Jonga nje ngeenxa zonke ukubona ukuba amawele amaninzi nangakumbi ayazalwa. Akukho mntu usaziyo esona sizathu sale nto. Abanye bathi ukuba ngumama emva kwexesha kunye nonyango oluninzi ukuze ukhulelwe. Abanye ngokungacwangciswanga. Inyani yile yokuba kukho amawele amaninzi kunangaphambili. Ukunceda abo bazali ubomi babo butshintsha ngesiquphe nangokungalindelekanga, namhlanje sikulethela ezimbalwa iingcebiso zokukhathalela nokukhulisa amawele, Umsebenzi olula nothatha umzamo omkhulu kunye nomonde.
Ukuba ukhe wanaye okanye sowunomntwana, ngaba unokucinga ngobomi obuphakathi kwezidalwa ezimbini ezililayo ngaxeshanye kwaye zivuka ziphindaphinda ezinzulwini zobusuku? Ngokungathandabuzekiyo nangaphaya kweziphumo, kufuneka siqhwabele izandla i- abazali bamawele, abathi imihla ngemihla boyise imiqobo emininzi yokukhulisa abantwana abasempilweni. Kwi-European Union, iSpain lelona lizwe linamanani aphezulu ukuzalwa okuninzi: Ukuzalwa kwamawele angama-27 kunye nokuzalwa kathathu ngokuzalwa kwabafazi abakhulelweyo abali-1.000 XNUMX, ngokwe-National Institute of Statistics.
Uwagcina njani amawele amakhwenkwe
Eyona nto kugxilwe kuyo namhlanje, abantwana abanobuzalwana obukhethekileyo, abangafaniyo ngokwasemzimbeni kuphela kodwa bekwabelana ngenkqubo yokukhula.Ufanele wenze ntoni ngabo? Ungayidibanisa njani imihla ngemihla ukuxhathisa ubomi bemihla ngemihla? Kukho abantu abanyanzelisa ukupha iingcebiso zokukhathalela kunye nokufundisa amawele. Nangona kunjalo, akukho zindlela zokupheka kwindalo iphela, inqaku kukuba, okokuqala, ukwazi iimpawu zosapho ngokwalo, iinkqubo neendlela zokuphila ebezikade zidityaniswa neentsana kwiintsapho usapho.
«Ndaziva ndonwabile xa besixelela, kodwa kunye ne-vertigo eninzi. Sikhethe umntwana omtsha kwaba babini ngaxeshanye, kodwa sakhetha ababini kunaye ", batsho abanye abazali abaye bahlangabezana nala mava awodwa. Xa ifayile ye- amawele Kulindeleke ukuba, umbutho ulula kodwa xa ubomi buthe thsa abazali emva koko kunzima ngakumbi ukuba uqhele umbono kwaye usebenzise inkqubo ngokwendlela yawo. Kukho abazali abakufumanisa kunzima kwiinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala kuba, ngapha koko, ayisiyiyo into abayikhethileyo. Kwaye koku kufuneka sidibanise ityala lokuphila le mvakalelo ...
Ukubaluleka kwengxoxo
Kungenxa yoko le nto omkhulu iingcebiso zokukhathalela nokukhulisa amawele Kukulungiselela ngokwengqondo nangokweemvakalelo ukufika kwayo, ngaphandle kokuphulukana nokuzola ngamaxesha oxinzelelo olukhulu, kugxila kumzuzwana oya kuthi ekugqibeleni udlule. Musa ukoyika nokucela uncedo. Ngokuchasene noko, lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuba sibuyele kusapho kunye nabahlobo kwaye siqonde ukuba sidinga ukuphumla, ukuhlamba kunye nokuphumla.
Incoko yababini yenye ye iingcebiso malunga nokukhulisa nokunyamekela amawele ngempumelelo. Kubalulekile ukuba abazali bachithe ixesha lokunxibelelana nokufunda ngeemvakalelo zomnye nomnye. Kubalulekile ukuba baqondane, bahambisane kwaye basebenze njengenkxaso xa elinye ilungu lesibini lisonganyelwe yimeko. Nokuba kwizibini ezomeleleyo, ukuzalwa kwamawele yinyani yenyani yeemvakalelo kunye notshintsho olupheleleyo lweendlela. Incoko elungileyo ibalulekile ukoyisa inkanyamba, ngakumbi kwiinyanga zokuqala, xa iphupha elibi sisinikezeli esinganikeli galelo kwimeko.
Ishedyuli, isitshixo sokugcina amawele
Ukuba sithetha ngokuziqhelanisa, iingcebiso ezilungileyo zokukhulisa nokunyamekela amawele kubandakanya umbutho othile. Inokuba yintoni? Kungcono ukuqinisekisa ukuba iishedyuli zazo zombini iintsana ziyangqinelana ukuze, ngokuthe ngcembe, iiyure abantwana abondla ngazo nabalala ngazo ziyafana kwaye ngaloo ndlela abazali banokuphumla ngcono. Ngamanye amaxesha, olu hlengahlengiso lufezekiswa kancinci kancinci, "ukuqhuba" iishedyuli zangaphakathi zeentsana.
Okokugqibela, ingcebiso enkulu evela koogqirha babantwana abaninzi kukuthatha ixesha lokuzonwabisa. Ukuhambahamba neentsana, ukukhupha umoya kwaye uyonwabele imisebenzi yangaphandle evunyelwa ngabantwana ukuba mihle iingcebiso zokukhathalela nokukhulisa amawele kwindawo esempilweni kwaye ngaphandle koxinzelelo. Ngaphandle kunceda ukucoca abantu abadala kunye nabantwana kungoko kuyacetyiswa kakhulu, ngakumbi xa usapho luxineke kakhulu ngaphakathi.