Kwiintsapho, abantwana kufuneka bafundiswe ukuba sonke siyazenza iimpazamo kwaye kufanelekile ukucela uxolo ngenxa yabo. Kuyaziwa ukuba kukhathaza kangakanani xa uxolisa ngokunyanisekileyo emntwini kwaye engavumi ukuyamkela kwaye ukhetha ukuyiyeka ihambe okanye umane uqhekeza ubudlelwane ukuba uyazi ukuba uziva njani xa bekwenzile oko, awunyanzelekanga ukuba wenze kwabanye.
Emva komlo okanye impikiswano kusapho, kufanele ukuba kusoloko kubakho uxolo kwabo babandakanyekayo. Kulula ukuxolela umntu xa ekunika ithuba lokwenza njalo. Ukucela ukuxolelwa kubaluleke kakhulu kuba sisiqalo sokuyeka ingqumbo.
Kwangokunjalo, kulula ngakumbi ukuba kubekho imvisiswano kusapho xa uthando lwamkelwa. Ngokukodwa xa ubuntwana bakho uzive ungathandwa ngokwaneleyo, ngoku nabantwana bakho ungayibamba kwaye uzive ungcono.
Ukuba nolwalamano oluhle nolusempilweni nabantwana bakho kufuna umsebenzi omninzi, kodwa kukwanomvuzo omkhulu. Ukwabelana ngobomi bakho nomntu omthandayo kunokuba yenye yezona zinto zibalaseleyo onokuzenza ... kwaye xa bengabantwana bakho, ubomi buba nentsingiselo.
Xa abantwana bakho okanye iqabane lakho likuxelela ukuba bayakuthanda, kholelwe kuba liyinyani. Yamkela olo thando ngento oyiyo hayi le uyifunayo. Ukuba unobudlelwane obuhle kwaye uye waqonda ukuba akunakulindela lukhulu, yamkele nayo. Asinguye wonke umntu onako baveze iimvakalelo zabo ngamazwi kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba abakuthandi ngentliziyo yabo yonke.
Yamkela ukuba umntu ohamba naye okanye omnye wabantwana bakho angangabonakalisi uthando ngendlela efanayo nawe. Abanye abantu kufuneka beve izinto ezintle kwaye abanye kufuneka babe nexesha elimnandi kunye. Sonke sifuna izinto ezahlukeneyo ukuze sive sithandwa. Akusoloko kulula, kodwa kufuneka ihlale kufanelekile.