Kukho amatyala angenakubalwa athi, emva kokungaqiniseki, uvile ukuba ngumlo omde ukukwazi ukujongana nokudinwa esirhuqayo emva kokuvalelwa ekhaya. Abantwana bayadlala kwiipaki kwaye babuya boyisiwe. Abanye nokuba banexesha elincinci lokudlala sele bejonge phambili ukuya ekhaya.
Kwakungumgaqo oqhelekileyo wokujonga loo nto abantwana babedikwe kukuba sekhaya kwaye abaninzi kubo babenomdla wokuphuma. Kodwa nangaphandle komnqweno wokuphuma, sinako ngokungasebenzi komzimba oye wabandezeleka. Kuya kufuneka usebenzise lo msebenzi kwaye ukubuyisa amandla emva kokuvalelwa kancinci kancinci kwaye hayi ngesiquphe.
Uwafumana njani amandla kwakhona emva kokuvalelwa?
Eyona ndlela ibalaseleyo yokungafiki kweli nqanaba yayikukuba iqhubeke ngexesha lokuvalelwa ukuzilolonga phantse yonke imihla okanye ubuncinci kathathu ngeveki, kwaye abantwana abaninzi abakhange bayizalisekise. Abazali abanakho ukulawula zonke iimeko ezibangqongileyo i-100% kwaye indlela yabo yesiqhelo iyachaphazeleka, ukungakwazi ukucinga ngokuchanekileyo malunga nokulungileyo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo bekuya kubakho abantwana ebusuku bebengaphumli kakuhle kwaye oku kuchaphazela imisebenzi yabo yemihla ngemihla, uzibone udiniwe emini. Ukuqala ukuphuma okuncinci mihla le kunokuba yinto entle yokunyuka, kodwa kuya kuwuvuselela umzimba, nokuba buya bedinwe kakhulu.
Ubusuku buya kubuyela esiqhelweni xa bediniwe. Ngeeyure eziqhelekileyo zokulala, abantwana abasayi kuphinda bazive bediniwe. Inyaniso yokulala ngakumbi nangendlela engcono iya konyusa amandla emini. Kodwa le yinyani eya kulawulwa kancinci, nokuba kungabikho ukucokiswa abanye abantwana ngekhe balawule ixesha labo lokulala.
Ukuba umntwana udiniwe kwaye akafuni ukuphuma, ngokulula kufuneka uyinike ixesha. Ukuhamba ngokulula kuya kukuhlaziya kwaye kubuyise imeko yakho yesiqhelo. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uthothise isantya nokuba kulula, kwaye akufuneki ukuthobise ukungqinelani kwakho.
Kutheni abantwana bedinwe kangaka?
Kuyinyani ukuba ayenzeki kuphela ebantwaneni, yenzeka ngendlela efanayo nakubantu abadala. Ngokubanzi, abantu abanoxanduva Besihlala kule ntolongo ngenkxalabo enkulu kunye noxinzelelo emzimbeni, lonto ibangele ukuba sidinwe.
Sibe nolunye uhlobo lwesiqhelo, ukuvalelwa ekhaya kukhokelele asichanabeki kakhulu elangeni. I nyaniso ukuchitha ixesha elininzi phambi kwescreen kunye neendaba ezichazayo ezenza uxinzelelo Kusikhokelele ekubeni sizive sidiniwe ngakumbi.
Kufuneka siyiqonde into yokuba kukho iintsuku ezingama-60 zokuvalelwa Umzimba ubungafundiswanga. Ukuhamba kunye nokufuduswa kuye kwancipha kwaye ngokungabikho kokucocwa kufuneka silungelelanise umzimba kwenye indlela entsha yokusebenza, ke, Kufuneka siwafumane la mandla ngokugqibeleleyo.
Kukho abantu abalandele itafile yokuzivocavoca yemihla ngemihla kunye nabantwana babo, kodwa nangayo yonke imigudu, umzimba awukwazanga ukusebenzisa ezinye izinto ngokwendalo. Umzimba wethu awukwazanga ukufana kunye nokuphinda usebenzise kwakhona i-lactic acid ngendlela efanayo Kwaye oko kuye kwabangela ukudinwa kunye nobuthathaka bemisipha.
Ukungalali kakuhle yenye yezona zinto zibangele ukuba abantwana abaninzi khange bakwazi ukuvana nemizimba yabo. Ukungena ebhedini ungadinwanga kukwenza ulale ngokwahlukileyo. Abantwana kufuneka benze imithambo yabo yemihla ngemihla kunye neyemihla ngemihla ukuya udinwe kwaye ulawule umjikelo wakho wokulala ngokwendalo.
Nangona kunjalo, nokuba ukuvalelwa ngokuyinxenye kuthabatha ixesha elide, akufuneki siyeke ukuzikhusela ebantwaneni. Ziqhelise indlela yokwenza imisebenzi eyahlukeneyo yonke imihla, funda, umamele umculo, udanise kwaye udlale kunye nemiceli mngeni kunye nezakhono. Yitya ukutya okusempilweni ikwayenye yezona zitshixo zibalaseleyo. Ingqondo esebenzayo nenempilo iya kukunceda ukuba ungaziva udiniwe.