Ukuziqhelanisa, Iindlela zaMihla ngemihla zokuFundisa abantwana ukuba baqhube

Usapho lunceda omnye ngezixhobo ezimbalwa.

Abantwana abayikopishi nje kuphela into abayibonayo, kufuneka bazive beyinxalenye yoluntu kwaye bazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kubantu abangathathi ntweni.

Enye yeendlela zokuziphatha nawuphi na umzali afuna ukuzifundisa abantwana bakhe bubumbano. Abantwana basebenza kwinto abayibonayo, oko kuthetha ukuba abona baqeqeshi babalaseleyo ngabo bahlala nabo mihla le. Emva koko, kwaye sinikwe usuku lobumbano lwamazwe aphesheya, siza kugqamisa iindlela ezisebenzayo abanokuthi ngazo abantwana bafundiswe ukuba baxhase.

Fundisa ngexabiso

Iimpawu, ezinjengokubumbana, zichazwa ngeendlela ezininzi kubomi bemihla ngemihla: ngamaphulo eKrisimesi, kwiiNGOs, kunye nabamelwane abadlula kwimeko enzima yezoqoqosho okanye yeemvakalelo, amalungu osapho ndiyagula… Ukuba umntwana uyayibona indlela abazali abanceda ngayo, kwaye bayancedana, basebenzisana kunye kwimisebenzi eyahlukeneyo kwaye bayavumelana ngemiba yemihla ngemihla, kuyakubalula kubo ukuyibona into elungileyo kwaye bayenze nabo. Umntwana angaxelelwa amabali abantu abadlula kwimeko embi, bathethe ngabantu abaqhelisela ukungqiba, yabantu abashiywe bengenamakhaya ngenxa yokungabikho kokusesikweni ... Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba nguye onomdla kwaye ufuna ukwazi ngakumbi.

Abaphelelanga nje ekuncedeni ekhaya, abantwana banokubabona abo babaxhasayo, nokuba bathatha inxaxheba njani na kumaphulo okunceda abantwana abanamathuba ambalwa, iintsapho ezingenazo izixhobo ... akhawunti, kwaye ngeentsuku baya kubona umkhwa kwaye zichanekile. Iimpawu ezinje ngomanyano azifundiswa nge ncwadi Ziyacaciswa, zisetyenziswa yonke imihla ukwenza isifotho ebantwaneni kwaye ubakholise. Oko kukumgcina ngokwenyani kwaye kumenza athathe inxaxheba, nokuba kumenze abaluleke kwizigqibo ezithile ezithathwa njengomntu omkhulu.

Ukuba ngabantwana abaxhasayo

Umfanekiso womanyano kunye nokubumbana kwabantwana.

Ukubandakanyeka kwabazali kugxile ekwaziseni umntwana ukuba owona mvuzo mkhulu wokunceda abanye, ekuxhaseni, yimvakalelo elandelayo.

Ootitshala bokuqala ngabazali. Bafanele bakhuthaze ebantwaneni iimvakalelo zenceba, uncedo, uvelwano, isisa, ubumbano, umda… Abancinci bahlala kwindawo yentlalo, kwaye besebancinci kakhulu kufuneka baqonde ukuba bayinxalenye yoluntu, kwizangqa ezahlukileyo ezikhulayo. Umntwana usekhaya nabazali bakhe, esikolweni okanye enkulisa nakwintsokolo yoluntu. Akangomntu ozimeleyo, ekufuneka azi naye indlela yokuphila, kunye nayo, avelane nabanye kwaye acinge ngabanye.

Ukubandakanyeka kwabazali kugxile ekwaziseni umntwana ukuba owona mvuzo mkhulu wokunceda abanye, ekuxhaseni, yimvakalelo elandelayo. Ukunceda kuzisa ulonwabo, kwaye ukubona indlela omnye umntu aphumelela ngayo kwintsebenziswano ngumvuzo. Ungabachazela ukuba uncedo lwabo luyafuneka ekhaya nasekhaya, kwaye uthethe ngale micimbi ngokungathandabuzekiyo nangokuvulekileyo. Inkqubo ye- bazali Basenokufuna ukusebenzisana kwabo, abo bafunda nabo banokungayiqondi into okanye bafuna into yokudlala, kwaye banethuba lokuphindisela ngomanyano. Esi senzo siya kubuyiselwa kubo ngexesha elifanelekileyo.


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