Iimpawu zokungahoywa komntwana

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Ukuba ungutata okanye umama kwaye ubathanda ngenene abantwana bakho, ngekhe uqonde ukuba umntwana unokungahoywa. Ngelishwa kukho amawaka amatyala okungahoywa kwabantwana kuwo onke amazwe ehlabathi. Ukungahoywa yenye yeendlela eziqhelekileyo zokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana. Inokuchaphazela impilo yomntwana ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwengqondo kwaye inokukhokelela kwiziphumo ezibi zexesha elide.

Ukungakhathali kuchazwa ngolu hlobo: 'nasiphi na isenzo sakutsha nje okanye ukungasenzi isenzo somzali okanye somkhathaleli esibonisa ukuba semngciphekweni wokonzakala emntwaneni'. Imithetho ihlala ichaza ukungahoywa njengokungaphumeleli komzali okanye umnakekeli ekunikezeni ukutya okuyimfuneko, indawo yokuhlala, impahla, ukhathalelo lwezonyango, okanye ukonganyelwa ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba apho impilo, ukhuseleko kunye nokuba sempilweni komntwana kubonwa kusengozini.

Amanye amazwe abandakanya ukungafani ukumisela ukungakhathali. Umzekelo, umzali ongavumiyo unyango oluthile lomntwana olusekelwe kwiinkolelo zonqulo unokuxolelwa.

Imali yabazali nayo inokuthi ithathelwe ingqalelo. Ukuba abazali bahlala kwintlupheko kwaye bakufumanisa kunzima ukubonelela abantwana ngokutya okwaneleyo okanye ikhaya, akunakuthathwa njengokungahoyi ukuba usapho lucela uncedo okanye lwenza izinto ngeyona ndlela ibhetele.

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Iindidi zokungakhathali

Ukungakhathali kunokuzibonakalisa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, kodwa kukho ezinye eziqhelekileyo kunezinye:

  • Ukungahoywa ngokwasemzimbeni. Ukungakhathaleli iimfuno ezisisiseko zomntwana, ezinjengococeko, impahla, isondlo, indawo yokuhlala ... okanye ukushiya umntwana.
  • Ukongamela kwezonyango. Ukuphika okanye ukulibazisa unyango olufunekayo emntwaneni.
  • Ukungabikho kweliso. Ukushiya umntwana ongakwaziyo ukuzikhathalela yedwa ekhaya, ukusilela ukumkhusela kwimingcipheko yokhuseleko, okanye ukushiya abantwana abancinci benononophelo olungonelanga.
  • Ukungahoywa ngokweemvakalelo Ukubeka umntwana kubundlobongela basekhaya okanye ekusebenziseni iziyobisi gwenxa, ukusilela ukubonelela ngothando okanye ngenkxaso yeemvakalelo.
  • Ukungahoywa kwezemfundo. Ukusilela ukubonelela abantwana ngemfundo esikolweni, ukubavumela ukuba bangasitshati isikolo, okanye ukusilela ukuphendula kwiimfuno zemfundo ezizodwa zomntwana.

Imiba yomngcipheko wokungakhathali

Abazali mabakhusele abantwana babo ukusukela mzuzu beza emhlabeni, ngumsebenzi wabo wendalo. Kodwa, ngenxa yezinye izinto kukho ootata okanye oomama abangakwaziyo ukuhlangabezana ngokwaneleyo neemfuno zomntwana. Ngamaxesha athile, ukungahoywa akubandakanyeki kwaphela, njengakwimeko yomama osemncinci ongakuqondiyo ukukhula komntwana, Awunokwazi kuba akukho mntu ukuxelele ngaphambili malunga nokuba usana lusondla kangaphi okanye ukuba loluphi uhoyo olusisiseko oluyimfuneko.

Umfazi uyalila

Ngamanye amaxesha, kusenokwenzeka ukuba izigulo zengqondo zabazali okanye iingxaki zeziyobisi zinokubathintela abantwana babo ekufumaneni ukhathalelo olufanelekileyo nolwaneleyo. Utata ophantsi kwempembelelo yeziyobisi akasayi kuba nakho ukubakhathalela ngokufanelekileyo abantwana bakhe. Kukwakho nezinye izinto ezinobungozi ezinokunyusa ukungakhathali:

  • Imeko yendalo esingqongileyo: indlala, ukunqongophala kwenkxaso kwezentlalo, ubumelwane obunobungozi
  • Izinto zosapho: ubundlobongela basekhaya, uxinzelelo losapho
  • Izinto zabazali: intswela-ngqesho, imeko yezoqoqosho ephantsi, abazali abancinci, uxinzelelo lwabazali, iingxaki zempilo, ukugula ngengqondo, iziyobisi okanye iziyobisi
  • Izinto zosana: Ukulibaziseka kophuhliso

Iimpawu

Ngamanye amaxesha iintsimbi zinokuphakanyiswa ngutitshala okanye ngummelwane ochaphazelekayo, eziqonda iimpawu zokuba umntwana akahoywanga. Umntwana otyebe kancinci, ongafane afunde esikolweni, okanye umntwana omncinci odlala phandle imini yonke engakhange abukelwe ngumntu omdala angasikrokrela kakhulu.

Kukho imiqondiso enokubonisa ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba umntwana akakhathalelwa ngabazali:

  • Ukungabikho rhoqo esikolweni
  • Awunampahla yaneleyo okanye unxibe ngokungafanelekanga kwimozulu
  • Idyokhwe
  • Cela ukutya okanye imali
  • Kumdaka amaxesha amaninzi kwaye kunuka kakubi
  • Ukusebenzisa kakubi utywala okanye ukusebenzisa iziyobisi
  • Ukungabikho konyango oluyimfuneko okanye lwamazinyo
  • Awunazo izitofu zokugonya eziyimfuneko kwimpilo yakho
  • Akanxibi ziglasi kwaye kuya kufuneka azinxibe
  • Ithi akukho mntu usekhaya amaxesha amaninzi

Kukho imiqondiso enokubonisa ukuba utata okanye umama akabakhathaleli kakuhle abantwana babo, eminye yale miqondiso yile:

  • Unokuziphatha okungaqhelekanga okanye okungenangqondo
  • Kubonakala kungenasiphelo okanye kudandathekile
  • Kubonakala ukubonisa ukungakhathali emntwaneni
  • Ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi okanye utywala
  • Uphantse akaze abe nabantwana bakhe kwaye akabashiyi kuxanduva lwalo nabani na onoxanduva

Ukungakhathalelwa kwabantwana akusoloko kusisiphumo sokuba umzali angahlangabezani neemfuno zabantwana bakhe; ngamanye amaxesha ukhetho alufumaneki ngenxa yokunqongophala kwezixhobo. Xa umzali engakwazi ukukhathalela umntwana ngenxa yokunqongophala kwezixhobo, Iinkonzo zihlala ziphunyezwa ukunceda usapho ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zomntwana.

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Iziphumo zokungakhathali

Nokuba umntwana ukhutshiwe kwimeko embi, iziphumo zokungahoywa zinokuhlala ixesha elide. Ezi zezinye zeziphumo anokufunyanwa ngumntwana ongakhathalelwanga:

  • Iingxaki zempilo kunye nophuhliso. Ukungondleki kunokuchaphazela ukukhula kwengqondo. Ukungabikho kogonyo olufanelekileyo kunye neengxaki zonyango kunokukhokelela kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo zempilo.
  • Ukusilela kwengqondo. Ukungabikho kokuvuselela okwaneleyo kunokukhokelela kwiingxaki eziqhubekayo zengqondo. Abantwana abanembali yokungahoywa banokuba neengxaki zemfundo okanye ukulibaziseka okanye ukukhula kakuhle kulwimi.
  • Iingxaki ngokweemvakalelo. Ukungahoywa kunokukhokelela kwiingxaki zokuncamathisela, imiba yokuzithemba, kunye nobunzima bokuthemba abanye.
  • Iingxaki zentlalo kunye nokuziphatha. Abantwana abangahoywanga banokuba nobunzima bokukhulisa ubudlelwane obunempilo kwaye banokufumana ukungaziphathi kakuhle.

Unyango lokungakhathali

Inyathelo lokuqala iya kuba kukuqinisekisa ukhuseleko lomntwana. Iinkonzo zentlalo zinokufuna izixhobo kunye nemfundo yosapho. Ngamanye amaxesha, abantwana banokufuna ukubekwa kwenye indawo ukunqanda ukwenzakala ngakumbi, njenga kwilungu losapho elinazo izixhobo zokubanyamekela. Inokunceda ngongenelelo olufanelekileyo olufana neenkonzo zonyango okanye iinkonzo zemfundo.


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