Kungenxa yokuba kuphela ngabantwana abachitha ixesha elininzi bebodwa, bayonwatyiswa kwaye bahlala bathanda ukuba zezona zinto ziyiliweyo kuyo yonke imiyalelo yokuzalwa. Njengabantakwenu abadala, bayazithemba, bathetha kakuhle, baqwalasele iinkcukacha, kwaye bathanda ukwenza kakuhle esikolweni. Kananjalo, ukuchitha ixesha elininzi nabantu abadala kuhlala kwenza abantwana kuphela benze "njengabantu abadala abancinci."
Kuphela ngabantwana abangazange bakhuphisane ngokuqwalaselwa ngabazali babo okanye babelane ngeethoyi nabantakwabo, ngenxa yoko baba semngciphekweni wokukhulisa isiqu sabo. Zikwasetyenziselwa ukuziva zibalulekile kwaye zinokuba nzima xa izinto zingahambi ngendlela yazo. Ngenxa yokuba abantu abayimizekelo kubantu abadala kufanelekile, ngabantwana kuphela abachanabeke ngakumbi kwimfezeko kunamazibulo.
Ukukhulisa umntwana ekuphela kwakhe
Ukuthathela ingqalelo ubuntu obuqhele ukuba nabantwana kuphela (kodwa usazi ukuba elowo nalowo une-idiosyncrasy yakhe kwaye nemfuza nokusingqongileyo zikwadlala indima ebalulekileyo), Okulandelayo siza kukunika iingcebiso zokwenza ukuba ukukhula kwabo kube lula.
- Njengoko bengaqhelananga nokwabelana nabanye abantwana ekhaya, ngabantwana kuphela abanokufumana inzuzo kwimidlalo yeqela.
- Kuphela ngabantwana abaxhomekeke kukugqibelela, ke imodeli yokwamkela iimpazamo zakho. Mkhumbuze ukuba awukwazi ukusika isangqa esifanelekileyo kwiminyaka yakhe, nokuba.
- Musa ukusebenzisa lonke ithuba ukumfundisa indlela engcono yokwenza into; Ukuba ubeka ibhedi ngemibimbi ethile, ungaphindi uyenze kwakhona. Awufuni ukuthumela umyalezo wokuba akakho kulo msebenzi akanakho ukwenza izinto.
- Mvumele ukuba asebenzisane nabanye abantwana abakwiminyaka yakhe, njengabahlobo, abazala ...
Abantwana abangabantwana kuphela banako ukukhuliswa kakhulu nokuba abanabo abantakwabo, ungabachazela izinto kwaye ubakhokele kwindlela yobomi.