Ukuziphatha ngokwesini kuchazwe kuBantwana

Njengoko yonke i-23 kaSeptemba ikhunjulwa kwihlabathi jikelele, Usuku lwaMazwe ngaMazwe lokuBisexuality, uphawu lwesini ekungafane kuthethwe ngalo esikolweni okanye ekhaya, ekubeni ubukhulu becala sithetha ngobufanasini nobufanasini. Nangona kunjalo, kukho ezinye iindidi zesini, phakathi kwabo, abantu besini esahlukileyo.

Kwibutho lanamhlanje, ezi ntlobo ngeentlobo zesini ziya zithathelwa ingqalelo ngakumbi. Kungenzeka ukuba namhlanje, okanye ngolunye usuku, baya kukubuza ukuba yintoni na bisexuality. Sifuna ukukunika iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokuyicacisa, rhoqo kuthathelwa ingqalelo ubudala benkwenkwe okanye intombazana.

Yintoni ubuni obubini? Iingcamango eziqikelelweyo

Ubuni obubini Kukuziqhelanisa nesondo leyo, njengobungqingili kunye nobufanasini, ayikhethwanga. Akuthethi ukuba umntu ubhidekile okanye akagqibanga. Kwaye asiyonguqulelo eya kubufanasini. Ubuni obubini luphawu olupheleleyo lwezesondo kwaye ngokwayo. Lulwazi oluncinane oluqondwayo, oluthi ngamaxesha amaninzi lubhalwe “ukuziphatha okubi.”

Xa sithetha nabantwana bethu ngokuthandana kwabantu besini esinye, masiyisuse into yokuba amadoda namabhinqa anesini esinye akakhathali ngesini esinye okanye esinye. Abantu abanesini esinye Baziva betsaleleka ngokwesondo nangokweemvakalelo kubantu besini esinye kunye, okanye isini. Abantu abathandana besini esinye banokuziva betsaleleka kubantu be-cisgender, abantu abatshintshileyo, abantu besini esinye. Koku kwahluka kweentlobano zesini ungafumana indlela yokuthetha nabantwana bakho kuyo Oku kubhaliwe.

Abantu abathandana besini esi-sibini abanabo ubufanasini okanye ubudlelwane besini esahlukileyo ngokomkhethe womnye umntu, kodwa endaweni yoko banobudlelwane ngokweemvakalelo kunye nokwabelana ngesondo okusekwe kwiminqweno yabo yeemvakalelo. Kwezinye iimeko amava bisexuality iyabuzwa, nangaphakathi kuluntu lwe-LGTBI, oluye lwaqhubela phambili ukungabonakali kunye nocalucalulo. Esi sesinye sezizathu, ukubonwa kwayo, kutheni le nto ibhiyozelwa uSuku lweHlabathi lokuNika iBisexuality.

Cacisa ubuni obubini

Abantwana babelana ngesondo, kodwa ukuphuhliswa kwesazisi ngokwesondo inkqubo enezigaba ezahlukeneyo kulo lonke uphuhliso lwamakhwenkwe namantombazana. Izinto zebhayoloji, ingqiqo, iimvakalelo kunye nezentlalo zingenelela kule nkqubo. Isazisi ngokwesondo yindlela abantwana nabafikisayo abazichaza ngayo, amadoda, abasetyhini okanye umxube wabo bobabini, kwaye ikwabandakanya ukuziqhelanisa nesondo.

Kubalulekile ukuba xa sithetha noonyana kunye neentombi zethu malunga nesini, okanye enye isazisi ngokwesondo, senze njalo. ukusuka kwintlonipho, ukubandakanywa kunye nokunyamezelana. Kufuneka bafunde ukuphatha bonke abantu ngesidima. Ngokusebenzisa imfundo, esikolweni nasekhaya, yindlela yokuchonga iingcamango ezifana nokuxhatshazwa kunye nokuxhatshazwa, ukuqaphela ilungelo lomntu ngamnye lokujongana nobunikazi bakhe ngokwesondo.

Ngokumalunga nesini esinye, kukho a ingcamango yocalucalulo eyi-biphobia. Ungacacisela abantwana bakho ukuba baseti yeemvakalelo ezingalunganga, izimo zengqondo kunye nokuziphatha kubantu abathandana nesini esinye.

Iimbekiselo zenkcubeko malunga nesini esibini


Ngesinye isihlandlo siye sagqabaza ukuba ukuze amakhwenkwe namantombazana aqonde iimpawu ezahlukahlukeneyo zesini anokubeka imizekelo yabantu abaphumeleleyo kwezemidlalo, inzululwazi, okanye iindawo abazithandayo kakhulu. Inyaniso yeyokuba akukho naziphi na iimbekiselo zesini esibini kwinkcubeko, kwaye uninzi lwazo lusekelwe kwiingcamango ezingalunganga. Abanye abantu ababubonileyo ubufanasini babo kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo nguDulceida, uRicky Martin, uSophie Turner, uPaco León, uMegan Fox, uLady Gaga, uDrew Barrymore, uJanelle Monáe okanye iAzealia Banks.

Kwisithethe saseNtshona, kukho imithombo ethetha ngezenzo zesini ezimbini ezivela eGrisi, omnye wabo yayinguAlexander Omkhulu. Kodwa ke kukho ukuthula okukhulu. Kukho iinkcubeko apho ukwahlulwa ngokwesini kubandakanya isini sesithathu, "indoda okanye ibhinqa". Umahluko phakathi kwabantu abathandana besini esifana nesabo, ubuni obungafaniyo kunye nobuni obubini akukho nto ikhoyo kwesi sini nakwabo babelana ngesondo nalo mntu.

Njengenqaku elinomdla, unokuxelela abantwana bakho ukuba iflegi yokuzingca yesini esibini, Iyilwe nguMichael Page, inomgca opinki omele ubufanasini, oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka omele ubuni obungafaniyo kunye nomfusa (umxube opinki nobhlowu) embindini omele ubufanasini.


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