Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuphatha iimvakalelo zazo zonke iintlobo

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Iimvakalelo zinokusenza sizive silungile kwaye singalunganga ngokuxhomekeke kwiimeko okanye indlela esizifumana ngayo. Iimvakalelo ziyimfuneko, ukuze uziqonde ngcono ukuba zihlelwa kwiimvakalelo ezilungileyo okanye ezimbi. Into ephambili kukuba abantwana baqonde ukuba iimvakalelo ziyimfuneko kwaye zezona zisixelela ukuba silungile na okanye asilunganga kwiimeko ezithile.

Xa ufunda ukubona nokulawula iimvakalelo zakho, unokufumana isisombululo sokufumana ulungelelwaniso lweemvakalelo zakho kwakhona.

Ukubaluleka kolawulo lweemvakalelo ebantwini

Ukulawula kakuhle iimvakalelo kuyafuneka ukuba ufunde ezinye izakhono ezinje ngokuqonda kunye novelwano, mpawu ezo abantwana abanobukrelekrele obuphezulu beemvakalelo abaya kuziqonda ngokugqibeleleyo. Ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo bubhekisa kubuchule bokuqonda kakuhle iimvakalelo kuye nakwabanye, Ukuchaza ngokufanelekileyo kunye nokulawula ezi mvakalelo, kwaye uzisebenzise ngokufanelekileyo ukukhokela iingcinga kunye nokuziphatha komntu kwinjongo oyifunayo.

Abazali kufuneka babe ziingcali kule mimandla ukunceda abantwana babo (kunye nathi) basebenzisane nabanye ngokufanelekileyo, ukukhulisa ubudlelwane obunempilo nobomeleleyo ekuhlaleni kunye nokunceda abantwana bajongane neemeko ezinzima ngokwasemphefumlweni ngokucinga nokuziphatha ngeendlela ezinceda ukuthoba amanqanaba oxinzelelo kunye nokuxhasa impilo yakho yengqondo.

Ukufezekisa oku, kubalulekile ukuba wazi amanyathelo athile abantwana bakho ukuba babe krelekrele ngokwasemphefumlweni kwaye bakwazi ukulawula nokusingatha zonke iintlobo zeemvakalelo, olona lonwabo lukhulu kunye nomsindo omkhulu. Ungayifumana njani? Ungalahli iinkcukacha.

Fundisa abantwana ukulawula iimvakalelo

Fundisa abantwana bakho ukulawula iimvakalelo ngezenzo

Abantwana kufuneka bafunde 'kutheni' kunye 'nendlela' yezinto. Oku kubhetele kunokubaxelela nje ukuba mabenze ntoni. Ngale ndlela, xa uxelela umntwana wakho ukuba enze ntoni kwaye ulindele ntoni kuye, Kuya kufuneka uthathe ingqalelo uchaze ukuba kutheni le nto kufuneka uyenze kwaye kufuneka uyenze njani, Ke, ukongeza ekuyiqondeni, uya kuba nezixhobo ukuze ukwazi ukutshintsha indlela oziphethe ngayo.

Oku kubabonelela ngemizekelo ephathekayo yento ekuthethwa ngayo ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo, ngenxa yoko banokubanakho ukuyisebenzisa kwiimeko zobomi bokwenyani. Umzekelo, ukuba usebenza kwikhompyuter, thatha ikhefu xa kukho into engalunganga, ukuze abantwana bakho bafunde ukwenza okufanayo xa beziva bekhathazekile: bayakuthatha ikhefu lokujonga ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kubo kwaye bafumane okona kulungileyo. isisombululo kwimeko ethile.

Ukucacisa ngakumbi kwaye umntwana wakho aqonde ngcono ngomzekelo wakho, ungatsho into efana nale: "Ndiba nomsindo omncinci kuba ingqondo yam ayinayo imibono elungileyo ngoku." Ndicinga ukuba ndiza kuthatha uhambo olukhawulezileyo ukuzola, emva koko ndiphinde ndizame ngelinye ixesha. " Khumbula ukuba umzekelo wakho kunye nezenzo zakho zezona zifundo zibalaseleyo onokuzifundisa abantwana bakho, nangaphezulu kunamazwi nje.

Ukufundisa ukuba ufune inkxaso xa uyifuna

Kubalulekile ukuba ufundise abantwana bakho ukuba kulungile ukuba bafune uncedo kunye nenkxaso xa izinto zisenza singonwabi okanye singakwazi ukubaphatha kakuhle. Oku kuya kubanceda ukuba babe nobuchule ngakumbi ekunikezeleni ngenkxaso noncedo. xa abanye abantu kwindawo okufutshane beyifuna.

Umzekelo, ngenye imini ungacela umntwana wakho ukuba awanga aze athethe into efana nale: "Namhlanje ndiziva ndibuhlungu kancinci, ungandanga ukuze undenze ndizive ngcono?" Unako nokubawola abantwana bakho xa bedakumbile okanye benomsindo ukubathuthuzela ngokweemvakalelo kwaye babenze bazive bebhetele.


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Olunye uluvo olukhulu lokufuna inkxaso kunye noncedo kwabanye kukufundisa abantwana ukusombulula iingxaki kunye. Ungayixelela into efana nale: "Ndiziva ndibuhlungu ngoku kuba isixhobo ebendisifuna asikho evenkileni, ndingenza ntoni ukuze ndizive ngcono?" Oku kunika umntwana wakho ithuba lokucinga ngombono wokuyila kwaye afumane indlela yokuba ngcono ngokubulela ngoncedo lwabo.

Fundisa abantwana bakho ukubona iimvakalelo

Ukuze uchonge iimvakalelo, kuya kufuneka uzinike amagama kwaye uqonde ubudlelwane obuntsonkothileyo abanokubakho kunye neemeko ezithile esihlangabezana nazo mihla le. Endaweni yokufundisa iimvakalelo ezinje ngolonwabo, usizi, uloyiko okanye umsindo, kungcono banceda abantwana baziqonde ezi mvakalelo nokuba zahluka njani kubunzulu xa zixutywe nezinye iimvakalelo (njengaxa ukuphoxeka kuvakala xa usizi kunye nokudana kudityaniswa).

Oku kuya kunceda abantwana ukuba babone ngcono iimvakalelo zabo nakwabanye, kwaye ngenxa yoko babavumele basebenzise iindlela ezithile zokujongana nezi mvakalelo.

Izenzo zinezizathu kunye nefuthe

Abantwana kufuneka bafundiswe ukufumanisa ukuba zeziphi na iindlela zolawulo lweemvakalelo ezinokuthi zisebenze kwaye ngamanye amaxesha azifanelekanga. Umzekelo, Ukuhambahamba kwaye uphoswe yiklasi abangayithandiyo ngokukhethekileyo kunokukufaka engxakini. Kodwa unokucwangcisa ukwenza into ukuze ubanike imeko elungileyo ngaphambi kwelo xesha okanye wenze into entle emva kwelo klasi.

Unxibelelwano phakathi kwabantu kufuneka lusebenze

Ukuze uphumelele kubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu, nokuba kusapho okanye kubahlobo, kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo ukuba kunokuhlala kukho ukungavisisani kubudlelwane. Abantwana kufuneka babe nezakhono eziyimfuneko ukuze banxibelelane nabanye kakuhle. Uninzi lwezi zakhono lufundwa ngokujonga, kwaye njengomzali, ungazifundisa ngokumodareyitha ubudlelwane obuhle nabanye.

Kukho izakhono ezifanelekileyo zokunxibelelana onokuzenza kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla kwaye ufundise umntwana wakho ngomzekelo:

  • Yiba nezakhono zokuphulaphula xa uncokola
  • Veza umbono wakho ngokuzithemba
  • Yiba novelwano nabanye
  • Mamela kwiimfuno zakho
  • Thatha inxaxheba kwizicwangciso ezifanelekileyo zokusombulula ungquzulwano ukuze ube neziphumo ezamkelekileyo kukungavisisani ngaphandle kokulimaza abanye abantu

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