Isigqibo se ukufuduka Sele kunzima ukuthatha, kwaye ukuba ukongeza kolu sapho kwaye ngaphezulu koko abanye boonyana bakho okanye abentombazana bakho kwinqanaba lokufikisa, izinto ziya zisiba nzima ngakumbi. Qonda ukuba kunzima ukuba okwishumi elivisayo amkele ukushiya abahlobo bakhe esikolweni, indawo yakhe yokudlala kunye nentuthuzelo, usapho, igumbi lakhe.
Ukuze indawo yokuhamba Ukufudukela kubantwana abafikisayo kuyanyamezeleka, siyazivumela ukuba sikunike ezinye iingcebiso.
Ungayibonisa njani imbono yokufuduka
Ixesha eliqhelekileyo elithathayo ukucwangcisa ukuhanjiswa liphakathi kweenyanga ezi-6 ukuya kwezi-9, kuxhomekeke kwilizwe ofuna ukuya kulo kunye nexesha lalo lonyaka. Ukuba sithathe isigqibo sokutshintsha, kufuneka sibeke esi sigqibo ebantwaneni bethu njengesiqhelo, kugqitywe ngabazali bobabini, kwaye wenze iindaba zibe nomtsalane.
Les siza kuthetha ngomdla yendawo, isikolo, amaqabane akhe, amathuba okuziqhelanisa nomdlalo awuthandayo, iindawo zendalo kunye nabakhenkethi abanokundwendwela. Kubalulekile kwaye ngakumbi kwimeko yomntu ofikisayo ukumenza inxenye yezigqibo, kuya kufuneka umamele uluvo lwabo, kwaye naye athathe inxaxheba kukhetho lwesikolo okanye ezinye izinto.
Kufuneka kwakhona kuqinisekiswe ukuba, enkosi kubuchwephesha, Uyakwazi ukunxibelelana nabahlobo bakho bonke. Ncokola nabo, yenza iinkomfa zevidiyo, ngelixa udibana nabantu abaninzi abavela kwamanye amazwe nakwamanye amasiko. Ukugcina unxibelelana nosapho kunye nabahlobo kuya kukunceda wabelane ngamava akho kwilizwe elitsha. Kwelinye icala, kanye kwilizwe elisingathiweyo, bancede khumbula ngovuyo inkcubeko yemvelaphi, Oku kuya kukunceda ukuba ungalibali kwaye uqaphele.
Amanyathelo angaphambili ngaphambi kokufuduka
Kukho uthotho lwamanyathelo angaphambili ngokuqinisekileyo osele uwathatha xa ufuduka, ukhangela isikolo, iflethi, umsebenzi kwimeko apho ingekuko ukufuduka, usazi impilo, ulwimi ... ngamafutshane, kulo lonke elo hlabathi ukuba kuwe kuyinto enkulu khawufane ucinge ngolutsha. Ukuba sele udlula kwinqanaba le- utshintsho kwimeko yomzimba kunye neemvakalelo, yongeza notshintsho lwendawo. Yiba nomonde kuye, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuvelisa iziqendu zokungazithembi kunye nokuzithemba okuphantsi.
Kubantwana abakwishumi elivisayo kunjalo kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba kuthi ndlela-ntle kubahlobo bakho. Mabenze itheko, bahambe kakuhle, uhambo kunye nabo, nantoni na abayithandayo, ukuze bakhumbule loo mizuzu ngovuyo.
Mgcine unolwazi ngezigqibo ozenzayo. Mnike ithuba kwaye uthethe naye malunga nesikolo, umhombiso wendlu, into afuna ukuhamba nayo kuhambo, oku kuya kumenza azive eyinxalenye yenkqubo kwaye kuya kuququzelela ubudlelwane nabazali. Mxelele ukuba enze eminye imisebenzi, ulutsha lukhethekile ekufumaneni eyona mithambo ibalaseleyo kule ndawo, iivenkile zeencwadi ezimileyo okanye iindawo ezihanjelwe ngabantu abadumileyo.
Thatha inkqubo njengenye into elungileyo kulo lonke usapho
Nokuba yeyiphi na imeko ekhokelela ekubeni ufuduke, kulungile ukuba uphile ukusuka kwi ithuba. Ukuzityebisa ngamava, inkcubeko, ulwimi, kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, phila inkqubo njengethuba ukwakha ubudlelwane obubalulekileyo phakathi kwabantwana nabazali. Ngaphandle koko, esi sibini siya kuhlala iimeko ezintsha apho kuya kufuneka siziqhelanise nazo.
Ukufakwa kwilizwe elitsha, inkqubo ye ukuziqhelanisa nenkcubeko, into yokuba umntu ngamnye acinge ngokwahlukileyo inexesha lakhe. Kukho amaxesha apho ulutsha lunokuwela imvukeloKule meko, mamela ngononophelo izimvo zabo. Lixesha lokuba uqaphele ubuhlobo kunye nefuthe elitsha elingena ebomini bakho.
Nje ukuba ungene kwilizwe elitsha, kubalulekile qalisa kwakhona imikhwa kunye neenkqubo ngokukhawuleza ngexesha lokulala, iintlobo zokutya, imisebenzi yangaphandle. Ukuba iziphumo ezifundweni ziyatshintsha, kunokuba ngcono okanye kube kubi, zithathe njengomceli mngeni, kwaye zomeleze imeko elungileyo.