Sithethile ngamanye amaxesha malunga nendlela yokufundisa abantwana ukuba bazi Ixabiso lemali. Zombini ezi ndlela zokuba bafunde ukujongana nazo, kwaye babenolwazi ngexabiso elinalo. Iingcebiso zokuba baqonde kakuhle ukuba imali ayikhuli emithini kwaye kufuneka uzame ukungayimoshi.
Namhlanje sifuna ukuba uqonde ukubaluleka kwezi mfundiso kubantwana bakho. Ayizukukuphembelela kuphela ngokwezoqoqosho, yinto enzulu kunoko. Siza kukufundisa ngexabiso lokuba zonke iinjongo zifuna umgudu kunye nolwaneliseko oluza nokufezekisa iinjongo zakho.
Imali kunye nezinto njengeenjongo zokuphucula
Namhlanje sifumana uluntu apho umntwana oneminyaka eli-11 ubudala, okanye nangaphantsi, anokuba ne-smartphone okanye ipilisi ngaphandle kobunzima. Oku kuthathwa njengokuqhelekileyo, abazali abaninzi abangayithathi njengefanelekileyo kwimfundo yabo bayaphela benikezela. Konke kuba bexhalabile malunga nokuba kunokwenzeka ukuba abantwana babo baqwalaselwe njengabanye.
Yimpazamo enkulu thelekisa imfundo yabantwana bakho kunye nendlela oqhuba ngayo njengomzali nabanye abazali nabantwana babanye abantu. Ngale ndlela uyakufumana kuphela lo mzekelo ubanika wona, bayaqonda ukuba kufuneka bakhuphisane nabanye. Ayincedi kuphela kuphuhliso lwabo, kuba inokubangela iingxaki zoxinzelelo xa iinjongo zabo zingafezekiseki. Oko kuguqulela kunyamezelo olusezantsi lokukhathazeka.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntwana wakho amfundise ukuba abe kukhuphiswano oluqhubekayo, kodwa naye. Oku komeleza umnqweno wakho wokugqwesa. Ngale ndlela sifumana izinto eziphathekayo kunye nemali yokubuyela kwisitulo esingasemva. Vumela ukoneliseka kokufezekisa iinjongo ngeendlela zakho kube lelona bhaso lokwenyani. Ngokukhawuleza nje emva kokuba uluvile olo lonwabo, siya kwazi ukuba silawula ukukufundisa ukuba uhlale uziphucula.
Yiphathe impahla njengoxanduva kunye nesidima somonde
Nje ukuba umntwana wakho ayifezekise injongo yakhe, uya kuyixabisa ngakumbi, kuba ibingumzamo. Ukususela ngoku loo mali okanye loo nto yeminqweno yakho, iba yeyakho ngokupheleleyo, kuba uyifumene. Oku kuya kuthetha ukuba uya kuthatha uxanduva olukhulu ngayo. Kuba uyazi ngenene ukuba kubiza malini ukuyifumana kwaye ukuba uyaphulukana nayo, kuya kufuneka uqale ekuqaleni. Umntwana ongakhange enze mzamo akayi kugcina imali okanye izinto ezifunyenwe ngononophelo olufanayo.
Kukho ukubaluleka kokufundisa abantwana kwiinzame zokufezekisa iinjongo. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka sinyanzelise ukuba ukusukela ngoku ukuya phambili banoxanduva loko bakufumanayo. Kuya kufuneka ubakhokele xa kuziwa kulawulo lokonga.
Abantwana abacingi ixesha elide, kodwa bafuna ulwaneliseko kwangoko. Kuluxanduva lwethu njengabazali ukuba nomonde ukuze sifumane ulwaneliseko olukhulu, nokuba kufuneka silindile. Kuya kufuneka bafunde ukuba ukuba bachitha imali yabo kwiitrinki, ngekhe babenayo ukuthenga loo nto yokudlala ibizayo bayithandayo.
Imali kunye nezangqa zentlalo
Namhlanje, zininzi izangqa zentlalo apho kuboniswa khona ukuba "unokuninzi, unexabiso kakhulu." Isangqa apho umntwana wakho anokucalulwa khona. Oku kunokwenzeka ngenxa yokuba ungenayo le fowuni yesizukulwana sokugqibela osicelileyo.
Ukuba sifuna ukutshintsha le nto kwaye abantwana bethu bakhule kwaye babumba uluntu olwahlukileyo, Kufuneka bafundiswe ngombono wokuba okona kubalulekileyo kukuba bomelele, basempilweni kwaye bonwabile. Yinto eyimfuneko kubo nakuthi. Kungale ndlela kuphela apho uluntu lunokudalwa apho umntu axabiseke ngakumbi kwinto abanegalelo kuyo koontanga bakhe kunelifa abanokulishiya, liguqulelwe kwi-euro. Uluntu apho ukusebenza nzima kusisitshixo sempumelelo.