Abazali abayingozi: Yintoni iMünchhausen Syndrome?

Abazali Abasenokuba Bayingozi: Yintoni iMünchhausen Syndrome?

I-Münchhausen syndrome yimeko yengqondo ethatha igama layo kwi-baron yaseJamani yegama elifanayo elalihlala ngenkulungwane ye-XNUMX, edume ngokuthambekela kwakhe kwe-spasmodic ukubalisa izinto ezikhohlisayo nezingenakwenzeka ngenjongo yodwa yokutsala ingqalelo.

Yiyo Isigulo sengqondo  kunye nohlobo loxhatshazo apho umzali okanye omnye umnonopheli, njengomzali onelungelo lokugcina umntwana okanye umzali owamkeleyo, yenza ngathi okanye wenza umntwana gula Umntu ogcina umntwana udla ngokubizwa ngegama lesiNgesi elithi "caretaker" okanye "caregiver". Le meko inokuthi yenzeke nakubantu abadala, kungekhona kubantwana kuphela. Kwaye nakubantu abakhubazekileyo.

I-syndrome iquka ukulinganisa yi mfundisi yesifo esiya kuchaphazela umntwana. Umkhathaleli unikela ingxelo ngeempawu ezingekhoyo okanye ade enzekalise umntwana ukuze amenze akholelwe ukuba akaphilanga. Maxa wambi baye bade babagule. Le yindlela enomtsalane ngayo inkathalo kunye novelwano kuwe. Kwimeko yabantwana, ngokufuthi umkhathaleli iba ngumama olinganisa okanye oxhokonxa imeko yesifo emntwaneni wakhe.

Zeziphi izizathu zesi sifo?

Okomzuzwana akukho siqinisekiso malunga noonobangela yeMünchhausen syndrome kodwa yalatha ekuphazamisekeni kobuntu, ukwenzakala ngokweemvakalelo, ngokukodwa ebuntwaneni, okanye imeko ecinezelayo njengokwahlukana neqabane. Ngamanye amaxesha kwisiseko sokuziphatha kusenokubakho ukungquzulana nesibini ukuba umlindi ucinga ukuba unokuzibopha ngakumbi, ngenxa yesifo esinganyangekiyo somntwana.

Kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu zesi sifo sengqondo esibi kakhulu, xa kwakhiwa ngokutsha imbali yentsapho yomntwana, kunokwenzeka ukudibana nomzalwana okanye udade oye wafumana isifo esifanayo esinqabileyo okanye esingacacanga okanye ukufa ngenxa yokungabikho kokuxilongwa. Ukuphikisa oko kwaziswa ngumlondolozi, “eyona nto ilungileyo kukuba kukho omnye umntu osondeleyo onjengomntakwabo, umalume, njl.

amayeza omntwana ogulayo

Kwenzeka nini yaye njani?

Isigulo somntwana sinokuqulunqwa ngokupheleleyo, umzekelo, ngokufanisa iimpawu:

  • Fudumeza ithemometha ukulinganisa umkhuhlane;
  • Ngokuxela gwenxa ngembali yonyango yomntwana kunye nokuxoka ngokwezinto eziphathekayo amaxwebhu ekliniki kunye neengxelo zovavanyo lwaselabhoratri;
  • Yongeza igazi kumchamo okanye iisampulu zelindle okanye iswekile kwiisampulu zomchamo wosana phambi kokuba uvavanywe.

Kwezinye iimeko ezixhalabisayo, iimpawu zinokucatshukiswa. Umzekelo:

  • Ukulawula umntwana amayeza ahlambalaza ukulinganisa urhudo okanye naluphi na uhlobo lwechiza lokubangela iimpawu, nokuba zinzima kakhulu;
  • Ukunciphisa ukondla komntwana ukuze anciphise umzimba kwaye angondleki;
  • Ukutofa izinto ezosulelekileyo (kubandakanywa ilindle!) ukubangela umkhuhlane kunye neempawu ze-septicemia.

Kwezinye iimeko, ezi zenzo zikhokelela ekufeni komntwana. Ewe isifo somntwana senziwa ukusuka ekuqaleni, iimpawu ezichazwe ngokuqhelekileyo ziyahlukahluka, ziqhawulwe omnye komnye kwaye azicacanga kwaye zinokuchaphazela naliphi na ilungu okanye inkqubo. Ugqirha ngelo xesha uyaqonda ukuba kukho undonakele.


Isigulo esithathwa umntwana ukuba ajongwe kugqirha sihlala sihlala ixesha elide: kucacile kwimbali kunye namaxwebhu abonisa ukuba umntwana sele evavanywe amaxesha amaninzi, kungekuphela nje ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo, kodwa rhoqo kunye noogqirha abahlukeneyo kwaye akuzange kwenzeke ukuba kufikelelwe kwisifo.

Kubalulekile ukugxininisa ukuba, ngokucacileyo, iimpawu zibonakaliswa phambi komfundisi: xa umntwana engekho kumkhathaleli iimpawu zakhe ziba ngcono okanye ziyanyamalala. Ukongeza, ayiyeki ubhengeza unyana wakhe kunye nesifo sakhe sobuxoki (umzekelo, ngokwabelana ngebali lakho kwimidiya yoluntu) ukuya ukutsala ingqalelo yabantu, uvelwano nomdla.

Iprofayile yoMnakekeli

Umntu one-Münchausen syndrome uneempawu ezifanayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo ngabasetyhini abathanda uku linganisa nasiphi na isiqendu esibabandakanyayo. Ngokufuthi baye banamava ebuntwaneni obunesiphithiphithi, ihlwempu kuthando nengqalelo kwaye ngamanye amaxesha banembali yeengxaki zengqondo (utywala, ukuxhatshazwa kweziyobisi, ukuzenzakalisa). Kwezinye iimeko, umntu ngokwakhe uchatshazelwa yi-Münchhausen syndrome - ulinganisa izifo zakhe.

Phakathi kwezinye iimpawu eziqhelekileyo kubantu abanesi sifo umdla kwizifundo zonyango. Ubukhulu becala imalunga abantu benkcubeko ephakathi, ndiqhele ukufunda, ukuhlaziya, ukufunda nokuya kwiiwebhusayithi kunye neeforam.

Ngokungafaniyo nomnye umzali osoloko efixiza ukuba kungenzeka ukuba abeke umntwana wakhe kumngcipheko kunye neenkqubo zokuxilonga okanye zonyango ezinoxinzelelo oluthile, "umkhathaleli" ochaphazelekayo uhlala ezolile malunga neli themba. Xa kujongwa ukugula komntwanakananjalo alubonakalisi ukubandezeleka okanye ukuphelelwa lithemba. Kunoko, ubonakala enesidima, ngaloo ndlela esandisa isidima esimngqongileyo.

Xa ingcali yezempilo ayiniki tyala ngokwaneleyo okanye buza ubunyani beempawu okanye kwimbali yeklinikhi enxulumeneyo, umzali uphendula ngobutshaba, edla ngokuphelisa ubuhlobo aze acele ukuba umntwana akhululwe, kwanaxa isiluleko sikagqirha. "Umgcini" uya kuthi emva koko amse umntwana kukhathalelo lomnye ugqirha, eqhubekisela phambili inkqubo kwisibhedlele esitsha.

Enye into eqhubekayo yi ukuthambekela kwiindlela ezahlukeneyo zonyango, amaxesha amaninzi ezinye iindlela, engasebenziyo, efuna ngamandla okanye ebandakanya uhambo olude okanye ukufuduswa. Oku kwenza "idabi" likamama nangakumbi ubuqhawe, obuncomekayo kwaye obukwazi ukuvuselela umanyano lwendalo ukusa kwinqanaba lokuba ezi zifundo zidla ngokuba ngabantu abaqhelekileyo, uphawu loomama abalwela ilungelo.

Ngapha koko , abo banyamekela abantu badla ngokusebenzisa iiwebhsayithi zokuncokola ukufumana ukubonakala kunye nemvume, ukuthumela iifoto zomntwana "ogulayo", ukubloga malunga nembali yonyango yomntwana, kwanokunyusa imali yeendleko zonyango ezityholwayo ekufuneka bazenze ukuze banakekele umntwana.


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