Ukuthi hayi kuye, ukumcacisela, ukuthetha naye ngendlela eqhelekileyo ayiqondayo kwiminyaka yakhe, kuya kubumba izimo zengqondo aza kuzenza kwixesha elizayo.
Ukwabelana akukho lula kumntwana omncinci. Yindlela yokunxibelelana ukuba kufuneka ufunde kancinci kancinci. Ekhaya, ukuba unabantakwenu okanye nabahlobo bakho, niyakungqina iimeko ezifuna ukuba kuthathwe amanyathelo. Makhe sibone ukuba benzeni nabantwana abafika kwisikolo sabantwana abancinci kunye nendlela ekufuneka beyiqhelanise nale nkqubo ngaphandle kokwenza ukuba kunyanzeleke.
Ukukhula komntwana ngaphambi kokufika enkulisa
Inkwenkwana, engayiyo enkulisaFunda ukuhlala ungqongwe ngabanye abantu. Ngokuyintloko umntwana ukunye nabazali bakhe, okanye ubuncinci ufumana kubo iimfundiso zokuqala kwaye kuthetha ntoni kanye ebomini bakhe. Umntwana ongaphantsi kweminyaka emi-2-3 uqala kwimithetho nakwindlela yokwenza izinto ngokungakhathali, nangona kunjalo sele bemkhonza. Ukuthi hayi kuye, ukumcacisela, ukuthetha naye ngendlela eqhelekileyo ayiqondayo kwiminyaka yakhe, kuya kubumba izimo zengqondo aza kuzenza kwixesha elizayo.
Umntwana ohlala nabazali bakhe sele eve ukuba bamxelela njani ukuba angabambi ngokuxhomekeke kwizinto, okanye ukuba akanakho ukufikelela okanye ukusebenzisa izinto okanye izixhobo zombane. Uxelelwe ukuba le ivela kuMama okanye uTata kwaye inokwaphuka. Los oobawo, ikakhulu, baxelela umntwana: "Sukuyithatha loo nto. Andiyi kukuvumela. Yeyam". Umyalezo othunyelwe kuye kukuba "ayiyiyo" kwaye ke akanakudlala ngayo.
Ubuntu bomntwana kunye nokuzimela
Incinci yisiponji, ifunxa yonke into kwaye ixelisa yonke into. Ukufika kweemeko apho kufuneka adlale okanye asebenzisane nabanye abantwana, ziya kuvela ngqu zulwano xa kufikwa ekwabelaneni. Umntwana unezinto zakhe zokudlala kwaye ufuna ukudlala nabanye, kodwa ngaphandle kwabo bazithathela ezakhe. Musa ukumnyanzela umntwana ukuba abelane, ngakumbi ukuba akafuni okanye akaqondi okwangoku. Umntwana ngamnye unesimilo sakhe kunye nendlela yokwenza okanye yokuthatha isigqibo.
Kuthatha ixesha elincinci ukuba umntwana omncinci azibone njengomntu ozimeleyo kunina. Xa uyiqonda, ucinga ngesiqu sakhe nangeemfuno zakhe kwaye akaziboni ezo zabanye okanye awucingi ukuba kufuneka ubandakanyeke. Umntwana okwangoku akanawo amandla ovelwano, kwaye ayizukufika de ibe malunga neminyaka emi-6 ubudala. Unokucaciselwa kuye ukuba kuya kuba mnandi ukudlala nge iigwegwe zabanye. Emva koko elowo uza kubuyela ekhaya kunye neyakhe, kwimeko yokuzisa iithoyi zabo kwaye yintoni ese nursery yeyomntu wonke.
Ukwabelana kwindawo yokugcina abantwana
Kwizinto zasenkulisa izinto zenziwa ngokufanayo, iimeko kunye namava kwabelwana ngawo nabanye ofunda nabo kunye nootitshala.
Kwisikolo sabantwana abancinane iya kuba yenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo kwimeko yabantu, izinto zenziwa ngokufanayo, iimeko kunye namava kwabelwana ngawo nabanye abafundi nootitshala. Kuya kwenziwa iimeko apho njengomntwana kuya kufuneka uziphendulele kwaye ungapheleli nje ekuncedeni. Omncinci uzokuntywiliselwa kwimisebenzi yeqela apho abantwana iinjongo Zichazelwe wonke umntu kwaye kufuneka bancedane ukuze baziphumeze.
Ukwabelana kuya kuba sisiseko esisisiseko ekuqaleni kwenkulisa, kwaye umntwana kufuneka ajongane nayo. Wonke umntu angathatha into eseklasini kwaye Kuya kubakho iimbambano nomsindo. Kulapho kuya kufuneka usebenzise izixhobo ezivumelwa ubudala. Abantu bayadibana, bahlala nabanye kwaye ke ngoko mabancedane. Yabelana:
- Nceda uphuhliso lomntu kunye noluntu.
- Yenza i uvelwano.
- Inceda ekuhlaleni.
- Yomeleza ukuhlalisana kunye noxinzelelo lweemvakalelo nabanye.
- Inceda ukuzithemba nokuzimela.
- Iphucula izakhono zentlalo.
Izinto eziluncedo xa usabelana
Ukufika kwindawo yokubelekisa, umntwana uya kufunda imigaqo eyahlukeneyo, elandela eminye eyafakwa ngabazali kuye. Eyona ibalulekileyo yile Yenza umntwana abone ukuba abantu beza ngaphambi kwezinto eziphathekayo. Kubaluleke ngakumbi ukonwabisa umhlobo okanye ilungu losapho ngokubanika uthando kunokuba ubanike into. Umntwana kwindawo yokugcina abantwana uya kuyazi izinto ezidlulayo xa usabelana:
- La kumnandi ukwabelana: Abantwana kunye nootitshala banokuxhamla kwiibhondi zemidlalo kwaye banelise iimfuno.
- Ukuzimela.
- Ingcamango yommelwane.
- Into engeyoyakho yeyomntu wonke Kwaye nabani na oyifunayo angayifumana, kuye lowo uyishiyelwe ngootitshala okanye nabani na onethuba.
- Ukulunga, ububele kunye nesimo sengqondo sokungakhathali kubantu abadala ekufuneka bebonile njengabantwana.
- El tyhala, ukuqiniswa Ukuba wenza izijekulo ezivuyisayo kwaye uyavuyisana naye, uyakumenza aqonde ukuba wenze ngendlela echanekileyo kwaye uyakuyiphinda nakwimeko ezizayo.