Fundisa umntwana ukuba aziqonde iimpazamo zakhe ngaphandle kokubenza bazive ngathi ngabantu ababi

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Ukufundisa umntwana ukuba aziqonde iimpazamo zakhe akufani nokumenza akholelwe ukuba ungumntu ombi ngokwenza ezo mpazamo. Ngexesha elinzima, singabafundisa abantwana bethu ukuba iimpazamo zabo azizenzi zingathandeki okanye zikhohlakele.

Okwenzekileyo kunokuba yimpazamo abaza kuzisola ngayo kamva, kodwa ixabiso kunye nokuhlala kwabo kuhlala kunjalo, kungatshintshi. Xa abantwana besenza iimpazamo kufanelekile ukuba bathethe malunga nendlela abaziva ngayo ukuba baneentloni kwaye ngethamo elifanelekileyo lehlazo okanye ityala isikhuthazi kunye nenkuthazo yokwenza utshintsho olufanelekileyo lokuphucula kwikamva.

Ngenxa yokuba iimpazamo ziyinxalenye yobuntu, abantwana kufuneka bafunde ukungavumeli iintloni zingene ezintliziyweni zabo. Ukuziva unetyala emva kwempazamo kuyanceda ekuphuhliseni ukuqonda okuhle nokubi, Kodwa iintloni zihlala zibenza abantwana bangene nzulu ekuziphatheni okungalunganga njengelinge lokuziqinisekisa ukuba le nto bayenzayo ilungile, okanye bayeke umbono wokuba bangaze 'balunge'.

Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba abazali bangasebenzisi iintloni ukwenza abantwana babo bazive bengalunganga malunga nabo. Abancinci bafuna ukuba iimvakalelo zabo ziqinisekiswe kwaye bazive beqondakala ngaphambi kwayo nayiphi na enye into. Iimpazamo ziyinxalenye yokufunda kwaye akufuneki uzive unetyala okanye uneentloni ngokwenza impazamo ungaqondanga.

Kubalulekile ukuthetha nomntwana malunga nokuziphatha kwakhe kwaye umazise ukuba unetyala lokuziphatha okunokulimaza omnye umntu, kodwa oko akumenzi umntu ombi kwaphela. Kuyimfuneko ukwahlula indlela yokuziphatha kwi-identity yomntwana kwaye umkhokele kwindlela yokuziphatha efanelekileyo.


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