Sisoloko sisiva ukuba iintsana, amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana kufuneka funda ukunyamezela unxunguphalo.
Kodwa sithetha ntoni ngokuchanekileyo? Ukunyamezela unxunguphalo olubangelwa kukungakwazi ukutya enye i-ice cream, umzekelo? Okanye unyamezele ukukhathazeka okubangelwe ukwala ukubanjwa emva kokuhamba ezitalatweni?
Ukudideka kunokubangelwa kukungazaliseki komnqweno okanye yimfuno engazalisekiswanga. Kukho ukudideka okuninzi xa kufikwa kwesi sihloko kuba, njengomgaqo ngokubanzi, akukho mahluko phakathi kolunye uhlobo lwesidingo okanye olunye.
Zithini ezi mfuno?
Iintsana nabantwana baneemfuno eziphambili kunye nezesekondari. Eyokuqala, iimfuno eziphambili zizalwa nazo. Zinxulumene nentlalo-ntle, nokusinda. Zizona mfuno zisisiseko: ukutya, ucoceko, ukulala ... kodwa njengezona zisisiseko ziimvakalelo, isidingo sokuziva sithandwa, sikhuselekile, isidingo sokudlala, ukuphonononga ...
Izidingo zesekondari, kwelinye icala, azizalwanga kodwa zenziwa luluntu esihlala kulo: Ukutya umabonwakude, iilekese, izinto ... akubalulekanga ukuhlala nokuba inkcubeko yethu ithi ewe.
Ukungaphenduli, ukuphazamisa ezona mfuno zisisiseko akuyi kuba neziphumo ezifanayo nokuphazamisa iimfuno ezenziwe luluntu.
Ke, ukuphazamisa isidingo soqhakamshelwano, ukuthandwa, ukuqondwa ... kudala ukubandezeleka kusana okanye emntwaneni. Ukongeza, kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba umgangatho wobudlelwane phakathi komntu omdala nomntwana kuxhomekeke kwimpendulo umntu omdala ayinika iimfuno zomntwana. Ukungazifezekisi ezi mfuno zisisiseko kuchaphazela kakubi ukuyilwa kwebhondi efanelekileyo.
Ngokwahlukileyo koko, iziphumo zokuphazamisa iimfuno ezenziwe luluntu azikho mbi kangako. Oku akuthethi ukuba sinokuyenza nangayiphi na indlela. Njengayo yonke eminye imiba enxulumene nokuba ngumzali, indlela yokwenza okanye yokuthetha izinto iyanquma. Intombazana yethu encinci ifuna ukuba sibe novelwano kunye nokuqonda ukukhathazeka kwayo. Ufuna ukuziva ekhatshwa, ufuna ukuba samkele imvakalelo yakhe, nokuba yeyiphi na, kwaye simthuthuzele.
Izidingo ezisisiseko akufuneki zikhathazeke okanye zisikelwe umda nangayiphi na indlela. Endaweni yoko, iimfuno eziziisekondari zinika ithuba elihle lokuthetha-thethana, kuhlala kuxhomekeke kubudala.