Sonke singamantombazana kwaye besifuna ukunxiba ezinye izihlangu ezinesithende. Kukho umkhwa wokuba singabiza ngokwendalo ukuba amantombazana afune ukubonakala sele emdala, oku kunokuqondwa kwimeko yesiqhelo.
Kodwa kuthekani ukuba siqala ukubona amantombazana angaphantsi kweminyaka eli-10 enxibe izithende? Singaqala ukuwasebenzisa kubuphi ubudala? Le neminye imiba yile esiza kuthetha ngayo. Kodwa njengoko sihlala sisitsho, ngoomama abanelizwi lokugqibela.
Iziphumo zokunxiba izihlangu eziphakamileyo
Asizukuphikisa ukuba ukunxiba izithende kwenza ukuba abafazi babonakale ngathi bayabhitya, bahamba ngokwahlukileyo. Iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga, ezilungileyo nezingalunganga ziyabonakala, kodwayeyiphi iminyaka amantombazana aqala ngayo ukunxiba izithende eziphakamileyo? Zithini iziphumo zokunxiba izithende eziphakamileyo?
Ngezithende, nkqu iisentimitha ezi-2 ukuphakama, izihlunu zomlenze zikwinqanaba le ukunciphisa okukhulu. Nangona umntwana esenokungabikho ncam ngokupheleleyo, xa esiya phambili izihlunu zakhe aziphumli ngokungathi wayenxibe izihlangu ezisicaba. Ke ngoko, iithenda ziqhelana nonyawo olungagcini ngokupheleleyo, lucuthwa.
Hambisa ukuma kude kwi umqolo Ihlala itshintsha, ethi ekuhambeni kwexesha ikhokelele kwintlungu ekuhambeni kwexesha. Izithende zityhalela umzimba phambili kwaye zigcina ibhalansi, umva ngokwendalo kufuneka ubuye umva ukulungisa indawo, yiyo loo nto umqolo uguqulwa.
Ukongeza, ubunzima bomzimba abuhanjiswanga ngokwendalo elunyaweni, kodwa buwela kwimetatarsal kunye neenzwane, ezingalungiselelwanga zona.
Ezi ziziphumo zomzimba, kodwa sikwafuna ukubonisa ukuba zikhona ezinye iziphumo zengqondo apho kukhoukukhulisaKula mantombazana.
Izithende kulutsha
Ngolu lwazi sifikelela ebusheni, apho abayili ngokwabo kunye fashini ifake izithende zamantombazana amancinci. Ukongeza, kule minyaka, amantombazana sele enobungakanani obulinganayo beenyawo njengomntu omkhulu kwaye, ngokwethiyori, anokusebenzisa nayiphi na imodeli.
Umbutho wezeMpilo weHlabathi uthetha ukuba kungasetyenziswa iimbadada ezinesithende esisezantsi ukusukela kwiminyaka ye-12. Into engasiqinisekisiyo kukuba kutheni, ngokutsho kwabo bathi xa eneminyaka eyi-15 imilenze yakhe sele izinzile kwaye akasokoli xa edanisa i-waltz kwitheko lakhe. Ewe, inkcubeko ikwadlala indima ebalulekileyo ekusetyenzisweni kwezithende kwangoko.
Kuyilo lwezithende ezisetyenziselwa ulutsha olu luqhele ukuba njalo banzi kwaye bukhululeke ngakumbi, uninzi lwazo lumile okwe-wedge, ekukhanyeni, kwizinto eziguqukayo, ezinje ngekork okanye yucca. Olunye ukhetho esilubonayo kwifashoni ngamaqonga aphezulu.
Ngaba izihlangu zomdaniso ziyafana nezithende?
Kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo ifoto yentombi kaKatie Holmes kunye noTom Cruise yaya kwintsholongwane, xa wayeneminyaka emi-3 ubudala ngezithende. Abantu abaninzi bakhwaza esibhakabhakeni kwaye abanye bayibona njengesiqhelo. Kwakumalunga danisa izihlangu eziphakamileyo, kwaye intombazana, ngemvume yabazali bayo, izisebenzisa rhoqo. Ngaphandle kokungena kwimpikiswano yezithende ukuba zezomdaniso, zilungiselelwe loo nto.
Le anecdote ingadluliselwa kwilizwe lethu apho abanye Izinxibo zengingqi banxibe izithende eziphakamileyo njenge umphelelisi. Kwaye kukho izihlangu zentombazana ezinezithende. Ngokufanelekileyo, ezi zihlangu akufuneki zisetyenziswe, kuba zinokubangela ukonzakala ngexesha le-psychomotor kunye nokukhula ngokomzimba kwamantombazana, ngakumbi ukuba baneminyaka emi-3 ubudala, kodwa singahamba bazisebenzisa kwimidaniso okanye kumaxesha athile kunye nexesha elifutshane.
Khumbula ukuba uninzi lwamaxesha, ukuba ayililo lonke ixesha, amantombazana, njengamakhwenkwe, kufuneka anxibe izihlangu ezikhanyayo neziguqukayo ezivumela iinyawo zabo ukuba zihambe ngokwendalo kwaye zihambe ngokukhuselekileyo ukunqanda ukutyibilika nokuwa.