Ngaphambili, yayiqhelekile into yokuba amakhwenkwe anxibe iinwele ezimfutshane, kodwa namhlanje sinokubona abantwana abancinci ngee-manes, okanye i-half manes. Esinye sezizathu zokuba abantwana babeqhele ukuhamba naye iinwele ezimfitshaneNgaphandle kwesiko lobudoda, kungenxa yokuba abancinci bathanda ukumelana nokukama iinwele zabo kunye nangenxa yomcimbi weentwala.
Ayikuko ukuba le micimbi, ukudibanisa iinwele kunye neentwala, isonjululwe, kodwa ngoku zininzi iindlela zokunxiba iinwele ezinde, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo umntwana wakho ucacile ukuba yeyiphi eyona ayithandayo. Kwaye malunga nomba weentwala, kukho iindlela zokuthintela eziza kugcina iinwele zakho zikhuselekile.
Ukukhetha iinwele ezinde kwinkwenkwe
Kwenzeka kubantwana njengabo bonke abantu, bafuna ukuzibona njengamaqhawe abo. Ke kulula kubo ukuba bafuna ukudibanisa iinwele zabo ngolu hlobo okanye umdlali webhola ekhatywayo, umdlali weqonga okanye imvumi. Abafana kunye namantombazana sidlulile kuloo nto. Kodwa kufuneka cebisa kubantwana bethu ngokuxhomekeke ezinweleni, kubume bobuso, okanye ukufihla iqela elingaqhelekanga, loluphi uhlobo lweenwele ezinde ezilungele bona.
Enye yeenwele eziqhelekileyo zi yeka iinwele zakhe zixhome emagxeni akhe, kwaye usike usiko phezu kwamehlo akhe, egubungele ibunzi. Amakhwenkwe anobungqingili kunye nobuso obuyintombazana uya kufumana le iinwele zimnandi. Enye yeenzuzo zolu hlobo lweenwele kukuba iinwele ziya kuba nakho ukuhlala ngokwazo ngokwendalo.
Ukuba iinwele zinde ngokwaneleyo, kwaye zingenazo ii-bangs, iinwele zinokwahlulwa zibe ziihafu ezimbini, Ukwahlulahlulahlula phakathi phakathi okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, kwelinye icala. Njengakwii-bangs, iinwele ziya kukhetha indlela yendalo. Kunye neenwele ezinde, izinto eziqaqambileyo zihlala zivela ngokwendalo, ngakumbi kubantwana abantsundu.
Abantwana badlala kakhulu nge umphetho, uyiyeke iwe kwelinye icala, iye kwelinye, uyibeke ngogwebu, uyihlise isidima, okanye uyiyeke iwe phezu kobuso obukhulu.
Ukuhombisa abantwana bakho ngesitayile
Enye yeengxaki zeenwele ezinde zabantwana kukuba ziyaphela ukubambisa okuninzi ukuba awubambeleli kuyo. Abantwana benza iintshukumo ezininzi emini kwaye oku kubangela ukuba iinwele zabo zihlale zihlala Ukubonakala kungcolile, ukungcola, okanye ukungcola.
Ukulungisa le nto, sikucebisa ukuba uthambise iinwele zonyana wakho. Ungayenza isaphetha samurai esiqhelekileyo, Ifashoni kakhulu kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo. Ilula kakhulu, unokuyenza ngokwakhe, inenzuzo yokumenza abonakale emde (ukuba mfutshane kancinci) kwaye iya kumnika ukubonwa kwesitayile. Kukho umdlali webhola odumileyo, endingafuni kumthiya igama, onesibindi ngehashe ezimbini, hayi elinye kwicala ngalinye njengoko kuqhelekile kumantombazana, kodwa kwiindawo eziphakamileyo ezimbini.
Ukuba unexesha, kwaye nonyana wakho uyalithanda, ungambuza qhina entloko. Yeyona ndlela yoqobo kwaye ikhululekile, kwaye ipholile ehlotyeni! Zonke ezi zinwele zinokwenziwa xa umntwana sele enobude obungaphezulu okanye obuncinci. Ukuyigcina kude nobuso bakho ngelixa ikhula, eyona ndlela ilungileyo kukuphambili okanye ibhanti yentloko.
Ukunyamekela iinwele zabantwana bakho ezinde
Ukunyamekelwa kweenwele ayisiyonto yabafazi. Amakhwenkwe aneenwele nje ezibuthathaka, okanye azikho ethe-ethe njengamantombazana. Kukwalungele ukuba basebenzise i- ishampu ekhethekileyo yohlobo lweenwele zakho, ukuba isongekile, ityebile, okanye ishampu yomntwana oqhele ukuyisebenzisa ungabi ndlongondlongo kunabantu abadala.
Kubalulekile ukuba xa ukhulula usebenzisa ukuthamba kunye nokuphazamisa, ukuze angapheli anqunyulwe iinwele kwaye naye enentloko ebuhlungu xa etsala. Amaxesha ngamaxesha makasebenzise imaski yakho kwaye kwiiyure ezishushu umkhumbuze ukuba abeke umkhuseli kwizinwele zakhe.
Ukuba neenwele ezinde, ukuba unyana wakho uyazifuna, kukwa ukusetyenziswa koxanduva kunye nenkathalo. Kuya kufuneka ufunde ukulawula iinwele zakho kwaye uzinyamekele ngeemveliso ezisemgangathweni, ukuba ufuna ngenene ukuzigcina usempilweni, ngaphaya kobuhle.