Funda ukwabelana

Ukudlala komntwana

Masicinge ngale ndawo ilandelayo: siselwandle, kunye nentombi yethu eneminyaka emi-2 nesiqingatha ubudala kunye nebhola, ibhakethi kunye neepaddles ezimbalwa.

Inkwenkwe emalunga neli xesha isondela, inomdla kwibhola yentombi yethu. Uthatha inyathelo lokuyithatha kodwa umnini wayo ofanelekileyo akazimisele ukwabelana ngayo. Phantse ngokuqinisekileyo emva koko, umntu othile osondeleyo uya kuthi okanye ubuncinci acinge ukuba “kufuneka ufunde ukwabelana".

Kodwa ngaba siqinisekile ukuba kunjalo? Ngaba kufuneka ufunde ukwabelana? Ngaba isisa siyafundwa? Ngaba sifuna intombi yethu ukuba yabelane kuba siyinyanzela okanye kungenxa yokuba izalelwe ukwenza njalo?

Abantwana bethu banokufunda ukwabelana ukuba sibafundisa ngomzekelo. Kwaye sinokuqiniseka ukuba xa ixesha lifika, baya kuyenza kuba besiva umnqweno. Kuba ngokwenza njalo, baya kwandisa ubudlelwane nabanye abantwana.

Abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka emi-3 abayiqondi into yokwabelana. Abazi ukuba yintoni ipropathi yabucala, abayiqondi intsingiselo "yeyakho". Kubo, yonke into "yeyam".

Ukwabelana ngomdlalo

Ayisiyiyo ngenxa yokuba bayazingca, kodwa kuba behamba ixesha lokuphuhliswa kwabo okuphawulwe egocentrism. Ihlabathi liyabajikeleza. Ilanga liyaphuma kuba bevukile, Nenyanga, ngokuba belele. Yonke into "yeyam", abaqondi ukuba kunokubakho into engeyoyabo.

Ngaba oku kuya kuhlala kunjalo? Awusoze wabelana nganto? Ngaba kufanelekile ukuba senze okuthile ukoyisa oku kuzingca?

Akukho mfuneko. Oku kuzingca kuya kukoyisa ngokuvuthwa. Kuyakufika usuku, malunga neminyaka emi-3 okanye emi-4, apho baya kuthi baqonde ukuba ukwabelana ngezinto zabo nabanye abantwana akuthethi ukuba balahlekile, kodwa ngale ndlela, amathuba enkampani kunye nokudlala ayandiswa. Ngendlela yokwenyani, ngaphandle komntu omdala othe "kufuneka ufunde ukwabelana."

Abantwana banesisa, kodwa bafuna ukuba sibanike ixesha, ukuhlonipha isingqisho sabo sokuvuthwa.

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