Iingcebiso ezibalulekileyo zokulawula umsindo

Umntwana onomsindo

Umsindo yindlela yendalo yabantwana yokubonisa ukukhathazeka kwabo yinto eyenzekayo engabonakali ifanelekile ukuba yenzeke. Xa umntwana wakho ephakathi komsindo, kulula kakhulu kuwe njengomama ukuba ungene nakwingxaki yakho ... kubonakala ngathi le meko yemithambo-luvo iyosulela. IpheAkukho nto iqhubekayo nenyaniso, unyana wakho uzama ukukuxelela into engalunganga Kwaye ukuba ungena engxakini, kungenxa yokuba awumameli yonke into ayifunayo, kwaye awumkhokeleli ukuba azole.

Umsindo yinyani ebuntwaneni kwaye abazali kufuneka bafumane indlela yokujongana nabo ngaphandle kokubangela abantwana babo ukuba babenengxaki yeemvakalelo. Kukho amacebo alula anokunceda ukwenza ukuba umsindo uhambe., kodwa uhlala evela kwintsebenziswano nentlonipho ngokubhekisele emntwaneni. Abantwana abancinci (phakathi kwe-1 kunye ne-4 yeminyaka ubudala) abakavelisi izakhono ezaneleyo zokukwazi ukunxibelelana nesidingo kumntu omdala (Ndifuna into yokudlala, ndilambile, ndifuna utshintsho lwe-diaper, kukho into endikhathazayo, njl. kuba abanazo izakhono zolwimi zokuyenza.

Xa abantwana bengazi ukuba baziveze njani iimfuno zabo baziva bekhathazekile yiyo loo nto bephosa umsindo ... babonakala ngathi ngumzabalazo wamandla, kodwa bafuna ukubonisa iimfuno zabo. Kuyimfuneko ukuba uyazi indlela yokuthintela oku kuphuma kumsa nakwimbeko, ukuze umntwana wakho azive emamele, eqondwa kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, ekhokelwa kukuziphatha okuhle.

Sukuzama ukumlawula

Xa umntwana enomsindo, into yokugqibela ekufuneka uyizamile kukumlawula. Umncinci wakho uphumile kulawulo kuba iimvakalelo zithathe ngokupheleleyo. Ayikwazi ukwenza izigqibo okanye ukwenza izigqibo ngelixa unomsindo. Kuya kufuneka ulinde umntwana wakho omncinci ukuba ahlise umoya ukuze ukwazi ukuthetha naye kwaye ufumane ezona zisombululo zisemgangathweni. Xa enomsindo, sukumnika le nto ayifunayo, kodwa ungamhoyi kwaphela. Fumana indlela yokumthoba eluthandweni; Ungamshiya ngeyakhe indawo ngaphandle kokushiya indawo leyo, mxelele ukuba xa ezolile uyakukhangela ukhetho, umnike ukumanga ukuze athobe umoya njl

Umntwana onomsindo

Fumanisa ukuba kwenzeka ntoni emntwaneni wakho

Ukuba umntwana wakho omncinci unomsindo kungenxa yokuba kukho into engalunganga kwaye kufuneka uyazi ukuba yintoni ukuze ukhokele imeko ngcono. Abantwana abayi kuba nakho ukukuxelela kakuhle ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kubo kuba banesigama esilinganiselweyo kwaye yiyo loo nto kufuneka wazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kubo ukuze ubakhulule kuludano lwabo. Ungamfundisa umntwana wakho amagama aphambili ukuze akuxelele ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kuye ezinje: ngaphezulu, amanzi, ukulala, ukutya, ipupa ... Ndiyakuqinisekisa ukuba xa umntwana enesigama esilinganiselweyo, Esi sicwangciso sibaluleke kakhulu.

Unokufumanisa ukuba yintoni engalunganga ngokucinga ngale nto iqhubekayo. Umzekelo, mhlawumbi uhambe uhambo imini yonke kwaye umntwana wakho akanaxesha lokulala? Inokuba udiniwe. Okanye mhlawumbi endaweni yokuzama ukufumanisa, ungacela umntwana wakho akuxelele ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kuye ukuze akukhombise.

Musa ukumthwalisa uxanduva

Ukuze ungangxameli umntwana onomsindo, kuya kufuneka unike eyakhe indawo nanini na eyifuna. Kukho abantwana abafuna ukudlula kumsindo wabo ukuze bazive bebhetele, qiniseka nje ukuba ngalo mzuzu xa benomsindo akukho nto ibangqongileyo enokubangela ingozi. Kodwa kuya kufuneka ube ecaleni kwakhe ngalo lonke ixesha, kodwa ushiye esakhe isithuba. Zama ukumenza aqonde iimvakalelo zakhe, ubuyise umoya wakhe ecaleni kwakho, kwaye uphinde uzilawule ngoncedo lwakho. Sukungena kumzabalazo wamandla, khetha amadabi akho kakuhle kwaye ubeke phambili impilo-ntle yomntwana wakho.

Umntwana onomsindo

Yenza izinto zibe mnandi

Xa umntwana wakho efuna ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi kunye nawe, musa ukumngxolisa kuba engazi ukwenza izinto kakuhle kwaye uzame ukumnceda ukuba afunde ngelixa bezonwabisa. Umzekelo, ukuba usekhitshini kwaye umntwana wakho ufuna ukukunceda kodwa mncinci kakhulu, ungamnika imiyalelo emincinci ukuze azive eluncedo kwaye onwabile ngokwenza izinto nawe, njengokulahla izinto kude okanye ukufaka izithako isikhongozeli.

Khangela iingxaki ezinokwenzeka

Umama (notata) banokuthintela ingxaki ngaphambi kokuba yenzeke ukuba inokufunyanwa kwangethuba. Ukuba umntwana wakho uza kuhamba nenxalenye yevenkile ongafuniyo ukuba ahambe ngayo kuba uza kuthatha izinto ezingafanelekanga kwaye uza kulila kuba awuzukuyithenga, eyona nto intle onokuyenza kukutshintsha indlela okanye ungayi kuloo venkile uye kwenye. Nangona kufuneka uhambe kuloo ndawo, unokuguqula ingqalelo yabo ngokuthetha ngenye into okanye ukujikisa ingqalelo yakho kwezinye izinto ezinokumthakazelisa kwaye ayisosizathu sokwenzeka komsindo ... kodwa kuya kufuneka unike imvakalelo kumagama akho ukuze azive ekhuthazekile ukuba ajongele apho umsa khona.


Umntwana onomsindo

Ungaze (ungaze!) Sebenzisa ubundlongondlongo

Nokuba yeyomzimba okanye yomlomo. Ubundlongondlongo ngokubhekisele emntwaneni, ukongeza ekubeni ulwaphulo-mthetho, akufundisi! Kuyakwenza kuphela ukuba omncinci azive enoloyiko kwaye azive enesothuko sokulahlwa ngokweemvakalelo ngabazali okuya kuthi konakalise kakhulu ukukhula kwabo buqu, kwezentlalo kunye neemvakalelo. Ukuba ukhe uvakalelwe kukuba ufuna ukumbetha, phuma egumbini kwaye uthathe umoya omde ukuze uzolile. kunye nokucinga kwakhona ukuba yintoni kanye kanye ofuna umntwana wakho ayifunde. Emva koko buyela apho umntwana wakho akho kwaye kunye nethoni enothando nenobubele, kuya kufuneka unike isikhokelo ekufuneka asazi ukuba ulindele ntoni kuye malunga nokuziphatha kwakhe.

Ezi zezinye zeengcebiso onokuzisebenzisa kwimihla ngemihla ukulawula ukubanomsindo kwabantwana bakho kwaye ngale ndlela unokuhlala kumanyano losapho oluhle.


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