Nangona abantwana benobuntu babo, ngeendlela ezininzi baphela beyikopi yabantu abanempembelelo enkulu kubomi babo, ootata noomama ngokubanzi. Ngokukodwa xa ufikelela ebusheni, nini amakhwenkwe aqala ukubonisa ubuntu obucacileyo, ukuthanda izinto kunye nemidla ethile, kubalulekile ukuba nefuthe elihle kubantwana.
Ngexesha lobuntwana kulula kakhulu, kuba abantwana ziziponji ezifunxa kwaye zixelise yonke into eziyibonayo. Nangona kunjalo, abakwishumi elivisayo Ngotshintsho lwabo lwehomoni banobunzima ngakumbi. Kuba ngaxa lithile, uluvo lomnye umntu lubaluleke ngakumbi kunolo lwabazali ngokwabo. Yinto eqhelekileyo amakhwenkwe kufuneka azifunele eyabo indlela, kude nendawo yokubalekela yabazali, nokuba oko kuthetha ukwenza iimpazamo.
Nangona kunjalo, indima yabazali njengeyona mpembelelo iphambili ebantwaneni ayipheli. Ke rhoqo, nangayiphi na imeko, kuya kufuneka uzame ukuba nefuthe elifanelekileyo kulutsha. Ngaba ufuna ingcebiso ukuba ungalahli ithemba kumzamo?
Imiba ekunokuba nefuthe kuyo ngokuqinisekileyo
Ukuhlala uhlala ukonwabile akunakwenzeka kwiimeko ezininzi, ke ngekhe kube sengqiqweni ukuzama ukwenza abantwana bakhule ngaphandle kokubandezeleka ngamaxesha amabi. Ukuphembelela ngendlela elungileyo ayikokuthintela abantwana ekubandezelekeni ngeengxaki zabantu abadala, kodwa malunga bafundise ukuphatha loo mathuba kwaye ubanike izixhobo Kuyimfuneko ukumelana nazo.
Ukuze bafunde ukukhathalela impilo yabo, ukuze baqonde ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukusebenzela ikamva labo kuqeqesho lwabo lwezifundo. Kuba kufuneka bazi bunjani ubudlelwane obuphilileyo beemvakalelo, indlela yokuphatha abanye abantuUkuxhasa okanye ukuba novelwano zizinto eziyimfuneko apho ulutsha lufanele ukuba nefuthe elifanelekileyo.
Iingcebiso zokuba nempembelelo entle ebantwaneni
Zithande kwaye ufundise abantwana bakho ukuba bazithande, kuba ukuzithanda kufanele ukuba kube luthando lokuqala lomntu nawuphi na umntu. Inkwenkwe okanye intombazana engena kwinqanaba lokufikisa kufuneka ijongane neemvakalelo eziguqukayo, amathandabuzo, izakhiwo kunye nokungalingani kwehomoni. Ulutsha ikakhulu amakhwenkwe namantombazana angazithembanga kwaye kule mizuzu kubalulekile ukuba negalelo kwimpembelelo eyakhayo ukuze bakhulise ubuntu obulungileyo.
Utshintsho lomzimba luyothusa kakhulu kulutsha kwaye kwiimeko ezininzi lubangela ingxaki enkulu yokungazithembi kunye nobunzima. Fundisa abantwana bakho ukuba bazithande, bamkele eyabo imizimba kunye notshintsho olwenzeka kuyo, ngendlela efanayo naleyo ubacinga yona njengoko ixesha lihamba. Zithande kwaye Musani ukoyika ukubafundisa ukuba bathandane, kuba ukuzithanda akungokuzingca, sisidingo.
Thatha inxaxheba kwizinto abanomdla kuzo kunye nezinto abazithandayo
Abafikisayo baziva bekude nabazali babo xa ukuthanda kwabo kuchasene kwaphela. Ukuba unomdla kwizinto abazithandayo, bathanda ukubukela kwi-intanethi, umdlalo othabathela ingqalelo kunye nokuba ngabahlobo babo abasondeleyo banjani, ungasungula ubudlelwane obusondeleyo nomntwana wakho ofikisayo. Ngale ndlela, uya kuba nefuthe elihle, ubabonise oko Kuya kufuneka uzabalazele ukwazi abantu abakungqongileyo.
Umzamo nomvuzo
Kubalulekile ukuba ulutsha luqonde ukuba umgudu uza nomvuzo, ongafaniyo nesipho. Yiba ngumzekelo obalaseleyo kubo, ngomzamo wakho, umsebenzi wakho kunye nokuzinikezela kwakho kwemihla ngemihla, ufumana imivuzo ethile, nokuba yeyemali okanye naluphi na uhlobo.
Ububele, uburharha, ukuphatha abantu ngentlonipho, ukuphepha ukuthukwa okanye amagama ahlabayo, ekhaya nasezitalatweni, zizimbo zomzimba ezincinci ezichaphazela ulutsha. Soloko ukhetha olona hlobo luthandekayongakumbi xa abantwana bakho bekufutshane. Olu hlobo lokuziphatha aluxhamli kuphela xa kuziwa ekubumbeni ubuntu babantwana, kodwa luyakunceda ukuba wonwabe ngakumbi kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla.