Iingcebiso ngokuba ngumzali olungileyo ongatshatanga

Ukufundisa ulutsha Umsebenzi wasekhaya

Abantu abaninzi bakhumbula oomama abangenamaqabane, kodwa bambalwa abantu abakhumbula ootata abangenamaqabane. Njengomama ekufuneka bekhulise umntwana wabo yedwa, utata ongatshatanga naye unzima kwaye unzima. Wazifumana eyedwa imihla ngemihla nomceli mngeni wokukhulisa kunye fundisa emntwaneni wakho, ibangela ukuba abazali abaninzi abangabodwa babenexinzelelo olukhulu kunye noxinzelelo olukhulu ekunzima ukuluchaza.

Ukuba kunjalo, Akufanele ukhathazeke ukuba ngolu luhlu lweengcebiso unokwenza ukuba ungumzali ongatshatanga uthwale ngakumbi.

Kuphephe ukuba wedwa

Nokuba ungumzali ongenaqabane, kufuneka ubenabantu abazokuxhasa, ngakumbi kumaxesha apho woyiswa luxinzelelo kwaye yonke into inyukile. Unokuba sisizalwane sakho njengabazali okanye abantakwenu okanye abahlobo obathembileyo. Ukukhulisa umntwana yedwa kunzima kwaye kunzima, ke uncedo luhlala lukhulu.

Ukubaluleka konxibelelwano

Ukwazi ukunxibelelana ngaphandle kwengxaki nabantwana xa kuziwa kwimfundo elungileyo ngandlela zonke. Njengokuba abantwana bekhula kwaye bekhula kufuneka baphulaphulwe kwaye baqwalaselwe. Oku kufuna umgudu omkhulu kunye nomonde, kodwa kubalulekile xa kusiza ekukhuliseni abantwana bakho kakuhle. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukunqongophala konxibelelwano phakathi kwabazali nabantwana kungoyena nobangela weengxaki ezininzi zosapho. Ngonxibelelwano olululo, ukuthembana phakathi kwenu nobabini kuya kukhula kwaye komelele ngakumbi.

Fundisa ukusombulula iingxaki

Iingxaki zihlala zikhona, yiyo loo nto xa ixesha lifika kufuneka uhlale ecaleni komntwana wakho ukuze ukwazi ukuzisombulula. Kuya kufuneka umnike izikhokelo ezifanelekileyo ukuze azisombulule ngokwakhe. Ukumfundisa ukusombulula iingxaki ezinje kuya kumsebenzela ubomi bakhe bonke.

Okona kutya kubi ebantwaneni

Akukho nto yokubakhusela ngokugqithiseleyo abantwana bakho

Enye yeengxaki ezinkulu kwiintsapho ezininzi namhlanje kukuba babakhusele kakhulu abantwana babo. Abantwana kufuneka bakwazi ukusombulula iingxaki ezithi zivele bodwa xa befikelela kwiminyaka ethile. Ngamaxesha amaninzi, abantwana abanabazali kwaye abazi ukuba bazenzele ntoni na, into enefuthe elibi kwinqanaba labo. Abantwana kufuneka benze iimpazamo kwaye bafunde kwiimpazamo zabo ukuze bazithembe ngokwaneleyo ukuze bakwazi ukuzenzela izinto ngaphandle koncedo lomntu. Kufuneka uhlale nonyana wakho ngenye imini umenze abone ukuba ngenye imini utata wakhe akazukubakho kwaye kuya kufuneka ayifumane indlela yakhe nobakhe ubomi.

Kuya kufuneka uthathe inxaxheba ebomini bakhe

Ubomi obunoxinzelelo obuphilwa ngabazali namhlanje kuthetha ukuba ababoni abantwana babo into ekufuneka beyenzile, into enefuthe elibi ekukhuliseni abantwana. Abantwana bafuna inkxaso yabazali ngamaxesha onke kwaye bahlala beziva bethandwa kwaye bethandwa. Ukuba ungumzali ongenaqabane, kufuneka uthathe inxaxheba ngokupheleleyo kubomi bomntwana wakho. Kubalulekile ukuba uthathe ixesha yonke imihla ukwenza izinto kunye kwaye uzive usondele ngalo lonke ixesha. Nangona kuyinyani ukuba abantwana kufuneka babe nendawo yabo ukuba nabahlobo babo, kubalulekile ukuba bachithe ixesha elifanelekileyo kunye notata wabo. Ukuba ngumzali ongatshatanga kunzima kwaye yiyo loo nto kuya kufuneka uthathe inxaxheba kubomi bomntwana okokoko unako. Oku kuyakwenza ukuba ukukhulisa kunye nemfundo yomntwana wakho inyamezeleke ngakumbi kwaye ibe yeyakhayo kuzo zonke iinkalo.

Sinethemba lokuba uziqaphele zonke ezi ngcebiso kwaye sikuncede ukukhulisa umntwana wakho ngaphandle kweengxaki ezininzi. Kuyinyani ukuba ukufundisa nokukhulisa umntwana ayonto ilula, ngakumbi ukuba ungumzali ongenaqabane, kodwa ngomonde nothando yonke into inokwenzeka.


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