Inketho efanelekileyo yokuphuhlisa izakhono zokucinga ezibalulekileyo kukudlala imidlalo yokucinga. Iminyaka yesikolo sabantwana abasaqalayo lixesha lokukhuthaza abantwana bakho ngemidlalo eyonwabisayo kunye nemisebenzi eya kuthi yonyuse ukucinga kwabo kunye namandla okucinga ngokunzulu.
Ingabonakala imnandi ngoku, kodwa iziphumo zolu hlobo lwemidlalo ziya kuhlala ngonaphakade ezingqondweni zabantwana bakho. Abantwana abayi kukhulisa ngomlingo izakhono zokucinga kwisikolo samabanga aphantsi. Benza uninzi lwezi zakhono kwiminyaka yasesikolweni. Ungaphoswa yile midlalo yokucinga iyimidlalo yesiko ngaphandle kwesikrini banokudlala nabantwana naphina kwaye ngaphandle kokuzilungiselela.
Yintoni ukucinga okubalulekileyo
Phambi kokunika indlela imidlalo, kuhlala kululuvo olulungileyo ukwazi ukuba yintoni na esiza kufunda ngayo kwaye siphuhlise ngokulinganayo. Ngoko ke, sikhankanya ukuba ukucinga okunzulu kunokuba neenkcazo ezahlukeneyo. Kodwa Yinto esikhokelela ekubeni sivavanye kwaye sihlalutye zombini iingcinga kunye neemeko ezahlukeneyo ezenzeka yonke imihla.. Ke, xa sithetha ngokubanzi, ikwabandakanya nomnqweno wokufunda, ukuthandabuza ukukwazi ukuthatha elona nyathelo lilungileyo, ukufunda intshukumo nganye kunye nokwenza ingqondo ihlale ishukuma. Ngenxa yoko, ukuba sinokuyonwabela yonke le midlalo njengemidlalo yaye sisebancinane, iya kuba ziindaba ezimnandi. Kuba kuya kuba nokwenzeka ukuphuhlisa izakhono zengqondo nomzimba wethu, ngokukhawuleza nangendlela echane ngakumbi. Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela oyijonga ngayo, ibaluleke kakhulu!
Ziziphi iinzuzo zayo ezinkulu?
Ewe, ukukwazi ukuhlalutya isenzo ngasinye ngcono ngokucinga nzulu, enye yeengenelo ezinkulu kukusinceda ukuba silahle iingcamango ezimbi okanye ezo zingasikhokeleli kuyo nayiphi na injongo size sahlule ezo zifanelekileyo.. Ezinye iindlela ezizezinye ziyavela kwaye ngazo unokuphucula unxibelelwano kunye nendlela yokucinga. Ngoko ukuba sifuna ukubalaselisa iingenelo zokucingisisa nzulu, kucacile ukuba kuya kusinceda senze ngokuvisisana nokhetho lwethu. Ekubeni sinokuthi le ngcamango yinto edibene nengqiqo. Yiyo loo nto kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ifunyanwe besebancinane kakhulu.
Injongo yokuba nokucinga nzulu
Baya kuqalisa ukuhlalutya iingxoxo ngeendlela ezinamandla ngakumbi. Kuba baya kuyazi indlela yokubona ukuba zeziphi ezinomdla ngakumbi okanye ezichaseneyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kwangaxeshanye baya kuba nako ukuphuhlisa ukucinga kunye ne-intuition kwiindawo ezilinganayo. Into entle ngokwenene kulo lonke ukukhula kwayo. Baza kukwazi ukuqaphela iimpazamo kwaye bafunde kuzo. Ekugqibeleni, baya kukwazi ukucamngca ngeengcamango abanazo engqondweni, ukuze bazuze lukhulu kubo.
Eyona midlalo ibalulekileyo yokucinga
Ndiyahlola
Ingadlalwa ngeendlela ezininzi, umzekelo, ukuhlola izinto ngokusekelwe kwizandi zokuqala (ukufundisa iileta) okanye imibala (ukuqonda umbala). Ukuvavanya ukucinga komntwana wakho, dlala oku juego usebenzisa imikhondo echazayo engabandakanyi izandi okanye imibala. Umzekelo:
- Ndihlola iliso lam elincinci into egudileyo, engqukuva nenokuphoswa.
- Ndihlola iliso lam elincinci into ekhulayo, egudileyo kwaye isemithini.
Lo mdlalo yinguqulelo yemveli "ndiyabona-ndiyabona", ekwafaneleyo kakhulu ukudlala!
Yakha ibali
Lo mdlalo umalunga nokucinga okuyilayo kunye nophuhliso lolwimi. Qala ngokwenza ibali:
Kudala-dala kwakukho ikati elingwevu.
- Umntwana ke wongeza isivakalisi ebalini, ngaloo ndlela etshintsha icala lebali:
Ikati encinci engwevu yalahleka ehlathini.
- Emva koko faka isivakalisi kwaye ibali liyaqhubeka:
Ngesiquphe, weva ukusebeza emva kwakhe, waqandusela.
Lo mdlalo uhlala uphela ngokuhleka kunye nebali elihlekisayo, kodwa usebenzisa amandla amaninzi engqondo kunye nengcinga.
Umdlalo wokulinganisa
Dlala lo mdlalo onesingqisho ngokucela umngeni kumntwana wakho ukuba acinge ngamagama anemvano-siphelo enegama elilula elifana nekati okanye iraga. Lo mdlalo ulungele ukuphuhlisa umbono wokuva. Ungatsho isivakalisi esinjengo "Ndino ..." okanye "Ndibona u ..." kwaye ungeze igama elilula njengekati. Emva koko umntwana wakho uphendula ngesivakalisi esifanayo esebenzisa igama elinemvano- siphelo elifanelekileyo emva koko uqhubeke nomdlalo de amagama agqitywe kunye.
Qaphela iqanda: umdlalo wokucinga obalulekileyo
Ukusonjululwa kwengxaki yinto esisiseko ekufuneka kujongwe ngayo kwasebuntwaneni. Yindlela yokukwazi ukucinga ngabo kwaye ube nobuchule. Banokukwenza njani oko? Ewe, ilula kakhulu: ngeqanda. Ewe, iqanda elitsha ekungafanelanga ukuba laphulwe ihlabathi, kodwa kufuneka lehle ukusuka kumphakamo omkhulu. Ke, abafundi kufuneka bacinge ngendlela yokuyifeza.
- Ngaba ngokubeka into ephothiweyo phantsi?
- Mhlawumbi, ukwakha ipaseji ukuya kwindawo ekuyiwa kuyo?
Umendo wemiqobo
Xa sivale amehlo ethu, sisodwa kufuneka sizivumele sikhokelwe lithuku nokuthenjwa ukuba siyifake kumaqabane. Ke, lo msebenzi uya kuba luncedo kuwo kunye nokunye okuninzi. Imalunga nokwenza amaqela, ukwenza kube mnandi ngakumbi. Nje ukuba sigqibile, kufuneka silandele indlela eneentlobo ezahlukeneyo zemiqobo. Lixesha lokuba umthathi-nxaxheba wokuqala azigqume amehlo kwaye akwazi ukuwela indlela exeliweyo kodwa ngokulandela imiyalelo ayivayo. Ke ngoko, ukuthembana kunye nonxibelelwano kunye nomonde kudla ngokuba ngoyena mqhubi ubalulekileyo.
sisinde kwiparadesi
Yiba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni usesiqithini esisentlango. I-priori ibonakala ngathi yiparadesi, ude uqonde ukuba akukho mntu wumbi ngaphandle kwakho, ewe ishiywe ngokoqobo. Ngoku lixesha lokuba abancinci benze uluhlu kunye nayo yonke into esinokuyidinga ukuphuma apho okanye iindlela abaza kuzisebenzisa. Oko kukuthi, kungekuphela nje njengezixhobo kodwa ulwakhiwo okanye amanyathelo ekufuneka uwathathile ukuze ukwazi ukubaleka eluvalelweni.
Sombulula imfihlelo
Ayinzima, nangona yonke into ephethe imfihlakalo inokujika ibe ngokuchaseneyo. Kule meko, kukwakhethwa ukuba kubekho iqela labalingane ukwenza kube mnandi ngakumbi. Ilungu ngalinye liya kunikwa umkhondo kwaye kunye, kufuneka bazilungiselele, bazibeke ngolungelelwano kwaye basombulule imfihlakalo.. Umzekelo, ukunyamalala kwento okanye eso silo-qabane singaphumliyo. Ukwenza lo mdlalo wokucinga obalulekileyo ube nomdla ngakumbi, unokushiya imikhondo kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo okanye iikona apho loo nto yayikhona okanye apho isilwanyana sasekhaya sasisiya khona.
Ngoku uyazi ngakumbi malunga nokuba kutheni kuyimfuneko ukuphuhlisa esi zakhono kunye nemizekelo emininzi yokuyisebenzisa. Ingaba ulunde ntoni?