Umfazi luphawu lwenkalipho kunye nokuphucula. Sikule nkulungwane yama-XNUMX kwaye kusekho indlela ende ekusafuneka siyenzile ukuziva ukulingana ngokwesini. Sime kwinkcubeko ephucukileyo kwaye zininzi iintshukumo zentlalo ezijikeleze umntu wasetyhini, oko ibangela ukuba igunya nentlonipho zilahleke.
Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo umfazi Uhleli engazicingeli kwaye enoxanduva lokuba ngumama. Unikele ngobomi bakhe ngenxa yokufundisa abantwana bakhe kwaye unabo Ukuthintelwa kumalungelo athile kunye nenkqubela phambili ukugcina indima kamama. Ngaphezulu kweenkulungwane, ababhinqileyo babonakalisile ukuba bayakwazi ukuthatha nokuthatha iindima ezibalulekileyo nezinoxanduva, nangona ibiyindlela enzima, ephenjelelwa yimachismo.
Inyathelo elincinci kwimbali yabafazi
Abasetyhini abaninzi baziva i Imfuneko ebalulekileyo yokuqhubela phambili iiprojekthi zakho, ulindelo lwabo ekufundeni nasekuthabatheni inyathelo eliya kwinkqubela phambili yabo kuba akukho mida ibekiweyo kubuchule babo, okuthethe ukuba ayingabo bonke abanesiphelo esihle. Yimeko esinokuyikhumbula kwisiphelo esibi sika IHypatia yaseAlexandria, umntu omkhulu wezibalo kunye neenkwenkwezi owayebulewe kabuhlungu, njengoko wayemele yena njengomzekelo womfazi wesayensi okhululekileyo ozimeleyo.
Kodwa ngaphakathi kwale nkqubela phambili encinci sinokuza sikhumbule ukufikelela kwabafazi kwiYunivesithi eSpainukuya. Kwakungo-Matshi 8, 1910 kwaye wayenokunikwa ukufikelela kwiMfundo ePhakamileyo ngaphandle kwalo naluphi na uhlobo lwemida kunye nezakhiwo, kuba nangona wayenako ngaphambili, olu hlobo lokufikelela lwaluthintelwe ngokobuqu kuba kwakucingwa ukuba akuyomfunekoEndaweni yokuba eyona nto iphambili kuye yayikukukhulisa abantwana.
Ngo-Matshi 8, 2017, icwangcisiwe uqhankqalazo lokuQala lwaBasetyhini lwaMazwe ngaMazwe. Isiphakamiso esisekwe ngabasetyhini abavela kumazwe angaphezu kwama-50 ukuba babone ngamehlo ubundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini ngazo zonke iindlela kunye neziqulatho, kulandela imixholo kwinqanaba lezesondo, lenkcubeko, lentlalontle nelopolitiko.
Ibinzana elifanelekileyo labasetyhini
Kwaye ngulo mfazi uhlala Ubuthathaka, unonophelo, uzinikezele kwabo basondeleyo kuwe, ulungile kwaye usebenza nzima awudingi kwanto ngaphandle kokufumana izulu. Kodwa nangazo zonke ezi mpawu, uluntu lunako kubangele ukuba ezi ntshukumisa zenzeke ngendlela ephikisanayo. Kuyathomalalisa kwaye kuyakha ukuba kukho amabinzana afanelekileyo ukuze ukwazi ukuhlala wonwabile kwaye uxabisiwe:
- Kuya kufuneka uphume "kwindawo ebutofotofo nezolileyo" ukuze ukhule njengomntu.
- Ndincama uloyiko lwam, ikratshi lam, ukudideka kwam, ukunyanzelisa into endiyilangazelelayo.
- Ubomi bakho mabungqongwe ngabantu abanomdla, ungaze ubenomdla.
- Ukuba yingqondi kudala imibuzo emininzi kwaye phantse kungabikho mpendulo.
- Ndingathanda ukuba buhlungu ngenxa yezinto endizenzileyo kunokuba ndibuhlungu ngezo ndingazange ndizenze.
- Ukuthatha umngcipheko wento oyithandayo akoyiki, yeyomntu onokholo.
- Lumkela monotony, hlala kude nayo; Ungunina wazo zonke izono ezibulalayo.
- Ukuhamba ngokusilela ngaphandle kokudimazeka kunye nokuphelelwa lukholo yeyona ndlela iqinisekileyo yokuphumelela.
- Ukujonga emva kuphela kuzisa iingxaki kwaye kukuphazamise kwisipho esihle onokonwabela.
- Akukho mntu unokukwenza uzive uphantsi ngaphandle kwemvume yakho.
- Abasetyhini ligumbi elikhulu lamandla kunye neetalente ekusafuneka zifakwe.
- Xa uyeka uloyiko lwakho uya kufumanisa ukuba kulula ukwakha onke amaphupha akho, ngamanye amaxesha, olona tshaba lwakho lukhulu nguwe.
- Asizalwanga njengomfazi, siba banye. USimone de iBeauvoir.
- Imfihlo yomfazi ilula kakhulu. Abaze banikezele.
- Ukuba amaphupha akho makhulu kungenxa yokuba ukukwazi ukuwafeza nawo kukwanjalo.