Ukuba ungumama okanye utata, kusenokwenzeka ukuba uye waqonda ukuba kukho iintsuku ezibonakala zingunaphakade, kodwa iminyaka ihamba ngokukhawuleza. Umbono wexesha uyatshintsha ukususela ekuzalweni kwabantwana bakho kwaye ngequbuliso, uyaqonda ukuba iminyaka ihamba ngokukhawuleza kangangokuba uqala ukuba nesiyezi.
Kwenzeke ntoni kuyo yonke le minyaka? Kwenzeka njani ukuba abantwana bakho bangabi ngabasezo ntsana zithandekayo kwaye ngequbuliso babe ngabakwishumi elivisayo abangalalanisiyo ngobomi? Kwenzeka njani ukuba ubomi bakho butshintshe kangaka oko waba nabantwana?
Ukuba nabantwana kuguqula ubomi bakho ngokupheleleyo, kodwa ixesha liyatshintsha ... ngokukhawuleza iintsuku zide, kodwa iminyaka imfutshane. Kukho iintsuku xa udinwe kakhulu kangangokuba kubonakala ngathi ubusuku abuyi kufika, kodwa emva kobusuku obuninzi, uyaqonda ukuba inyanga yonke iphelile, kwaye enye, kwaye ixesha litshintshile, kwaye kufuneka uthenge abantwana.impahla ezintsha kuba zigqithile kubo, iincwadi zesikolo kufuneka zitshintshwe...
Ngale nto sithetha ukuba nokuba imini yakho idinisa kangakanani na, kufuneka wonwabe yonke iminithi yobomi. Awukwazi ukuba yintoni enokwenzeka, nokuba kuya kubakho izifo, iingozi ... Ubomi namhlanje sisipho kwaye kungenxa yoko kubalulekile ukuphila. Kufanelekile ukuba uncume, udlale nabantwana bakho kwaye ulinde indawo yokuhlamba impahla ilinde de balale. TAbantwana bakho kufuneka bachithe ixesha ecaleni kwakho, kokukhona ngcono. Azidingi iikhangaru ukuze zibanyamekele, kufuneka zikhule ecaleni kwakho, phakathi kweengalo zakho, phakathi kweengcebiso zakho, phakathi kothando lwakho kunye nenkuthazo yakho.
Phila ngoku, hlala nabantwana bakho, ujabulele, udale intsapho enhle ethi, emva koko, idale iinkumbulo ezimangalisayo ezingqondweni zabantwana bakho ... Oko kuya kubenza babe ngabantu abadala abonwabileyo. Unamandla oku. Ngaba uza kuyichitha?