Njengabazali siyakwazi ukubaluleka nokubaluleka kwe fundisa abantwana bethu. Sithanda ukuyenza ngaphandle kweempazamo, kodwa asisoloko sigqibelele, kwaye siyazi ukuba indlela yokufundisa inokuba nayo iziphumo ezifanelekileyo xa abantwana bebadala. In Oomama Namhlanje sityhila iindlela zokufundisa umntwana, kuba ngokuxhomekeke kwifilosofi kunye nobuntu bosapho ngalunye, kuya kubakho uhlobo olwahlukileyo lwemfundo.
Indlela okanye indlela yokufundisa ngomnye wemisebenzi noxanduva olukhulu kubazali. Uninzi lwezenzo zethu, imiyalelo okanye imigaqo iza kuza nayo ukucinga ngokugxekayoNangona iimeko ezininzi singazivavanyi zinjalo.
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Iindlela zokufundisa abantwana
Ukuziqhelanisa kwethu njengabazali kunye nomnqweno wethu wokubakhusela kusikhokelela ekubeni senze njalo ziqhelise njengabahlohli. Igunya lethu liyinxalenye yemfundo kwaye oko kuya kusikhokelela kwenye indlela okanye enye yokubafundisa.
Ingcinezelo okanye imfundo yobuzwilakhe
Uguquko a isitayile semfundo yolawulo. Ukuba sijonga emva ngexesha, yayiyindlela yokufundisa kumashumi asibhozo anamashumi asithoba, phantsi koqeqesho olunganyamezelekiyo kunxibelelwano oluncinci. Ngokwesiqhelo akukho ncoko ingako phakathi kwabazali nabantwana kwaye xa kufuneka kuchaziwe izizathu azichazwanga.
Indlela yakhe yokunika imiyalelo kunye nemfundo icinezelwe ngokuthi "oku kwenziwa kuba ndisitsho", apho lo mgangatho uqinisekisa ukuba yindlela yolawulo. Ngabazali abathi abayazi indlela yokusombulula ukungavisisani ngenxa yokuba bengafundiswanga ngendlela yokwenza nayo. Ukujongana nezi meko, bafuna abantwana ukuba bathobele namagunya abo kwaye ukuba bayala bayakwazi ukufumana umntwana.
Ukuchaphazeleka okuphantsi kunye noxinzelelo oluphezulu lokuba abantwana bathathe uxanduva ngokuhamba kwexesha cinezela iimvakalelo zakho. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, abantwana baphela beziva benenzondo kwaye bade bagqibela ngokuba ne trauma, ke bangenisa ngakumbi kubazali. Oku kukhokelela ukuxoka, xelela iinkcukacha ezimbalwa iimvakalelo zabo ukuze abazali bangaziphindezeli. Ngamanye amaxesha, ulawulo oluphezulu ebantwaneni lubangela ukuba bakhuseleke kakhulu, kubangele ukuba bangaziphileli ngokwabo amava.
Imfundo evumayo
Le ndlela yokufundisa yile ngokuchasene nengcinezelo. Ulawulo olwenziwe luvumelekile ngakumbi, kwiimeko ezininzi lunqabile kangangokuba luguquke lungabikho. Isivumelwano sikhona alingani kwaphela, bayathetha nabo kwaye babenze bahambisane neemvakalelo zabo. Le modality yenza ukuba abantwana abakwazi ukuluqonda olu hlobo lwesivumo kunikwe iminyaka yabo kwaye ke musa ukuqiqa imeko enjalo.
Kwiimeko ezininzi kunjalo Unothando kakhulu Ngokuziphatha kwabantwana, ukuze bangabenzi nzima ubomi babazali babambelela ekwenzeni ukuthanda kwayo. Ngamaxesha athile gcwalisa izithuba zemvakalelo yabantwana abanezinto eziphathekayo, okanye ungababandakanyi kwimisebenzi okanye uxanduva kuba bekholelwa ukuba abayifanelanga iminyaka yabo.
Ekugqibeleni aba bantwana benza ubuhlobo obusondeleyo nabazali babo kangangokuba ekugqibeleni Banobunzima ekunxibelelaneni nabanye abantu. Baya kuba neengxaki zokuphendula kwiindlela ezithile zokuziphatha apho kufuneka bathobele imigaqo. Enye into enokubakho xa bekhula, kuba bafuna ukubuxabisa ubomi ngeminqweno emikhulu isenokungafikeleleki.
Imfundo yedemokhrasi
Kule meko abazali banayo ulawulo olukhulu lweemeko. Baya kuba nothando olukhulu, kodwa baya kuba bhetyebhetye kancinci, ukulinganisa uxanduva ukuba kufuneka bahlale ngokuxhomekeke kubudala bomntwana. Abazali bathatha inxaxheba ngokupheleleyo kumsebenzi wasekhaya wabantwana kwaye bane Unxibelelwano olunomdla ngakumbiUkusombulula iingxaki zakho ngokhuseleko olupheleleyo kunye nokuqonda.
Ethubeni aba bantwana baya kufundiswa ngenqanaba eliphezulu lokuzibamba kunye nokuzithemba kwakho akuyi konakaliswa. Baza kuba nakho ukujongana ngcono kakhulu nemisebenzi yabo kunye nemisebenzi ngokuzimela okukhulu. Baya kuba nokuphuma, ukuhlonipha nokuqonda ubudlelwane bakho.
Ungalibali ukuba indlela yokufundisa izalwa ngumntu ngamnye kuthi kwaye kwiimeko ezininzi injongo yethu kukwenza njengoko besifundisiwe. Igunya lisixelela ngendlela aba bancinci ekufuneka babuphathe ngayo ubomi babo. Umsa nothando sisiseko sako yazi indlela yokukhula igcwele amaxabiso.
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