Bonke abazali bazifumana ngexesha ebuntwaneni babantwana babo xa kufuneka benze "ukucoca" iithoyi. Abantwana banikwa iithoyi besebancinci ukukhuthaza ukucinga kwabo, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuncinci okungaphezulu. Abantwana abancinci badinga okuncinci ukukhuthaza ukucinga kunye nobuchule bokuyila.
Iithoyi zokuqala zinentsingiselo enkulu ebantwaneni nasebazalini, kuba zezokuqala ezikhethelwa abantwana kwaye zibapheleke ngelixa abazali babo bekwenza oko behlola umhlaba. Bafumanisa izinto imihla ngemihla ... kule minyaka, iithoyi ziyaqokelelana kuba zisalele ngasemva ekukhuleni kwabantwana.
Ukuba neethoyi ezininzi ayisiyonto intle kwaphela, nangona ezinye zazo zifundisa. Kuyinyani ukuba uninzi lwezinto zokudlala zinceda abantwana ukuba bakhulise izakhono kwaye babe nolwazi olutsha malunga nezinye izinto, bakwaphucula amandla emoto abantwana, njl. Kodwa xa zingasabalulekanga kubomi babantwana, kuyimfuneko ukucoca ukuze abo bangasebenziyo baphoswe kwaye Ezo zisasebenza lukhetho olulungileyo kwabanye abantwana abanokonwabela kwaye bazisebenzise.
Akukho mfuneko yokulahla iithoyi ukuba zikwimeko entle, kodwa ukufumana omnye umnini ngoyena mntu ucetyiswayo. Ungazithengisa ukuba zikwimeko efanelekileyo okanye uzinike abantu abanokuzisebenzisa izibonelelo ezibonelelwa yile nto yokudlala.
Ukuqokelela izinto ezininzi kakhulu kuya kwenza kuphela ukuba yonke into ifumbe kwaye kusichaphazele ngokweemvakalelo kubangele uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo. Ubuncinci be-junk obukhoyo, bungcono kwimpilo yabantu ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo. Ke ezo zinto zokudlala zingahambelani nobudala bomntwana wakho, kungcono ukuba uzithathe uzithengise okanye uzinike ukubanika ubomi obungaphezulu.