Indlela yokuchaza ukufa kumntwana ngokwemvelo

umama ecacisela intombi yakhe ngokusweleka komntu amthandayo

Ukufa kuyinxalenye yobomi, kuphela kwesiqinisekiso esinaso. Ukuchazela umntwana ngokufa kulucelomngeni kuba simele sivisisanise ingcaciso nengqiqo yakhe nangokweemvakalelo.

Kubalulekile ukunxibelelana neendaba ngokukhawuleza, ngokuphandle kwaye ngaphandle kobuxoki. Okulandelayo sikubonisa indlela yokuchaza ukufa kumntwana ngokwendalo kwaye sinikezela ngezixhobo zokuqonda ngcono intlungu yobuntwana.

Ukuchaza njani ukufa emntwaneni ngokwemvelo?

Abantwana bajonga ubomi njengento ephantse ibe ngunaphakade yaye batyekele ekukuboneni ukufa njengento engaqhelekanga kwindawo abahlala kuyo. Abantu abadala badla ngokukufumanisa kunzima ukucacisela umntwana ngokufa yaye ngokufuthi bayakuphepha ukuthetha okanye bade baxoke, impazamo esifanele siyiphephe. Iingcali zengqondo yabantwana zincoma ukujongana nalo mbandela ngokuhlala uhamba nenyaniso phambili kwaye ngaphandle kokulibazisa.

ukuxoka yinto yokugqibela kuba oko kuya kuphelisa ukuthenjwa ngumntwana kubazali bakhe, amanani abacinga ukuba bangumzekelo. Masizikhwebuleni izithuko kwaye sithethe inyani kwenzeke ntoni ngovakalelo nangokwamandla abo.

Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela iminyaka yomntwana

Ukuchazela umntwana ngokufa, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba athathele ingqalelo iminyaka yakhe, ukulungelelanisa amandla omzuzu obalulekileyo apho akhoyo:

  • Abantwana kunye nabantwana abancinci (0 kunye 2 iminyaka)  Abakuqondi ukufa kodwa bayakwazi ukuzazi iimvakalelo zabo babanyamekelayo. Kubalulekile ukuba umntu omdala azi ngeemvakalelo zakhe kwaye azivumele ukuba adlule kwi-duel, kuba ngale ndlela baya kukwazi ukudlulisela ibhalansi yabo kumntwana. Kuyacetyiswa gcina iinkqubo kunye ukunxibelelana ngokomzimba nabantwana ukuze babanike intuthuzelo abayifunayo.
  • Phakathi Iminyaka ye-2 kunye ne-6 abantwana bakhupha iqela lemibuzo malunga nokusingqongileyo kwaye kufuneka sizilungiselele phendula imibuzo yakho ngokucacileyo kangangoko. Ukuba umntwana wakho ukubuza ukuba uza kubuya nini ilungu lentsapho elingasekhoyo, apho liye khona, njl. njl., sukumphendula ngamazwi athi “uhambe eluhambeni” oko kuya kumbhida umntwana. Kufuneka sicace kwaye sichaze ngokucacileyo ukuba lo mntu "udlulile kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba asiyi kuphinda sikwazi ukubabona." Bamele baqonde ukuba ukufa yinto engenakuguqulwa.
  • Entre I-6 ukuya kwi-10 iminyaka  ukukwazi ukuqiqa mkhulu kwaye abanye basenokubonakalisa umdla wokuya emingcwabeni. Kuya kuba kuhle ukulivumela lo gama nje sibacacisele kwangaphambili oko liya kuqukwa yaye lisoloko lihamba nabo yaye siphendula ngokucacileyo nayiphi na imibuzo enokuvela.
  • Kubudala bangaphambili (I-10 ukuya kwi-13 iminyaka) sinokunika iingcaciso ezicacileyo. Ukongeza, ngeli xesha siza kubamela umzekelo wendlela yokudlula kwi-duel, ngaloo ndlela sibanike ixabiso elikhulu le-duel. ukwamkela intlungu ngenxa yelahleko ebomini.

Ukuqonda intlungu yobuntwana

intombazana ehamba ngeduel

Abantwana-njengabantu abadala-kuya kufuneka badlule ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo izigaba zokuzila ngenxa yokufelwa ngumntu omthandayo. Ngeli xesha kufuneka sibe nomonde kakhulu kwaye sibe novelwano kubo, sibaxhase kuyo yonke into abayidingayo.

Inkwenkwe iya kudlula iintlobo ngeentlobo zeemvakalelo ngexesha elifutshane kakhulu. Ukuqhankqalaza, ukucaphuka, uloyiko, ukuphuthelwa, ukukhala, imibuzo kwaye ekugqibeleni ubuyele kwimeko yesiqhelo. Umntwana ngamnye wahlukile kwaye uya kuba nohambo lwakhe kule nkqubo. Masiqwalasele ukuvela kwayo kwaye ukuba iimpawu azitshintshi, siya kwingcali.

Buyela kwisiqhelo

Emva kokusweleka komntu othandekayo kuya kubaluleka ukuqhubeka neenkqubo zemihla ngemihla kuba oku kubonelela a indawo ekhuselekileyo kumntwana omncinci okwenza kube lula ukudlula kwintlungu ngendlela yendalo neyobuhlobo.

Kukwacetyiswa ukuba abantu abajongana nabo yonke imihla, abafana nootitshala okanye abanonopheli, bayayazi ilahleko, kungoko siya kuseka ijelo unxibelelwano uzinzile ukulandela inguquko encinci.


Yayama kumabali njengomthombo wengqondo-pedagogical

Amabali sisixhobo esiluncedo kakhulu ekuchazeni ukufa emntwaneni kuba kuwo sifumana izinto ezininzi ezinokuthi yenza kube lula ukuyiqonda: Imizekeliso nemizekelo enceda ukubeka amagama kwiingcinga ezintsonkothileyo neemvakalelo abangaziqondiyo abantwana. Ngale ndlela siya kubenza badibanise ilahleko ngendlela enobubele ngokunjalo yongeza ixabiso kwimfundo yakho.

Umzekeliso webali labantwana ukuchaza ukusweleka komntu omthandayo

Sibonile indlela yokuchaza ukufa kumntwana ngokwemvelo Ngumsebenzi ontsokothileyo ngenxa yomceli mngeni obandakanya wona, kodwa kwangaxeshanye lithuba lokukhula kosana. Kwaye masikhumbule ukuba ukungafihli kunye nokunyaniseka kuya kuhlala kuyeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuchaza ukufa emntwaneni.


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