Umntwana wakho akazukuphumelela kuyo yonke into. Ke ngoko, kuya kufuneka ufunde ubugcisa bokuba ngumlahleki olungileyo. Kwasebusaneni, kufanele ukuba bafundiswe ukuvuyisana nomntu ophumeleleyo kunye nokuxhawula isandla somdlali welinye iqela. Thetha nomntwana wakho malunga nokuphumelela kunye nokuphulukana.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba kulungile ukuphulukana kwaye kunokukunceda ube ngcono kwixesha elizayo. Lithuba lokufunda kwaye ube ngcono kwikamva. Kuya kufuneka bahalalisele abaphumeleleyo kuba ngenye imini banokuphumelela kwaye kuya kuba mnandi xa abanye bevuyisana nabo.
Umhlaba uya kuba yindawo engcono xa sonke sifunda ukuvuya kwimpumelelo yabanye, ngakumbi ukuba abo bantu ngabahlobo kunye nosapho. Ngokudlala imidlalo yebhodi ungandifundisa ngomzekelo. Vuyisana nabaphumeleleyo ngentliziyo yakho ukuze uzive wonwabile ngempumelelo. Kwelinye icala, ukuba umntu ulahlekile ungamxelela ukuba angangathi abe nethamsanqa elizayo kwaye ancume naye.
Yindlela yokufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba ezi ziindlela esibonisa ngazo ububele kwabanye, ngakumbi xa siphulukana. Sisifundo esinzima ukuba abantwana abancinci basiqonde, kodwa kuya kufuneka ungqinelane nokuziphatha kwakho kunye nokunyanzelisa ukuba benze ngendlela efanayo xa bengaphumeleli. Ekugqibeleni, ekuhambeni kwexesha oku kuya kuhlawula kwaye uya kuba nomntwana oye wafunda ngokwenene ukonwaba kwabanye. kuba bayazi ukuba kunjani ukuphumelela nokungaphumeleli, kwaye abanakuphumelela ngalo lonke ixesha.
Unokuthatha nethuba lokuthetha malunga nento abayenze kakuhle kumdlalo okanye into abayenzileyo engalunganga kunye nokuba kutheni belahlekile. Yalatha izinto ezintle emva koko ubabuze ukuba bacinga ukuba bangaphucula ntoni kwixesha elizayo. Bavumele ukuba bazicingele endaweni yokukuxelela impendulo kuba ngaloo ndlela baya kwenza ngaphakathi ukuba benze ntoni.