Ukuqonda ubomi boluntu kuyimfuneko ukukhumbula ukuba kukho amaxesha abantu abenza njengezinto ezingaziwayo ixesha elininzi. Kuphela kuxa kwenzeka ingozi okanye intlekele apho abantu baziphatha njengeqela lentlalontle.
Kukwabalulekile ukuba ufunde ukuhlala ngokwentlalo kwihlabathi elibonakalayo. Sisoloko siphila kuxinzelelo kwaye kunzima nokuziva sikhululekile. Kwixesha elidlulileyo, imisebenzi ibisenziwa ngokwasemzimbeni kwaye ifuna ukuthatha inxaxheba kweqela, ke indlela yokuziphatha kwezentlalo ibinamandla kwaye ihlala ikhona ... kubonakala ngathi oku kude.
Namhlanje, siphila kwihlabathi elibonakalayo, sisebenzisa iingqondo zethu ixesha elininzi. Akukho qabane likhoyo lokwabelana ngeemvakalelo ezahlukeneyo esinokuthi sizithathe nangaliphi na ixesha. Nokuba imidlalo yangaphakathi kunye uthotho lukamabonwakude lusinyanzela ukuba siziva zonke iimvakalelo ngelixa sihleli singenzi kwanto.
Zonke iikhemikhali eziveliswe ngaphakathi kwimizimba yethu azifakwanga ngokufanelekileyo ngenxa yokuphila kwethu kunye nendlela yokuphila engasebenzi kangako. Oku kudala ukungalingani kwingqondo okunokuthi kuye kwindlela yeenjongo zemfundo ebomini. Hayi indlela ekuphikisana ngayo ukuba impumelelo esivakalelwa kukuba siyiphumezile ezifundweni zethu iya kuqinisekiswa kukungathandi nokungakhathali kwintlalo-ntle yethu neemvakalelo zethu!
Nazi iindlela ezintlanu zokukhuthaza abantwana bakho ukuba balinganise umsebenzi kunye nesikolo:
- Gcina isicwangciso sobomi, hlela imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla
- Musa ukuyihlehlisa imisebenzi. Ngokuzibekela amangomso, uvumela uluhlu lwezinto oza kuzenza ukuba lukhule lube lukhulu.
- Lala ngokwaneleyo ebusuku. Ukuziva uvuselelekile yeyona ndlela yokujongana nemiceli mngeni eziswa lusuku olutsha
- Ubeka phambili imisebenzi. Ukuba imisebenzi ibekwa phambili, uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo ziya kuthintelwa kwaye ubomi bentlalo buya kuba nemveliso ngakumbi.
- Hlela ixesha lakho ngokwakho. Akukho nanye kwezi zingasentla eya kusebenza kakuhle ukuba imfuno yangaphakathi yokuba lilungu kunye nokwamkelwa ayiqwalaselwa kuqala.