Iselfowuni sisixhobo esiqhelekileyo emakhayeni azo zonke iintsapho kunye neepokotho zabantu abaninzi. Ifowuni ephathekayo ibe sisixhobo esibalulekileyo ebomini boluntu kwaye, ngelishwa, iya isiba yinto eqhelekileyo ebantwaneni ukuba bathethe nabazali babo, ngelixa bona, bexakekile, bejonge izikrini zabo eziphathwayo. Ibe lutshaba lokuzalisa xa lusetyenziswa kakhulu.
Aba bazali ngabo abathi kamva bakhathazeke malunga nexesha elichithwa ngabantwana babo phambi kwezikrini, kodwa kunjalo… ngumzekelo omele ukufundisa ngaphezulu kwelizwi. Iselfowuni sisiphazamiso somzali ekukhuliseni abantwana bakhe kwaye ngumbulali wexesha losapho olusemgangathweni.
Abantwana bayabuza yonke imihla (ezibonakalisa kukuziphatha gwenxa) ukuba sinxibelelana nabo ngokunqamla kwifowuni. Bafuna abazali babo ukunxibelelana neemfuno zabo zomzimba kunye neemvakalelo kuba kungale ndlela kuphela abaya kukwazi ukuziva ukuba bakusapho.
Abazali kufuneka bacinge ngexesha abalichitha nabantwana babo kwaye xa belichitha, bacinge ngendlela abenza ngayo. Ngaba lixesha elisemgangathweni ngokwenene, okanye ngaba uyaxhoma ukwenza ezinye izinto endaweni yokuchitha ixesha kunye nisenza izinto ezidibeneyo? Abazali kufuneka babe ngumzekelo obalaseleyo wokusetyenziswa kwetekhnoloji entsha kwaye into yokuqala ekufuneka beyenzile kukubabeka ecaleni ukuze bachithe ixesha nosapho kwaye bonwabele abantwana babo.
Kule mihla, xa abazali benobunzima ekufumaneni ixesha lokuba ngabazali, oku kuyakwenza ukuba izibini zingazinzi kwaye ziya kuvela kubantu abadala nakubantwana, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka ube nabantwana bakho ixesha elithile suku ngalunye ukuze ungabonwabeli okanye ube kunye kodwa ngaphandle kokuchitha ixesha elisemgangathweni. Oku kuthetha ukuba xa ukunye nabantwana bakho, nokuba inde kangakanani, kufuneka ubanike ingqalelo yakho ... bayayidinga ukuze bayiphuhlise kwaye wonwabe.