Ukubonelela ngakumbi ngento ayifunayo umntwana wakho ukuze aphumle ngokweemvakalelo

Ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zomntwana, kuya kufuneka senze okungaphezulu kunokubanika nje oko bakucelayo, kufuneka sibanike okungaphezulu. Ukunceda abantwana bethu baphumle kulolongo lwethu, kuya kufuneka sibanike ingqwalaselo engaphezulu kunokuba befuna kunye nonxibelelwano ngakumbi kunokuba befuna.

Ukuba basicela ukuba sibange, sinokubanga kwaye sibanikeze ngokujija kunye nokubanga nabo. Kufuneka sinike imvume engaphezulu kunokuba befuna kwaye kubaluleke ngakumbi kunokuba kufanelekile. Kwinyathelo ngalinye, kufuneka sinxibelelane ukuba sinesisa ngayo yonke into abayifunayo, kwaye banokuthatha konke ngokungakhathali. Naxa kufuneka sithi hayi, sinokuba nesisa ngokubanika ithuba lokuchaza iimvakalelo zabo.

Yile nkululeko, le mvakalelo yokhuseleko olu luvo lokuba umntu angaphumla kukhathalelo lomnye umntu ogqithisileyo njengakwindalo. Isizathu sokuba kubalulekile ebantwaneni kukuba xa bephumle bakhululekile ukuba badlale. Kukwiindawo zokudlala ezinxulumene nazo esizenzela zona, apho zihlala ziguqula kwaye zimila-kutshintshela kwiifom ezivuthiweyo esizilangazelelayo.

Asinakukwazi ukulawula ukukhula kwabantwana bethu-sinokubonelela kuphela ngezinye izinto abazidingayo ukuze baphumelele. Asinakubenza abantwana bethu baxhomekeke kuthi, sinokubamema kuphela ukuba bazimanye nathi. Asinakubenza abantwana bethu babe ngabantu babo, sinokuqinisekisa kuphela ukuba baphumla kwiingcambu ezinxulumene noko esizikhulisayo nesizikhulisayo.

Indawo yokuphumla kukhathalelo lomnye umntu yindawo ebuthathaka. Sinokwenzakala, siphathwe kakubi, okanye singahoywa. Kulula kakhulu ukuba ngoyena ukhokelayo kwaye ukhathalele omnye kunokuba ube ngumamkeli wolo khathalelo. Ulwaneliseko lwethu njengabazali lilele ngokumema abantwana bethu ukuba baphumle phantsi kogcino lwethu nokubenza bamkele isipho sethu. Kubanonopheli kunye nabakhathaleli ngokufanayo: Olu hlobo lomdaniso kulapho ukuphumla kokwenyani kulele khona.


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