Abantwana kufuneka bafunde imida kwaye izenzo zabo zinemiphumo. Yiyo loo nto abazali xa bejamelene nokuziphatha ngokungathobeli okanye isenzo esibi besebenzisa isohlwayo njengendlela yokufundisa abantwana babo. Kodwa ukuba yenziwe ngendlela engalunganga, inokuba yinto engenziwanga ngakumbi kunenzuzo. Fumanisa ukuba njani ukohlwaya ngendlela yemfundo.
Ayizizo zonke izohlwayo ezilungileyo, ezinye zineziphumo ezibi kwixesha elifutshane nelide. Ukwazi ukuba kuya kusenza sazi ngakumbi ngezenzo zethu njengabafundisi.
Ungabohlwayi njani abantwana
- Ukohlwaya ngokwasemzimbeni. Ngethamsanqa, kule minyaka idlulileyo, izinto ezazisenziwa ngaphambili kwimfundo yabantwana zazingavumelekanga. KUNYEIsohlwayo esingokwasemzimbeni ukongeza kokungabikho mthethweni sibi kwaphela. Abantwana bafunda oko bakufundiswayo, kwaye Bayakufunda ukuba xa umntu esenza into angathandi ukuyilungisa ngenkani.
- Isohlwayo esingafaniyo. Into elungileyo kukubeka ngokulinganayo, ikhonkrithi kunye neziphumo ezinqunyelwe ngexesha.
- Ukohlwaya ngokufika nokuhamba. Ukuba ubeka kwaye uphakamisa isohlwayo, sukumangaliswa kukuba ulahlekelwe kukuthenjwa.
- Ukohlwaya ngomlomo. Ukubiza igama kuyingozi ebantwaneni njengempama okanye nangaphezulu. Ukungafaneleki emntwini wakho kunokutyalwa njengembewu eya kukhula kwaye ikurhuqele kubomi bakho abadala. "Uyisidenge" okanye "umbi" unokumakisha umntwana ngonaphakade.
- Ukohlwaya emva kwexesha. Isohlwayo kufuneka sibe kuloo ndawo ukuze siqale ukusebenza. Iziphumo mazibe kwangoko.
- Ukohlwaya ngokobuqu. Yeyona ixhaphakileyo. Ukushiya umntwana ungakhange ubukele umabonwakude, ngaphandle kokuya ngaphandle, ngaphandle kwento yokudlala ... akusoloko kusebenza kakhulu kuba umntwana unokuyibuyisela enye into emonwabisa.
Imiphumo emibi yokohlwaya
Ukuba sisebenzisa ukohlwaya (ngokuthetha okanye ngokwasemzimbeni) ngendlela yesiqhelo kunye nokugqithileyo, siyazibhenca kwiziphumo ebezingalindelekanga ezimbi emntwaneni kwixesha elifutshane nelide:
- Ixhoba. Banokuqhela ukohlwaywa kwaye babacinge ngaphandle kokubuza nantoni na. Unokuba neengxaki ngokuzithemba, uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo. Thobela ngenxa yoloyiko.
- Ubundlongondlongo. Ufundile ukuba ukufumana into kwabanye kufuneka ungxolise, wohlwaye okanye ubethe. Ucinga ukuba bazakuziphatha njani xa sele bekhulile? Ewe, ngokufanayo. Uya kulungelelanisa ezo patheni zabazali bakho ukuze unxibelelane nabanye.
- Ubuhlobo obuthathaka nabazali bakhe. Ukuba imfundo isekwe kuloyiko, ubudlelwane bomzali nomntwana buya kuba njalo kusekelwe kukungathembani nenzondo.
- Ukuphulukana nenkuthazo yangaphakathi. Njengoko sibonile kwamanye amanqaku, inkuthazo engaphakathi yeyona inamandla ikhoyo. Yinkuthazo yangaphakathi yokuba umntu ngamnye kuthi enze izinto ezithile. Ukuba sisohlwaya rhoqo, singena kwindawo eyingozi yokwenza ukuba abantwana benze izinto bodwa ngenxa yokoyika iziphumo kodwa hayi ngokuzithandela.
Ufundisa njani ekusetyenzisweni kweziphumo
Ukohlwaya kufuneka kubonwe hayi njengendlela yokwenza umntwana azive embi kodwa njenge Ukusetyenziswa kweziphumo. Ukuze ifundise, abantwana kufuneka baqonde ukuba kutheni neziphumo zokuziphatha kwabo. Mabakhuthaze ukufunda, kwaye kufuneka kujongwe ukuba babe nesiphumo semfundo.
Kuya kufuneka iqondwe ngakumbi njengesivumelwano okanye isivumelwano: ukuba injongo ethile elungileyo iyaphunyezwa, kuyavuzwa kwaye ukuba isimilo esingafanelekanga siyenziwa, into elungileyo iyasuswa.
- Kufuneka ilungelelaniswe, ikhawuleze kwaye ingaguquguquki. Kufuneka ilingane nokuziphatha gwenxa, kusetyenziswe kwangoko, kwaye kunxulumene nesenzo. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu ofikisayo akaphumeleli kuvavanyo, kufuneka afunde iiyure ezi-2 ngosuku. Inxulumene, iyahambelana kwaye ikhawuleza.
- Ukuvumelana. Baya kuba nemfundo ukuba babethethile ngaphambili nabantwana okanye abafikisayo, Ngale ndlela baya kuba noxanduva lwezenzo zabo.
- Izinto ezingekho phantsi kwezinto. Eyona nto intle kukuba ayizizo izinto eziphathekayo onokuthi ubeke endaweni yazo kwabanye. Kuya kusoloko kulungile ukuzama amanyathelo axabisa okuthile (vuka kwakusasa, funda iiyure ezingama-x ngemini, ...).
- Kufuneka zisoloko zizaliseka. Ngaphandle koko umsebenzi wayo wezemfundo awuyi kuba naxabiso. Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka balingane, ukuba bafuna kakhulu siya kulingeka ukuba siyiphakamise.
- Zisebenzise ngokuzolileyo. Ukuba unomsindo kakhulu thatha umphefumlo kancinci uze ucinge. Okwangoku singabeka isohlwayo esibaxekileyo kakhulu ukuba kamva siyakufuna ukuthamba kwaye iinzame zethu ziya kuba lilize.
Kwindima yethu kwezemfundo kufuneka sibe nomonde. Abantwana abaze nencwadana yemiyalelo kwaye sizisa ubhaka onamava amaninzi nabazali bethu angangabi yeyona nto ibalaseleyo. Kufuneka sifunde.
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