Xa wawuncinci kunokwenzeka ukuba abazali bakho bangakukhuza ngezinto ezininzi kodwa ubalandele ukwenza ngokuphindaphindiweyo, njengokungcola xa uphuma uyokudlala epakini. Kukho izinto ekufuneka abazali bakhuthaze abantwana babo ukuba bazenze kuba ziya kuba yinzuzo kubo kwixesha elifutshane nelide, kwiimoto nakwimpilo yengqondo.
Okulandelayo siza kukuxelela ezinye zezi zinto ukuze uzikhuthaze ebantwaneni bakho kubomi babo bemihla ngemihla.
- Ukudlala ngaphandle. Abantwana kufuneka bachithe ixesha elininzi bedlala ngaphandle kwaye beshiya izikrini ekhaya. Kufuneka babaleke, bagxume, badlale, kwaye banxibelelane nabanye.
- Yiba mdaka. Ukuze abantwana bonwabe kufuneka bazingcolise, ukuba abenjinjalo… ngekhe babenexesha elihle! Abazali abaninzi abafuni ukuba abantwana babo bangcoliswe kukucinga ukuba intsholongwane ingagula, kodwa enyanisweni… kufuneka bangcolise ukuphucula amajoni abo omzimba!
- Yeka ukuhlala ungxamile. Abantwana kufuneka baphile ngesantya esicothayo kunye nobomi obungxamisekileyo bokugqibela. Iintsapho kufuneka ziziva zizolile kwaye zicothe iindawo.
- Bayeke abantwana badikwe. Ukukruquka kunika abantwana ithuba lokuyila ngakumbi kwaye bandise iingcinga zabo. Banokuzonwabisa emva kokucamngca ukuba bayadika. Ngapha koko, ukudikwa kubalulekile kuphuhliso lwabo.
- Ukunganiki kubaluleke kangako kwizifundiswa. Nangona kubalulekile, kubalulekile ukuba ungagxili kubomi bomntwana wakho kuphela esikolweni. Ixabiso elithe kratya kufuneka linikezwe kuphuhliso lwentlalo kunye nemfundo yemvakalelo yabantwana.
- Yitya njengentsapho. Kubalulekile ukuba abantwana babe nethuba lesidlo sasemini kunye nesangokuhlwa njengentsapho ukuze babelane ngala mathuba amnandi.
- Banike umsebenzi wasekhaya. Umsebenzi wasekhaya ubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuba abantwana bayaluphucula uxanduva lwabo ekhaya.