Ingqalelo yomntwana omncinane idlula ngokukhawuleza, utsiba kwizinto azenzayo ukuya kwizinto ezimngqongileyo. Ngenxa yokuba abantwana abancinci benomdla kakhulu ngehlabathi, banamandla alinganiselweyo okulungelelanisa izinto ezibangqongileyo. Oku kuthetha ukuba abantwana abancinci baphazamiseka ngokulula kakhulu. Ukunika ingqalelo rhoqo sisiseko sokufunda, ukuphuhlisa izakhono zobomi, kunye nokulungiselela umntwana kwiindawo zokufunda ngokwamaqela. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukuphucula ukunakekelwa kwabantwana ukususela kwiminyaka yobudala.
Abantwana abancinci badla ngokufuna uncedo lwabantu abadala ukuze bahlale benikel’ ingqalelo kumsebenzi de ugqitywe. Njengoko ingqalelo yomntwana iqala ukuphucula, baya kukwazi ukudlala ngokuzimeleyo ngaphandle kwesidingo sokuba uhlale ubeka iliso kubo. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula oko ukukwazi ukwandisa ubuchule bokunikela ingqalelo kufana nesihlunu: Kufuneka uzilolonge ukuze uyomeleze. Unokunceda ukuphucula le ngqalelo yengqwalasela ngokusebenzisana naye omnye-mntu. Imisebenzi oyenzayo nonyana okanye intombi yakho kufuneka ibe yinkuthazo kwaye ube nethuba lokuyandisa.
Imisebenzi yokuphucula ingqalelo ebantwaneni
- imisebenzi yasekhitshini. Abantwana abancinci bahlala bekhuthazwa ngokuthatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi "ekhulile", ngoko ke ikhitshi inokufaneleka ngakumbi. Ukusasaza i-cocoa cream kwiziqwenga zesonka okanye ukukhama iziqhamo ukwenza ijusi enempilo kunokuba sisiqalo esihle. Nayiphi na into elula onokucinga ngayo inokubanceda baqale ukugxila kwimisebenzi enomdla kubo. Ukongezelela, ukutya okanye ukusela into elungiselelwe yedwa kuya kumenza akhukhumale.
- ukwandisa ixesha lokufunda. Yandisa kancinci ixesha olichitha kuyo ukufunda inokuphucula ixesha lakho lokunikela ingqalelo. Unokwenza amagqabaza ngelixa ufunda kuye, kwaye umbuze imibuzo malunga nebali, ngokuzenzekelayo. Ungaphinda ucele umntwana wakho akhombe kwizinto okanye abalinganiswa abazotywe kwiphepha ofundayo, aze enze amabali ahambelanayo nezo zinto okanye abalinganiswa.
- hlala phantsi. Khuthaza unyana wakho okanye intombi yakho ukuba yenze imisebenzi yemoto efana nemibala, iipuzzle, imidlalo yokwakha okanye amanani eplastiki. Ezi ntlobo zemisebenzi ziya kukugcina ugxile, kunye nokuphucula izakhono zakho zemoto.
Khetha imisebenzi efanelekileyo yobudala
Ukubukela unyana okanye intombi yakho ngoxa bedlala ukuze yazi izinto abazonwabisa ngazo kunokuba luncedo kakhulu. Abantwana abancinci badla ngokonwabisa ngayo nantoni na, imoto yokudlala, isipini, ikepusi yakhe ayithandayo… Ungajoyina umdlalo wakhe ngenye into okanye umbuze into ayenzayo. Ukuba ubona ukuba ulahlekelwa ngumdla, unokucinga ngokunika umdlalo wakhe wangaphambili ujije ukuze aphinde abanjwe kuwo.
Ukuba uceba umsebenzi owahlukileyo, kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba unokuwenza yedwa, okanye ngoncedo oluncinane oluvela kuwe. Ukumnika ucelomngeni olulungele ubudala anokuthi alwenze eyedwa kuya kumnceda ukuba angaphoxeki okanye adimazeke.. Nangona ukukhungatheka okanye ukudimazeka kuyimvakalelo ebalulekileyo yokufumana kunye nokusebenza kunye, banokungena kwindlela yenkqubela phambili xa bezama ukuphucula ukunakekelwa komntwana omncinci.
Inkuthazo yokuphucula ukukhathalelwa kwabantwana
Yintoni ephucula i-muscle yengqwalasela ye-span kuxhomekeke kwikhono lokunyusa ixesha lokugqitywa kumsebenzi. Ngoko xa unyana okanye intombi yakho ikuxelela ukuba iwugqibile umsebenzi wayo wesikolo owenzelwa ekhaya, yikhuthaze ukuba iwenze kube kanye. Njengoko abazali bebakhuthaza ngobubele abantwana babo ukuba baqhubeke nomsebenzi othile, abantwana baya kuziva bekhuthazwa ukuba baqhubeke. Ukuba uyamjoyina kolu phindaphindo, unokunceda ukuphucula ukusebenza kwakhe ngakumbi. amandla okuqwalaselwa. Umzekelo, ukuba wayepeyinta ebhukwini waza wagqiba, unokuthi, "Mkhulu! Siza kupeyinta enye kwaye emva koko siqokelele yonke imizobo. "
Kubalulekile kwinkuthazo yakhe ukuba ubhiyozele yonke impumelelo encinci ayizuzileyo, njengokumkhuthaza ukuba aqhubeke ixeshana ngaphambi kokuba atshintshele kwenye into. Ngoqheliselo oluncinane lwemihla ngemihla uya kuphawula ukuba unyana okanye intombi yakho ngokuthe ngcembe ikhulisa ixesha layo lokunikela ingqalelo. Uyakwenza imisebenzi emininzi ixesha elide, kwaye oku kuya kunceda xa ukhulile.