Enye yezinto endizikhumbulayo ngexesha lokubeleka yindlela abongikazi ababephatha ngayo usana lwam. Phezulu, ezantsi bayilinganisa, bayilinganisa ngokuthamba okuqinileyo ngexesha elifanayo, kude kubuthathaka obunokuthi umntu acinge. Yayingomnye omkhulu iintsomi zabantwana abasandul 'ukuzalwa yawa imizuzwana emva kokuzalwa kosana lwam.
Emva koko kwalandela ukugqabhuka komhlaba, njengoko umntwana wayekhula kwaye ekhula. Inyaniso kukuba kukho uluhlu lwe iintsomi malunga neentsana, amabali adluliselwa kwizizukulwana ngezizukulwana kwaye angasoloko eyinyaniso. Makhe sibone ezinye.
Iintsomi nenyaniso malunga neentsana
Xa kuzalwa umntwana, kuvela uloyiko. Ingakumbi ukuba ngabazali abatsha: ukuba umntwana uthatha ukubanda kakhulu, ukuba ubuthathaka kakhulu kwaye ufuna ukhathalelo olukhethekileyo. Kungcono ntoni ukuba ewe, hayi. Phakathi kweentsomi zabantwana abasandul 'ukuzalwa bubuthathaka obugqithisileyo, umbono wokuba nantoni na inokwenzeka kubo. Ininzi kangakanani inyaniso kule nto?
NgokukaGqirha José María LLoreda, ingcali kwezonyango lwabantwana kunye nesidanga se-Neonatology kwi-Spanish Society of Neonatology, abantwana abasandul 'ukuzalwa abanabuthathaka kangako. Kuyinyani ukuba kufuneka unonophele kwaye unakekele naluphi na utshintsho oluthile kodwa iintsana azidingi kukhathalelwa ngokukodwa.
Ithetha ntoni le nto? Umntwana osempilweni, owondliweyo, kwaye okhathalelwe kakuhle kufuneka alunge, kwaye ngaphandle kononophelo olukhulu. Akukho mfuneko yokuba uqaphele ukuba bayabanda kakhulu kwaye bahlala bechukumisa iinyawo okanye izandla zabo. Phakathi kwe iintsomi zabantwana abasandul 'ukuzalwa Kukho umngcipheko wokubambesa ngaphezulu xa enyanisweni iintsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa zineziphelo ezibandayo kuba igazi labo lijikeleza kancinci.
Okunye intsomi kukufa ngesiquphe. Kuyinyani ukuba kukho ipesenti yabantwana abasandul 'ukuzalwa abaphethwe yiyo kodwa akukho matrasi okanye isixhobo esinokuthintela oku. Nokuba abazali bavukile bejonga ukuba uyaphefumla na. Kananjalo ayizizo ithiyori malunga nokuba usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa kufuneka lulale njani: phezulu, ecaleni okanye ezantsi. Ithiyori ziyatshintsha ukutyhubela amashumi eminyaka.
Ukufakela uloyiko yimveliso yabaninzi iintsomi zabantwana abasandul 'ukuzalwa engenasiseko. Kuyafana nokwenza ngathi umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa akakhali okanye aguqule iinkqubo. Iintsana azinakuphuma ziye emhlabeni kwaye kufuneka zifunde ukuyilawula iwotshi yazo yebhayiloji. Umbono wokubandakanya iinkqubo zenyanga emva kokuba bezelwe kwaye balala bodwa egumbini ayisiyongqondo nje kuphela, kodwa kukwasongela kanye ibhayoloji yaso nasiphi na isilwanyana esanyisayo. Iintsana zifuna ukusondela koonina, umthombo wokhuseleko kunye nokutya. Kutheni ubabuza into efanayo?
Iintsomi ezi-debunking
Omnye wabakhulu iintsomi zabantwana abasandul 'ukuzalwa Oko kukuthi ukuba umntwana uvuka ebusuku kungenxa yokuba ebelambile. Kwaye apho umkhosi woomakhulu noomakazi babonakala becebisa ukuba usele ubisi oluninzi ebusuku okanye ukuba ibhotile yeenkozo inokuqinisekisa ubusuku obunoxolo. Akukho nto iqhubekayo kwinyani. Usana lungakhala ebusuku ngezizathu ezininzi ezingenanto yakwenza nendlala: ukungalali, ubukho, isidingo sokukhuselwa, ukulungelelaniswa, njl.
Phakathi iintsomi ezisanda kuzalwa Kukwakho nemicimbi yokucheba iinwele. Kuthiwa ukuba iinwele zomntwana zichetyiwe, iinwele ziya kukhula zomelele, into engenasiseko senzululwazi. Cheba iinwele zakhe kuphela ukuba uyafuna.
Ukuhlamba emva kokuwa kwethambo yenye into intsomi esanda kuzalwa. Ngokwolwimi oluqhelekileyo, usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa akufuneki luhlanjwe kude kube kuwa isambatho. Yintoni eyinyani apha? Kancinci kwaye akukho nto: akukho ngxaki ekuhlambeni usana, ekuphela kwento kukuhoya intambo, ukuyomisa kakuhle ukunqanda usulelo. Kwelinye icala, kuyacetyiswa ukuba usebenzise isepha nge-PH engathathi hlangothi kwaye uhlambe izandla zakho kakuhle ngaphambi nasemva kokucoca indawo yentambo.