Ubuntwana linqanaba lobomi eliqala ekuzalweni ukuya ekuvuthweni komntwana. Ngamnye umntwana bohlukile omnye komnye ke ubuntwana bukhula ngendlela ethile kumntwana ngamnye kwaye abafani. Ebuntwaneni, umntwana omncinci uya kuba nakho ukufumana uthotho lwezakhono eziya kumnceda ukuba akhule njengomntu kwaye azicingele.
Ngenxa yoku, umntwana uya kuthotho lweenguqu kwinqanaba lokuqonda, kulwimi okanye kwinqanaba lentlalontle kunye neemvakalelo. Emva koko siza kuthetha ngeempawu zobuntwana kunye nezigaba zabo.
Izigaba zobuntwana
Kwinqanaba lobuntwana banokuchazwa ngokucacileyo izigaba ezibini ezahlukileyo:
- Lowo waziwa njengobuntwana bokuqala okanye ebuntwaneni bokuqala oqala kunyaka wokuqala de umntwana abe neminyaka emithandathu ubudala.
- Isigaba sesibini bubuntwana kwaye isuka kwiminyaka emithandathu ukuya kwiminyaka elishumi elinambini isiya ebusheni.
Kuwo onke la manqanaba mabini, umntwana uya kuva uthotho lweenguqu kokubini, ngokwasengqondweni nangokolwimi. Ukongeza koku, uqala ukuba nokuzimela ngakumbi ngokubhekisele kubazali bakhe kwaye aqala ukunxulumana nabanye abantu abamngqongileyo.
Kwenzeka ntoni kwisigaba ngasinye sobuntwana
Emva koko sikuchaza ngendlela eneenkcukacha ngakumbi Iimpawu zesigaba ngasinye kunye notshintsho oluza kwenziwa lincinci:
Ukusukela kunyaka wokuqala ubudala ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu, abantwana baqala ngokuya enkulisa kwaye Bazakufumana uthotho lweenguqu ezibaluleke kakhulu. I-egocentricity ikhona ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye abayikukhathalela ukuba abanye bacinga ntoni. Ngokunxulumene nolwimi, baqala ngokusebenzisa igama elinye kwaye kancinci kancinci benza izivakalisi ezinentsingiselo ukunxibelelana. Ekupheleni kwesi sigaba umntwana uqala ukudibana nabanye abantwana abakwiminyaka efanayo kwaye aqale ukuphonononga yonke into emngqongileyo.
Phakathi kweminyaka emithathu ukuya kwemithandathu ubudala, umntwana usesekuqaleni Kwaye yavela ngakumbi ngakumbi kuphuhliso lwayo. Kukho ukuphucuka kokusetyenziswa kolwimi kwaye sele ekwazi ukunxibelelana ngaphandle kwengxaki, nangona kusafuneka ukuba aphucule kakhulu kule nkalo.Kwezentlalo, umntwana sele ekwazi ukuba nesangqa sabahlobo dlala kwaye ube nexesha elimnandi. Enye into ebalulekileyo kwimbono yomsebenzi weemoto kukuba sele bekwazi ukulawula i-sphincters kwaye bafumane ukuzimela okukhulu kokuhamba.
Inqanaba lokugqibela lobuntwana lelo elenzeka phakathi kweminyaka emithandathu ukuya kwelishumi elinambini. Ekupheleni kweli nqanaba, umntwana uba kwishumi elivisayo. Ngokumalunga nendawo yokuqonda, umntwana uyakwazi ukucinga ngendlela engaqondakaliyo. Ukutyhubela iminyaka ulwimi kunye nesigama siyaqhubeka kwaye sihlandlo ngasinye enxibelelana ngcono nabanye. Abahlobo baya ngokubaluleka ngakumbi kwaye uqala ukwaphula imigaqo ebekwe lusapho. Ngokunxulumene nendawo yemoto, umntwana unolawulo olukhulu lokuhamba komzimba wakhe.
Ukusukela kwiminyaka elishumi elinambini, umntwana ulishiya ngasemva inqanaba lobuntwana kwaye aqale inqanaba elibaluleke kakhulu ebomini kuba engena ngokupheleleyo ebusheni apho aya kuthi ngokuqinisekileyo abunjwe njengomntu. Ubuntwana linqanaba elimangalisayo nelikhethekileyo lobomi kuye nawuphi na umntwana. Kuyo wenza abahlobo bakhe bokuqala, aqale ukunxibelelana nendalo emngqongileyo, aqale ukunxibelelana nabanye abantu kwaye aphile amava amahle kwaye awodwa angenakuphindwa.