Inkulungwane yama-XNUMX kunye neentengiso ezikhuthaza iingcinga ezikhohlakeleyo zesini

Ndimele ndivume ukuba ndibukela umabonwakude omncinci kakhulu. Kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba awuboni nayiphi na intengiso njengoko i-intanethi igcwele nabo. Ngexesha lasehlotyeni, iintengiso endizibonayo zezona zilahlekileyo kunye neemveliso zeselfowuni. Kwaye uninzi lomfanekiso webrendi ngumfazi. Ngokucacileyo, abasetyhini kuphela kwabo bafuna ukunciphisa umzimba kwaye bane-cellulite (qaphela isigqebelo). Ndiyazibuza ukuba zenze njani ezi ntengiso zikhuthaza iingcinga ezikhohlakeleyo ngokwesini ziyaqhubeka ukubonwa kwinkulungwane yama-XNUMX.

I-UK yenze into ehambelanayo: Ukusukela ngo-2018, iyakuthintela olu hlobo lweentengiso ezingenamsebenzi kwaye benza okubi kakhulu eluntwini. Okwangoku, kukho abantu abangothusiyo ukubona kuphela abantu ababhinqileyo bethengisa iimveliso zokucoca okanye ezasekhaya. Kule nkulungwane siphila kuyo kusekho abantu abakholelwa ukuba indoda ayinakuyinyamekela indlu kwaye umfazi akakwazi ukulungisa imoto. Kodwa loo nto yokucinga ayiveli kwiintengiso ezikhuthaza iingcinga zesini.

Kwaye kutheni iSpain ingavumeli intengiso ekhuthaza iingcinga ezikhohlakeleyo zesini?

Ewe, andinalo nofifi. Ukuthetha inyani, andicingi ukuba kuluhlu lwabasemagunyeni "lokwenza". Kodwa, ukusukela nini ukubona iintengiso zolu hlobo? Ndiyakholelwa ekubeni kusoloko kunjalo. Kwaye okona kubi kakhulu, kubonakala ngathi akukho nto ikhe yenziwa ukuyilungisa (kwaye ndiyathandabuza ukuba iyakuze). Kubonakala kulihlazo kum ukuba isalandelwa nanamhlanje ukusebenzisa kuphela abafazi njengophawu lokwehla kobunzima kunye neemveliso zokucoca (umzekelo).

Kodwa ndiyifumanisa imbi kakhulu njengoko intengiso yoyilo isebenzisa ikakhulu amadoda kulwakhiwo lwakho, ngoomatshini okanye ngokulungisa iintengiso (umzekelo). Ayithandabuzeki into yokuba, kuzo zonke iimeko, manene afuzisela amandla kunye namandla kwaye abasetyhini babonisa ukuzithoba kunye nokuzenzisa. Kodwa ngaba amadoda angazikhathazi ngobunzima bawo? Kwaye ngaba iyafixeka into yokuba indoda eyindoda ithande ukuyikhathalela indlu nokuyigcina ilungile? Ewe, ngelishwa ewe.

Kum, awunyanzelekanga ukuba ujolise kwiintengiso

Kucacile ukuba iintengiso ezikhuthaza iingcinga ezisekwe ngokwesini akufuneki zivele nakweyiphi na indlela. Nangona kunjalo, ndiyakholelwa ukuba ingxaki ayifumaneki ngokupheleleyo ukuba ayikho kuluntu. Kukho abantu abacinga ukuba amadoda aphekayo kwaye asebenzisa iimveliso zobuhle azihlekisi kwaye ayingomadoda. Kwaye kukho amadoda azingcayo ngokuzithemba ngokuzazi ukuba abanye bazothini.

Ngokucacileyo, loo nto iyenzeka nakwabasetyhini. Kusekho abantu abajongeka kakubi kumantombazana abathanda izithuthuthu, iimoto kunye nezinto ezithandwayo ngokoku uninzi lwabo "Yeyamadoda kuphela". Yile nto ndiyithethayo. Ndicinga ukuba akufuneki sigxile nje kwiintengiso ezikhuthaza iingcinga zesini. Ngelishwa, Uluntu lungowokuqala ukuba nolungelelwano ngokwesini ngaphandle kokubona ezo ntengiso. Yiloo nto ekufuneka itshintshiwe.

Kubafana iimoto namaqhawe amakhulu kunye namantombazana oonodoli kunye nelokhwe

Ndiza kukuxelela into eyenzeke kum ngaphezulu kwenyanga edlulileyo. Mna nomhlobo wam sayothenga isipho somhla wokuzalwa somzala wakhe omncinci. Wayecacile ngayo. Uthathe uBarbie kunye neqela leelokhwe ezishelfini. Ukufika kwethu ekuphumeni, umfazi owayengabizi mali wathi: “Ndiyathemba ukuba le ntombazana imthanda kakhulu uBarbie. Ndiyenzile kakhulu xa ndimncinci. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba umfazi akazange afike kwiminyaka engamashumi amane (ukuba ucinga malunga nobudala bakhe).

Xa umhlobo wam kwaye ndimxelele ukuba ngumntwana, lo mfazi wasijonga esoyika kwaye waphendula wathi: "Kodwa abantwana zange badlale ngoonodoli, nguThixo." Ngelo xesha, sishiye zonke iithoyi esiza kuzithenga ebhokisini kwaye sahamba. Ndihlala ndikhusela ubuntwana obukhululekileyo. Kwaye ngale nto ndiyathetha ukuba abantwana ngabo abakhetha elona xesha lihle kunye nabo. Ukuba kukho amantombazana abathanda oonodoli kunye neengubo, kuhle. Ukuba kukho abantwana abanemincili ngeemoto kunye nezakhiwo, kulungile.

Kodwa ikwalungele amantombazana onwabileyo eLego, amaqhawe kunye nolwakhiwo. Kwaye kulunge kakhulu kubantwana abanethuba elihle lokuzama iilokhwe zika-Elsa ezivela kwiFrozen kwaye bonwabele ukunxiba kunye nokudibanisa oonodoli babo ngokupheleleyo. Xa ndandisemncinci, Ndihlala ndibona amantombazana ebhengeza iiBarbies kunye neekhitshi kunye namakhwenkwe edlala ngeemoto kunye nezakhiwo kwiTV. Ngokucacileyo, ngalo mzuzu andikunikanga ukubaluleka okukhulu. Ude ukhule kwaye uyiqonde loo nto nokuba ukusukela ebuntwaneni balungisa abantwana.


Kuluntu olungenalo ucalucalulo ngokwesini

Eyona nto ilula iya kuba kukuphila ngokuvisisana, ngentlonipho ngaphandle kokukhetha. Eyona nto ilula iya kuba kukulandela ifilosofi "yokuphila kwaye uphile". Kwaye eyona nto iluncedo kakhulu iya kuba kukubeka ukugxeka kunye nezityholo ecaleni. Izibhengezo akufuneki zibekwe ngokwesini. Kwaye ngethemba lokuba abaqulunqi abazenzayo baya kuyifumana kungekudala. Iingcinga ezifana "nentengiso yokunciphisa ubunzima ithengisa ngakumbi kunye nomntu obhinqileyo" akuncedi. Kwaye asizukuqhubela phambili ukuba kukho abantu ababona kakubi ukuba indoda ihleli ekhaya igcina abantwana nendlu kwaye umfazi ngulo usebenza.


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