngokungakwenzi oko. Funda ukuba noxanduva kwindawo (gcina igumbi licocekile) Ibakhuthaza ukuba babe noxanduva kwezinye iinkalo zobomi, ezinje ngokufunda.
Ngale ndlela, kusafuneka uthathe inxaxheba kubomi babantwana bakho. Umahluko kukuba endaweni yokuskrola kunye nokulawula yonke into, wenza imida ejikeleze ukuthatha inxaxheba. Umzekelo, ungayenza icace kubantwana bakho ukuba uyafumaneka ukuphendula imibuzo enxulumene nomsebenzi wesikolo yonke imihla ebusuku phakathi kwentsimbi yesi-8 kunye neye-9 emva kwemini.
Ngale ndlela, abantwana bakho baya kukhulisa amandla okuzikhuthaza. Bayazi ukuba ngabo kuphela abanoxanduva lokuqinisekisa ukuba umsebenzi wasekhaya uyenziwa. Endaweni yoko, cinga abantwana abanabazali ababangxolayo yonke imihla ngokwenza umsebenzi wesikolo. Aba bantwana abayi kukhulisa amandla okuzikhuthaza.