Ikota yesine yokukhulelwa ikhona, kwaye yeyona inzima kunazo zonke. Ngelixa kuyinyani ukuba kwiitrimester zokuqala ezintathu umntwana wakho ungaphakathi kuwe ukhula kwaye ulungiselela ukuzalwa, ikota yesine, xa umzimba wakho wahlukile kwindlela owawunayo ngaphambi kokuba ukhulelwe, kunzima kunokuba ucinga.
Le kota yesine ayikhankanywa nangubani na kodwa ibaluleke kakhulu kubo bobabini umama nosana. Kuxa umama kufuneka alungelelanise nokuba ngumama kwaye bobabini usana kunye nonina baqale Zazi ngokoyisa imiceli mngeni eyayingaziwa ngaphambili.
Ikota yesine ibhekisa kwiinyanga ezintathu zokuqala emva kokubeleka, xa umntwana eziva engonwabanga ukuba ngaphandle kwesibeleko, indawo apho kudlule khona iinyanga ezisithoba kwaye wayelapho ekhuselekile kwaye ethe cwaka ngalo lonke ixesha. Ngeemfuno zakho ezisisiseko zithathelwe ingqalelo ngalo lonke ixesha. Ngexesha le trimester kukho iingxaki ze-colic kunye noxinzelelo kwincinci. Inqanaba elahlukileyo kubo bobabini umama nosana kwaye nobabini kufuneka nizive nikhuselekile kwaye nizolile ngamaxesha onke.
Kule trimester emva kokubeleka kuqala kunye nohlengahlengiso olude kwinto esiyaziyo njengomama. Umntwana naye kufuneka aqhelane nonina, ukongeza kuzo zonke iinguqu, kufuneka ajongane notshintsho emzimbeni wakhe, olungasokuze luphinde lufane. Oomama abaninzi baziva bexhalabile kwikota yesine yokukhulelwa. Kulungile ukucela abanye uncedo xa ulufuna okanye unikezele ukukunceda ukuba uyazi umntu onokuthi ahambe kwikota yesine yokukhulelwa.
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ekugqibeleni bahlale phantsi. Enkosi kakhulu enkosi ngoncedo lwakho lokungazingci kumaxesha anzima anje, njengokuziqhelanisa nokuba ngumama kwezi nyanga zintathu zilandelayo kanye emva kokubeleka.