Usizi ebantwaneni lunokuvela ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukahlukeneyo. Umhlobo wakho osenyongweni usenokuba utshintshe isikolo okanye ufudukele kwesinye isixeko. Isilwanyana sakho sasekhaya sisenokuba siswelekile, okanye umntu omthandayo. Amaxesha alusizi ayinxalenye yobomi, njengamaxesha olonwabo. Kwaye oku kuyinyaniso kubantwana nakubantu abadala. Kwimeko yabantwana, bamele bafundiswe ukutyhubela loo maxesha alusizi.
Abantwana abaninzi baya kufuna ukwazi isizathu sokuba le nto yabenza buhlungu yehlele kubo. Basenokude bazibeke ityala. Yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukubanceda bakuqonde oko abanakubekwa tyala ngezinto ezimbi ezenzekayo. Ukuba umntu uyafa, ukuba abazali babo baqhawule umtshato, ukuba abahlobo bahambe okanye enye ilahleko, zizinto eziyinxalenye yobomi. Njengeziganeko ezivuyisayo. Imisebenzi yokudlala kunye nokuyila iya kunceda abantwana baqonde ngcono kwaye bamelane neemvakalelo zabo ezingalunganga.
Imisebenzi yokusebenzela usizi ebantwaneni
Iincwadi zabantwana
Ithuku lokuqala kuye nawuphi na umntu omdala obona umntwana olusizi kukuya kwivenkile yeencwadi okanye kwithala leencwadi. Ngaphakathi kwiincwadi zabantwana zininzi iincwadi ezithetha ngeemvakalelo ezingakhiyo zabantwana. Iincwadi ezithetha ngokufelwa ngumntu omthandayo (kuquka nezilwanyana zasekhaya), ezithetha ngoqhawulo-mtshato lwabazali, ukuphulukana nomhlobo, okanye ezingeemvakalelo ngokubanzi, ziluncedo kakhulu kubantwana ukuze bazi indlela yokuqonda iimvakalelo zabo. iimuvi malunga iimvakalelo Banokunceda, kodwa ukuba inkwenkwe okanye intombazana iselula kakhulu, ayiyi kuhlala kude kube sekupheleni, mhlawumbi.
Into ebalulekileyo kukuba baqonde, bachonge kwaye bathethe ngeemvakalelo zabo. Yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukuba uthethe nabo ngokungafihlisiyo, abantwana kufuneka beve inyaniso. Ukufihla iingcamango zokufa okanye ukuhlukana nabo, umzekelo, njengoko kunokwenziwa kwixesha elidlulileyo, kuya kubangela ukungathandeki ngakumbi kubantwana abancinci, kuba abayi kuqonda ukuba kwenzekani okanye kutheni beziva bebuhlungu.
Imisebenzi yoluvo kunye nokuntywila
Imisebenzi yengqondo okanye imvakalelo, okanye imisebenzi yokuphinda igxininise, yenye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokunceda abantwana baphume kwiimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo, ezifana nomsindo, ukukhathazeka, umsindo, okanye usizi. Ezi ntlobo zemisebenzi banokunceda abantwana ukuba basuke kwisimo esibi ukuya kwimeko yokuqukuqela. Ukuba kwimo yokuqukuqela kukuthatheka ngokupheleleyo kumsebenzi othile. Kuxa untywiliselwa kulo mzuzu ungakhange uzikhathaze ngayo nantoni na ngaphandle kwalapha nangoku.
Ukudlala ngumsebenzi wonyango wabantwana. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha bafuna uncedo oluncinci ukuze bafikelele kweso simo, kwaye kulapho imisebenzi yeemvakalelo kwaye ukwazi kunokunceda abantwana babuyele kwisimo sokuhamba. Ezi ntlobo zemisebenzi zifanelekile ukuba zisetyenziswe njengekhefu lobuchopho okanye utshintsho ukusuka ekufundeni kwizixhobo zombane ukuya kwixesha lokudlala kude nezikrini.
Isitiya esizivayo ukusebenza lusizi ebantwaneni
Ku yaziwa ukuba igadi inika ukomelela ngokwasengqondweni ngokunciphisa uxinzelelo kunye nokwandisa iimvakalelo ezintle. Esinye sezizathu zoku kukuba ukulima kuyaboleka ekubeni kulo mzuzu kunye nakwimeko yokuqukuqela. Olunye uphando lude lubonise ukuba ukumba kumdaka kwandisa amanqanaba e-serotonin engqondweni. Ungalibali ukuba egadini usebenza nabantu abaphilayo kwaye oko kwenza umsebenzi ulumke ngakumbi. Ukongeza, igadi isinceda ukuba sinxibelelane nomhlaba kunye nendalo, siphumza ukubona kwethu kunye nevumba, kwaye isibonisa indawo ehlabathini apho sinokwenza izinto ezilungileyo kwindawo esingqongileyo kunye neziqu zethu.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba yenza igadi okanye igadi yeziqhamo kuninzi kakhulu ukuqala, kukho izitiya zamatye okanye iigadi zesanti, apho uqoqosha isanti ngeraki encinci. Ukubona iinkozo ezincinci zesanti zihamba kunye nokuhamba kwezandla zabo kunokuba yi-hypnotic kubantwana abancinci. Baza kugxila kwintshukumo, ekulandeleni eso sithuba ngendlela ebenza bazive belungile. Iya kuba yigadi ye-zen yabantwana. Le yindlela elula nesebenzayo yokwazisa umbono wengqondo kunye noxolo ebantwaneni..