Iingcebiso zokwazisa abantwana ngokuchasene nokuzonda abantu abathandana besisini esinye

Kwiimeko ezininzi, abantu abathandana nabantu besini esinye baqala ekhaya ngokwalo, nakwisangqa esiqhelekileyo esisesikolweni okanye kubahlobo. Abantwana bafunda ngokulinganisa, ngaphandle kokukhetha, konke ukuziphatha kwabo kusekelwe kwinto abayibona ekhaya. Ngesi sizathu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthintela ukuba abantwana batyibilike ekucingeni nakwiingcinga zomntu omdala, kangangokuba akukho meko banokuba yinxalenye yemfundo yomntwana.

Ngokuqinisekileyo abantwana baya kufana nabazali babo, Ngendlela yethu yokubafundisa, yonke into esiyicingayo njengabantu abadala iya kubonakala. Kodwa ezo ngcinga, ezo zigwebo, zibekiwe ngawo onke amava aqokelela kule minyaka idlulileyo. Abantwana kufuneka baphile amava abo, aya kuthi abumbe indlela yabo yokucinga, ngaphandle kwesi sizathu ukuba babe sisipili sabo babazali babo.

Uthando aluziqondi iingcinga

Uthando luyinyama, luyimichiza, alulawuleki kwaye alunakuphepheka. Xa udibana nomntu owenza ukuba ulusu lwakho lukhase, akunakuze usiphephe isidingo sokucinga, ukuphupha, ukuthanda loo mntu. Uthando alunazithintelo, abantu bayathandana nabantu, nokuba badala kangakanani na, ibala lolusu, iingcamango zezopolitiko okanye isondo. Mhlawumbi awuzange uve ukuba ukuthanda umntu wesini esifanayo, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba ayisiyonto ilungileyo, ukuba ayisiyiyo ukhetho njengalo naluphi na olunye.

Ukwazisa abantwana ngokuchasene nokuziphatha kwabantu abathandana nabantu besini esinye, umba oyimfuneko

Akukho mntu unelungelo ukucalula omnye ngenxa yendlela yakhe yothando. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba abantwana bahlupheke ngenxa yekhethe labanye abantu, Abanye abantwana ababelana nabo ngobomi babo abangasiqondiyo isizathu sokuba bengaziva ngoluhlobo baziva ngalo. Ukwazisa abantwana ngokuchasene nokuzonda abantu abathandana nabantu abathandana nabantu abathandana nabesini esinye kungumcimbi obaluleke kakhulu, kubo nakwabanye abantwana.

Ukuze bonke abantwana bakwazi ukuhlala ngoxolo, basebenzele ikamva labo ngokwabelana ngamava namava, ngaphandle kokubandezeleka ngabantu abathandana nabantu besini esinye, ubuhlanga okanye nayiphi na enye indlela yocalucalulo apha endleleni ngemeko ethile. Kuba akukho mntwana kufuneka afumane ukubandezeleka ngenxa yokwahluka, hayi umntwana wakho, hayi abanye abantwana.

Fundisa kwiinqobo ezisemgangathweni, intlonipho kunye novelwano ukuphelisa ubufanasini

Eyona ndlela yokuthintela isimilo sokuziphatha ngokwesini ebantwaneni kukuba akukho ekhaya. Abantwana akufuneki bamamele izimvo ezikhubekisayo ezibhekisa kwabanye abantu ekhaya, nokuba ucinga ukuba ziyahlekisa kwaye azinabubi. Abakwazi ukubona xa kuhlekiswa, ingqiqo ehlekisayo yokuba mhlawumbi unika ibinzana.

Into eqhelekileyo kukuba abantwana bakho basebenzise la mabinzana ngaphandle kwekhaya kwaye Umonakalo abanokuwenza nokuba msulwa awunakulinganiswa. Kuphephe nayiphi na intetho yobufanasini, ukuze abantwana bakho bangahendeki ukuba basebenzise loo magama. Thetha nabantwana bakho malunga neyantlukwano ngokwesini, oku ayikokuchaphazela uthando lwabo okanye ukuthanda kwabo ngokwesondo.

Imalunga nje bazi ukuba zikho ezinye iindlela zothando Kwaye, nokuba ayiyondlela yakho, isemthethweni njengayo nayiphi na enye. Ngale ndlela uyakuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho angagcina ubudlelwane obunempilo, naye nabani na owela umendo wakhe, nokuba wahlukile okanye akafani. Kuba ngandlela thile, sahlukile kwaye yiyo loo nto isenza sahluke.

Fundisa abantwana bakho ukuba babe novelwano neontanga zabo, ukuya ubanako ukuzibeka ezicathulweni zabantu. Kungelo xesha kuphela abaya kuthi babenakho ukuqonda ukuba inqanaba lezenzo zabo linokuba yintoni. I-Homophobia sisibetho esimele sinyamalale kwaye lo msebenzi usezandleni zakho nakubo bonke abazali nabahlohli. Imfundo efunyanwa ngabantwana banamhlanje iya kuphawula indlela yabantu abadala kwikamva.



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