Ilizwi lelinye ezona zixhobo zinamandla abantu abanazo. Ngezwi lethu sinokunxibelelana nabanye abantu, sitsho iimvakalelo kwaye simisele ubudlelwane nabanye abantu. Ngezwi, sinokunxibelelana nabanye kwaye ke, kufuneka sazi ngokubaluleka kokukhathalela ezona ndlela ziphambili zonxibelelwano.
Namhlanje, umhla we-16 ku-Epreli, kubhiyozelwa uSuku lweLizwi leHlabathi kwaye injongo yalo mhla ayikho enye into yazisa abantu ngokubaluleka kwelizwi ebantwini. Kunye nesidingo sokukhathalela ngokufanelekileyo ilizwi ukunqanda umonakalo omkhulu kwiintambo zezwi. Izimbo zomzimba ezinjengokuthetha ngakumbi okanye khwaza kakhulu, inokuba neziphumo ezibi kakhulu kwilizwi, into exhaphake kakhulu ebantwaneni.
Ukuze abantwana bakwazi ukuhoya ilizwi labo ngendlela eyoneleyo, kufuneka kuqala yazi ukuba ixabiseke kangakanani loo nto. Ungaphoswa zezi ngcebiso ukuze ufundise abantwana bakho ukukhathalela ilizwi labo, ngelixa ungafunda ukuzenza ngokwakho ngokwenza ezi ngcebiso nabantwana bakho.
Ungabafundisa njani abantwana ukuba bakhathalele ilizwi?
Enye yezinto eziphambili ezinokonakalisa ilizwi kukuba ukuthetha ngokukhwaza kakhulu okanye ukhwaza kakhulu. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuba abantwana baqhele ukuthetha ngethoni ephakathi. Ukwenza oku, okokuqala kuyafuneka ukuba usapho lonke lusebenzise ithoni efanayo, ukwenzela ukuba abantwana babe ngumkhwa ongaphezulu kwesibophelelo. Ukongeza kwilizwi, kukho amanye amaqhinga abantwana abanokuthi balihoye ilizwi labo:
- Sela amanzi rhoqo, Ukuthintela ukuba kubande kakhulu okanye kushushu kakhulu.
- Thetha rhoqo ukuhlonipha kuyajika ukuthetha, ke akuyi kubakho mfuneko yokuba baphakamise amazwi abo ukuze baviwe.
- Thintela umabonwakude, unomathotholo okanye nayiphi na enye into isixhobo esikhupha isandi siyenza ngevolumu ephezulu kakhuluke abantwana abazukufuna ukuthetha kakhulu.
- Ekhaya, sebenzisa isixhobo sokufudumeza ukuthintela ukoma kwemo engqongileyo.
Kwimeko apho abantwana banayo umqala obuhlungu okanye iaphonia ephindaphindayo, yiya eofisini kugqirha wabantwana. Ukubonisana nengcali kubalulekile ukunyanga nayiphi na ingxaki enokwenzeka ngokukhawuleza.