Ibinzana elikhuthazayo kumntu okwishumi elivisayo inokuba ngundoqo we qalisa indlela entsha kwaye ubeke iinjongo ebomini bakho. Maninzi amabinzana akhuthazayo akuncedayo ukuba uziphucule kwaye akunike amandla okwenza iimpumelelo ezinkulu. Zonke zibhalwe ngababhali, abadlali okanye iintanda-bulumko, ngubani Baye bafumana nobunzima ebomini bakhe ukuba akwazi ukubhala ezi zivakalisi.
Ukuba sikwishumi elivisayo kwaye kufuneka sibambelele kwinto ethile ukuze sikwazi ukuthabatha inyathelo, ukufunda ezi ntlobo zamabinzana kunokunceda. ukoyisa amava kunye namaxesha ekungekho lula ukuziqhelanisa. Yonke into yimvakalelo emitsha kwaye phakathi kothando kunye nokuphoxeka banokuba ngumngxuma ekufuneka siwoyise. Cinga yeyona ndlela ilungileyo kwaye funda kwaye uhlakulele inceda kakhulu.
Amabinzana enqanaba lokufikisa
La mabinzana aphawula eli nqanaba libalulekileyo ukukhula komntu, bonisa ezona mpawu zibalulekileyo malunga nokuhamba kweli xesha kwaye mhlawumbi bayanceda ekuqondeni icandelo abahamba kulo. Banceda ukuxabisa ukuba kufuneka uphile kwixesha langoku, kuba ulutsha luyadlula kwaye lungene entsha isigaba soxanduva Kunokukwenza ucinge ngakumbi ngendlela ekwakubaluleke ngayo ukuphila ngaphandle kweembopheleleko. Nanga isi-7 saloo mabinzana:
1-Imikhwa emihle eyenziwa ebutsheni yenza umahluko omkhulu.-Aristotle.
I-2-LIkhephu kunye nokufikisa kuphela kweengxaki ezihambayo ukuba awuzinaki ixesha elide ngokwaneleyo.-Earl Wilson.
3-Thembeka kumaphupha obutsha bakho.-Friedrich Schiller.
4-Ubutsha mhlawumbi yindlela yendalo yokulungiselela abazali indlwane engenanto.-Karen Savage.
5-Njengomntu okwishumi elivisayo, ukwinqanaba lokugqibela lobomi bakho apho uya kuvuya ukuva ukuba umnxeba ulungiselelwe wena.-UFran Lebowitz.
6-Eyona nto ithatha indawo yamava kukuba neminyaka elishumi elinesithandathu ubudala.-Raymond Duncan.
7-Abakwishumi elivisayo bakhalazela ukuba akukho nto yakwenza, baze bahlale ubusuku bonke beyenza.-Bob Phillips.
Amanye amabinzana akhuthazayo naluncedo kakhulu ukukhuthaza abafikisayo anokufunyanwa kwezi zivakalisi. Ngaba iingcinga ezicamngiweyo ezibhalwe ziingqondi ezinkulu, kuya kukunceda uzive ubhetele ngezo zihlandlo xa abakwishumi elivisayo bengaziqondi kwaukuziqonda. Nanga amabinzana ali-10 akhuthazayo:
1-Ubomi abuyondlela ithile ezaliswe ziingxaki ezifuna ukusonjululwa; Yindlela ekufuneka ulinge ngayo.
2-Zama kwaye usilele, kodwa ungaze usilele ukuzama.
3-Ukusilela kokwenyani akukoyiswa rhoqo, kodwa ungazami kwakhona.
4-Ukuqola likhefu nje elinye ekufikiseni.-Jules Feiffer.
5-Akukho lutsha lungalunganga, kodwa abantu abatsha abalahlekisayo.-Saint John Bosco.
6-Ngokungafani nokuguga, okuhlala kungadingekile, uphawu lolutsha kukuba luhlala lusefashonini..-Fernando Savater.
7-Kunzima ukukholisa umntwana okwishumi elivisayo ukuba uya kufumana iingxaki ezinzima ngakumbi kunezo ze-algebra okanye zejometri.-Edgar W. Howe.
8-Inye kuphela into eyenza ukuba iphupha lingenzeki: uloyiko lokusilela.- Paulo Coelho.
Ngama-9-NAkukhathaliseki nokuba ucotha kangakanani na, ukuba nje ungayeki.- Confucius.
10-Ukuba nethemba lukholo olukhokelela kwimpumelelo. Awunakwenza nto ngaphandle kwethemba nokuthembana.- uHelen Keller.
Asimele silibale ukuba ibhedi yosapho Yincopho yekamva labantwana bethu. Ukuba sifuna ukunceda abantwana bethu kufuneka senze baphakamise ukuzithemba kwabo, kufuneka kuthiwe indlela esinebhongo ngayo ngabo. Ukomeleza ukhuseleko lwakho kufuneka bafake phakathi, besithi banokusoloko bethembela kuncedo lwethu yaye ngaphezu kwako konke ubenze bakholelwe ukuba uhlala ukholelwa kubo, kwaye kunjalo ubathanda kakhulu.