Ungasenza njani isidlo sangokuhlwa sothando njengesibini njengabazali

Isidlo sothando kunye neqabane lakho

Ukunyamekela ubudlelwane Isisiseko sokufezekisa imvisiswano kunye nentlalontle yosapho. Xa abantwana befika, ubudlelwane buya buwohloka, ngamanye amaxesha buninzi kwaye ngamanye amaxesha buncinci, kodwa ngandlela thile, utshintsho kwi ubomi besi sibini iphela ithatha uxanduva kubudlelwane. Nangona kunjalo, ngomzamo omncinci kunokwenzeka ukugcina idangatye lothando luphilile.

Ukuba nesidlo sangokuhlwa sothando kunye neqabane lakho ngalo lonke ixesha kunokuba sisiqalo esihle. Kodwa ukuze isebenze ngokwenyani kwaye isebenze njengekhonkco lokudibanisa, kuyimfuneko ukuba ezinye izitshixo zifezekiswe. Umzekelo, Lwela umfanekiso wesidlo sangokuhlwa esikhethekileyo, nokuba uza kubanjelwa ekhaya. Kuba akukho mfuneko yokuba uphume uye kwindawo yokutyela uyokutya isidlo sangokuhlwa, kodwa kuyafuneka ukuba ube nesimo sengqondo sonke ukuze kungabi ngomnye umzuzu oqhelekileyo.

Izitshixo zokuququzelela isidlo sangokuhlwa sothando kunye neqabane lakho

Ukuba unoncedo lokukhathalela abantwana amaxesha ngamaxesha, ungonwabela ingokuhlwa yothando wedwa ngokuzola okungakumbi. Kodwa ukuba oku akunjalo, akukho mfuneko yokuba unikezele ngala maxesha, kuya kufuneka uququzelele ngcono kwaye ulinde umzuzu ofanelekileyo. Nazi izitshixo zokuququzelela isidlo sangokuhlwa sothando njengesibini kwaye niphumelele.

  • Yila imenyu ekhethekileyo: Libala Izidlo sangokuhlwa iindlela ezithathwa yonke imihla, zama ukufumana into ekhethekileyo ngakumbi ukophula inkqubo. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ibe sisidlo esikhulu Olungenaxesha lalo, ukuba yinto eyahlukileyo iya kwanela.
  • Lungisa itafile entle: Akukho nto Ukuzonwabisa ngakumbi kunokutya kwitafile ephantsi phambi kweTV. Qhekeza ngesiqhelo kwaye ulungise itafile ekhethekileyo, kunye nelaphu letafile, kunye neglasi zewayini, amanye amakhandlela awongeza ubushushu kwindalo esingqongileyo kunye neentyatyambo okanye indawo ephambili.
  • Abantwana ebhediniUkophula inkqubo kukwathetha ukutshintsha ixesha lesidlo, oko kukuthi, linda bade balele abantwana ukuqala ngesidlo sothando njengesibini.
  • Ukubonakala komzimba kubalulekileNgaba unokucinga ngesidlo sangokuhlwa kwindawo yokutyela entle enxibe iimpahla zakho zasekhaya? Yinto engenakucingwa leyo nakubani na, nokuba kusisidlo sangokuhlwa ekhaya, unako zilungiselele ukuba zibaluleke kakhulu.

Incoko esondeleyo

Libala malunga neengxaki zemihla ngemihla okomzuzwana, indlela abaziphathe ngayo abantwana okanye ukuba luye njani usuku esikolweni okanye emsebenzini. Emva kokubeka imood, ngothando lwamakhandlela kunye neentyatyambo, umabonwakude ucinyiwe kunye nomculo othambileyo ngasemva, lixesha lokuba ukhumbuze iqabane lakho ngazo zonke izinto ezintle akwenzela zona, usapho.

Ukwakha usapho akukho lula, ukuwenza uzinze kwaye nokudala umanyano olungenakuqhekeka ngumsebenzi osisigxina kuwo onke amalungu kufuneka abandakanyeke. Kodwa Umanyano lwesibini yinto ekufuneka yomelezwe imihla ngemihla, ukukhumbula iimpawu zomnye umntu, yintoni eyenze ukuba uthandane kwaye umkhethe njengotata okanye umama wabantwana bakho.

Ngexesha lesidlo sangokuhlwa, thintela ukuza nemixholo enokukhokelela kungxabano, kuba ukungavisisani kuya kuhlala kusekusasa. Lo mzuzu ngowenu nobabini, ukukhumbula loo maxesha okuqala njengesibini, ukukhumbula izicwangciso ezenziwa kudala ngaphambi kokuba uyeke ukuba babini. Kuba amaxesha amaninzi, ezo zicwangciso zishiywa ngasemva ngenxa yenyani elula yokungazi ukuba ungalifumana njani ixesha lokuzenza.

Naliphi na ixesha lilungile

Ukuba kukho ithemba kwaye ukuba kukho umnqweno, naliphi na ixesha kulungile ukuba nesidlo sangokuhlwa sothando kunye neqabane lakho. Kuba ukuphuculwa kwakhona kuyinxalenye yobomiKuba xa unabantwana, yonke into ayisoloko ihamba njengoko bekucwangcisiwe. Ukwabelana ngepitsa elula kunokujika kube sisidlo sangokuhlwa sothando. Funda ukusebenzisa la mathuba angalindelekanga obonelelwa bubomi bemihla ngemihla ukomeleza ubudlelwane bakho neqabane lakho.


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